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dr called...updated 8/15

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DeniseMarie
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Re: dr called...updated 8/8

i am a carrier also and I know exactly what you are going through. I was freaking out.

However, the chances of your Dh being a carrier are very slim. Also - even if he is, it doesnt mean 100% that the baby will have it. The baby will def be a carrier but there is only a 1 in 4 chance that the baby with actually have CF

So get DH tested as soon as possible, I have a feeling it will be a positive outcome and then you can relax and enjoy the rest of your pregnnacy!

Posted 8/8/08 11:03 AM
 
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CkGm
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Re: dr called...updated 8/8

Awww... don't worry too much! The chances of your DH being a carrier also are pretty rareChat Icon

Posted 8/8/08 11:31 AM
 

hmm8191
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Re: dr called...updated 8/8

You're in my prayers. As everyone is saying the chances of him being a carrier are pretty slim but I don't blame you for being upset. How long will it take to get him tested and have the results?

Posted 8/8/08 11:48 AM
 

zia
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Re: dr called...updated 8/8

Posted by hmm8191

You're in my prayers. As everyone is saying the chances of him being a carrier are pretty slim but I don't blame you for being upset. How long will it take to get him tested and have the results?



he is getting tested tomorrow...so hopefully by next week we will know...thanks again ladies for your support...it is really helpful to know i am not the only person that is a cf carrier

Posted 8/8/08 11:50 AM
 

Goobster
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Re: dr called...updated 8/8

Posted by zia

Posted by hmm8191

You're in my prayers. As everyone is saying the chances of him being a carrier are pretty slim but I don't blame you for being upset. How long will it take to get him tested and have the results?



he is getting tested tomorrow...so hopefully by next week we will know...thanks again ladies for your support...it is really helpful to know i am not the only person that is a cf carrier



I had a feeling this might be why she called. It has happened to many of us on here.

My DH is a carrier, I am not. Odds are your DH is not a carrier. Also even if he was, there would only be a 25% chance the baby would actually have the disease.

You are not alone. There are so many of us who were in this position . Chat Icon

Posted 8/8/08 12:10 PM
 

Goobster
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Re: dr called...updated 8/8

Posted by DeniseMarie

The baby will def be a carrier but there is only a 1 in 4 chance that the baby with actually have CF




D, baby would not even def be a carrier. Even if both parents had the CF gene, there would always be a 25% chance the baby isn't even a carrier.

If one parent has the CF gene, there is a 50% chance the baby will or will not be a carrier.

So odds are great all will be ok anyway!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Message edited 8/8/2008 12:16:57 PM.

Posted 8/8/08 12:13 PM
 

Goldi0218
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Re: dr called...updated 8/8

You will be in my thoughts and prayers.Chat Icon

Posted 8/8/08 12:16 PM
 

asecretposter
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Re: dr called...updated 8/8

DH is a carrier for CF, I am not. So of course we did not know there was a risk of CF carrier for DC until after. We had to go get the sweat tests w/DC & he is also a carrier. In order for it to be a concern, according to the genetic counselor we saw, both parents would have to be a carrier of the same "type" of CF gene for it to be a concern.

Definitely talk to a genetic counselor in addition to your OB.Chat Icon

Posted 8/9/08 9:40 AM
 

TLC1018
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Re: dr called...updated 8/8

Good luck!!!!Chat Icon

Posted 8/9/08 9:55 AM
 

junebride06
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Re: dr called...updated 8/8

DON'T WORRY! Same thing happened to ME! It was the 1st test to come back, the odds of DH being a carrier as well is so slim. Instead of waiting for the lab slip I had DH go the next day to our family doctor and we had the results not too long after that he was negative!

Posted 8/9/08 10:17 AM
 

JandJ1224

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Re: dr called...updated 8/8

I know how you feel as I also tested positive. Thank god my husband was not a carrier. I will pray yours isn't.

Posted 8/9/08 11:49 AM
 

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Re: dr called...updated 8/8

My SIL is 12 weeks pregnant and she just found out she is a carrier. My brother was tested and everything is ok. I hope the same results come for you!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/9/08 12:49 PM
 

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Posted 8/9/08 4:17 PM
 

Alli06
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Re: dr called...updated 8/8

Is this test automatically done with your first blood work?
I'm sure everything will be fine. Try not to worry so much before you know the final result.Chat Icon Chat Icon

Message edited 8/9/2008 7:16:54 PM.

Posted 8/9/08 7:15 PM
 

juju
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Re: dr called...updated 8/8

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon praying that everything will be fine!

Posted 8/9/08 7:19 PM
 

zia
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Re: dr called...updated 8/8

Posted by Alli06

Is this test automatically done with your first blood work?
I'm sure everything will be fine. Try not to worry so much before you know the final result.Chat Icon Chat Icon



I believe so...you know they took some many little containers of blood i really should have asked what all the tests were but i didnt

thanks ladies for all your prayers and kind words...DH got tested yesterday so hopefully we will find out some time next week

Posted 8/10/08 10:44 AM
 

zia
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Re: dr called...updated 8/15

bump for the update

Posted 8/15/08 11:58 AM
 

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Re: dr called...updated 8/15

So happy to hear this!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/15/08 12:03 PM
 

GraciesMom
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Re: dr called...updated 8/15

Great news!

Posted 8/15/08 12:04 PM
 

MsMBV
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Re: dr called...updated 8/15

Posted by zia
UPDATE: I just spoke to the dr and my husband is not a carrier whoo hoo Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon
Thanks again for you all your supportive words and positive vibes!

Chat Icon That is great news.

Posted 8/15/08 12:04 PM
 

Goobster
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Re: dr called...updated 8/15

YAY!!!!

Great news! Congrats!!!!

Posted 8/15/08 1:22 PM
 

MandyK07
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Re: dr called...updated 8/15

Great news! DH and I went through the same thing...I was a carrier of CF and we had to wait TWO weeks to find out if he was and he wasn't! They do say it is very rare that both are carriers, but glad to hear it! yay!

Posted 8/15/08 1:29 PM
 

junebride06
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Re: dr called...updated 8/15

great news, huge relief isn't it, we went through same thing!

Message edited 8/15/2008 2:28:12 PM.

Posted 8/15/08 2:27 PM
 
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