dumb comment vent

a former coworker friend and i go for a walk, and we see another pregnant coworker due a couple of weeks before me.. and my friend goes, "wow, she's due before you and you can't even tell by her belly at all, she is doing so good" umm, yes because I was 5'3 and 115 lbs soaking wet.. while my preggo coworker was much bigger than me in height and weight .. so where do you think I'm going to carry? And few mins later she goes.. "with both my pregnancies, i didn't show until my 8 month".. biznitch, i'm 7 months and again, I'm ***** smaller than you too, and I'm wearing a sundress where you can see my belly.. you were wrapped up in bulky sweaters and jackets for both your pregnancies..

seriously.. w*t*f is wrong with people.. I'm right on target with my weight and crying out loud, I still fit into some of my pre pregnancy clothes.. vent over

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I'm small also and at 11 weeks I am growing already! I have a feeling I might be watermelon huge by the end

I think it's great to have a nice big belly. You're pregnant! I'd be more upset if I wasn't showing and people couldn't tell. If people know I'm pregnant I want to look pregnant :) Screw your co-worker. She's probably jealous. Who doesn't think a belly is fabulous at 7 months?!?!

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Ugh don't even worrry about it. People say some of the rudest things. I agree she is probably jealous or just miserable in her own life.

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and last time I checked, just because someone isn't showing as much doesn't mean they're "DOING SO GOOD!!" or better than anyone else for that matter!!

some people just need a smack in the head!!!!!!!!!!!

I know that picture has a diff meaning, but it's like what I think should happen to ppl with stupid comments!! LOL

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Posted by BigSmooch

I'm small also and at 11 weeks I am growing already! I have a feeling I might be watermelon huge by the end

I think it's great to have a nice big belly. You're pregnant! I'd be more upset if I wasn't showing and people couldn't tell. If people know I'm pregnant I want to look pregnant :) Screw your co-worker. She's probably jealous. Who doesn't think a belly is fabulous at 7 months?!?!

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thanks guys.. is it.. I need me some chocolate now..

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OMG I had to defend someone at work about this not too long ago. This woman was talking about how big this girl's belly was and how she wasn't as far along as she looked. I had to explain to her that this girl is TINY so of course her belly looks bigger! The baby doesn't have enough room. People are dumb, try not to let it bother you too much

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I dont even let comments like that get to me. Its not worth my energy.

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ugh some people just are very insensitive and most likely jealous/unhappy with their lives. it's good to be showing. baby bumps are so cute! don't let this rude person get you down

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I posted a very similar vent a few weeks ago. Co-worker as well. Pi$$ed me off so bad. I just don't understand what goes through peoples heads. Not everyone carries the same. And when you are small, where do you expect the baby to go!!!!! Just makes me want to kick them in the shins.