Well if we ask God that question this is his answer........

Love is patient
Love is kind
It is not jealous or conceited or proud,
Love is not ill-mannered or selfesh or irritable.
Love does not keep record of wrongs
Love is not happy with evil, but is happy with the truth.
Love NEVER GIVES UP, and its faith, hope, and patience NEVER FAIL.
LOVE IS ETERNAL. 1 corinthians 13:4

I quess he is talking about true love.