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QuoteTheRaven424
22 Months?!!!!
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Re: Did your DH have a bachalor party?
it was just an open discussion we had
it wasn't necessary per se, but it was a good foundation
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WoodIAm
My Boys!
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JoAnne
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Re: Did your DH have a bachalor party?
DH's family and most of his friends are in the Boston area, so they rented a bus to take them to Foxwood, where they rented a meeting room, had dinner then gambled. There aren't too many men in our family so it was just his.
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| Posted 11/15/05 3:57 PM |
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LadyMaravilla
Fall Is Here
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Sonia
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Re: Did your DH have a bachalor party?
Posted by Elbee
Can I ask a silly question? Do people actually need to "set" boundaries? Don't most people know what acceptable behavior is already? I mean I don't have to tell my DH not to get a happy ending or a BJ or to touch someone's nipples ... his own belief system and morales are in place to prevent such acts from happening already.  DH doesn't need to tell me not to squeeze someone elses b@lls or have some stripper kiss on my neck, it's a given.
Lisa...I had to laugh when I read this. You crack me up. I think it's not about laying down the laws, but some pople may be ok w/ touching. I don't know.
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| Posted 11/15/05 3:57 PM |
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QuoteTheRaven424
22 Months?!!!!
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Re: Did your DH have a bachalor party?
Posted by LadyLainez
Posted by Elbee
Can I ask a silly question? Do people actually need to "set" boundaries? Don't most people know what acceptable behavior is already? I mean I don't have to tell my DH not to get a happy ending or a BJ or to touch someone's nipples ... his own belief system and morales are in place to prevent such acts from happening already. DH doesn't need to tell me not to squeeze someone elses b@lls or have some stripper kiss on my neck, it's a given.
Lisa...I had to laugh when I read this. You crack me up. I think it's not about laying down the laws, but some pople may be ok w/ touching. I don't know.
yeah, boosh didn't mind me touching
certain areas were out of the question and some areas were in-bounds
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| Posted 11/15/05 3:58 PM |
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Elbee
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Re: Did your DH have a bachalor party?
alright, point taken. Maybe I took it too literally but when someone says "laying down the law" to "I set the boundaries", I think to myself - I cannot imagine having to actually say the words "OK honey, you can go, but please no hand jobs tonight, ok?" 
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| Posted 11/15/05 3:59 PM |
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LadyMaravilla
Fall Is Here
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Sonia
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Re: Did your DH have a bachalor party?
yeah, boosh didn't mind me touching
certain areas were out of the question and some areas were in-bounds
you're one of the luckiest guys alive...I would be pi$$ed if DH was touching some stripper...
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| Posted 11/15/05 4:00 PM |
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Janice
Sweet Jessie Quinn
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Re: Did your DH have a bachalor party?
Posted by LadyLainez
Lisa...I had to laugh when I read this. You crack me up. I think it's not about laying down the laws, but some pople may be ok w/ touching. I don't know.
I agree. I think it is a learning and growing process. Different strokes for different folks. Maybe you think something is acceptable that your spouse does not. I would rather discuss ahead of time. In general to me, marriage=no strippers. I was glad DH felt the same. But others don't feel that way, so I think a communication line is necessary.
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| Posted 11/15/05 4:01 PM |
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Janice
Sweet Jessie Quinn
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Janice
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Re: Did your DH have a bachalor party?
Posted by Elbee
I cannot imagine having to actually say the words "OK honey, you can go, but please no hand jobs tonight, ok?"
I wonder if that should be a 7th heaven episode!
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| Posted 11/15/05 4:01 PM |
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Janice
Sweet Jessie Quinn
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Re: Did your DH have a bachalor party?
Posted by LadyLainez
yeah, boosh didn't mind me touching
certain areas were out of the question and some areas were in-bounds
you're one of the luckiest guys alive...I would be pi$$ed if DH was touching some stripper...
me too.
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| Posted 11/15/05 4:02 PM |
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QuoteTheRaven424
22 Months?!!!!
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Re: Did your DH have a bachalor party?
Posted by LadyLainez
yeah, boosh didn't mind me touching
certain areas were out of the question and some areas were in-bounds
you're one of the luckiest guys alive...I would be pi$$ed if DH was touching some stripper...
it was for my party ONLY - -now the rule is, look but don't touch
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| Posted 11/15/05 4:02 PM |
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Janice
Sweet Jessie Quinn
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Janice
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Re: Did your DH have a bachalor party?
Posted by CaptainCharisma424
it was for my party ONLY - -now the rule is, look but don't touch
are they allowed to touch you?
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| Posted 11/15/05 4:03 PM |
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LadyMaravilla
Fall Is Here
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Sonia
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Re: Did your DH have a bachalor party?
it was for my party ONLY - -now the rule is, look but don't touch
Oh, so it was a once in a lifetime opportunity? Now, I see.
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| Posted 11/15/05 4:04 PM |
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QuoteTheRaven424
22 Months?!!!!
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Re: Did your DH have a bachalor party?
Posted by LadyLainez
it was for my party ONLY - -now the rule is, look but don't touch
Oh, so it was a once in a lifetime opportunity? Now, I see.
EXACTLY
yeah, let me clarify, it was ONLY for my bachelor party that the touching rule was waived. And that was only T&A. No sexual acts were allowed at all.
Now, in the very rare case where I am in the presence of strippers, no lap dances and no touching. Looking only.
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| Posted 11/15/05 4:08 PM |
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LadyMaravilla
Fall Is Here
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Sonia
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Re: Did your DH have a bachalor party?
EXACTLY
yeah, let me clarify, it was ONLY for my bachelor party that the touching rule was waived. And that was only T&A. No sexual acts were allowed at all.
Now, in the very rare case where I am in the presence of strippers, no lap dances and no touching. Looking only.
I allow same thing w/ dh...look at the goods but no sampling!! 
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| Posted 11/15/05 4:10 PM |
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QuoteTheRaven424
22 Months?!!!!
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Re: Did your DH have a bachalor party?
Posted by LadyLainez
EXACTLY
yeah, let me clarify, it was ONLY for my bachelor party that the touching rule was waived. And that was only T&A. No sexual acts were allowed at all.
Now, in the very rare case where I am in the presence of strippers, no lap dances and no touching. Looking only.
I allow same thing w/ dh...look at the goods but no sampling!!
and that is fine
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| Posted 11/15/05 4:11 PM |
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Janice
Sweet Jessie Quinn
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Janice
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Re: Did your DH have a bachalor party?
hey Don, were any of Boosh's relatives present for yours?
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| Posted 11/15/05 4:17 PM |
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QuoteTheRaven424
22 Months?!!!!
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Re: Did your DH have a bachalor party?
Posted by Janice
hey Don, were any of Boosh's relatives present for yours?
no -- but i told boosh everything that went on
Message edited 11/15/2005 4:18:19 PM.
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Janice
Sweet Jessie Quinn
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Janice
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Re: Did your DH have a bachalor party?
Posted by CaptainCharisma424
Posted by Janice
hey Don, were any of Boosh's relatives present for yours?
no -- but i told boosh everything that went on
oh no..I think you are an honest guy. just wondering if inlaws attend, are strippers still present?
thanks for answering.
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| Posted 11/15/05 4:19 PM |
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QuoteTheRaven424
22 Months?!!!!
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Re: Did your DH have a bachalor party?
Posted by Janice
Posted by CaptainCharisma424
Posted by Janice
hey Don, were any of Boosh's relatives present for yours?
no -- but i told boosh everything that went on
oh no..I think you are an honest guy. just wondering if inlaws attend, are strippers still present?
thanks for answering.
to be honest, my FIL is a very conservative guy and i knew he would be uncomfortable so i did not invite him - it would have made me uncomforable too. My father was not there either.
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| Posted 11/15/05 4:21 PM |
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Janice
Sweet Jessie Quinn
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Re: Did your DH have a bachalor party?
Posted by CaptainCharisma424
to be honest, my FIL is a very conservative guy and i knew he would be uncomfortable so i did not invite him - it would have made me uncomforable too. My father was not there either.
gotcha, thanks!
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Sweetpea130000
My Love!
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Shandra
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Re: Did your DH have a bachalor party?
he had one and got totally smashed, my cousin was there
there is going to be a dinner on Thursday for some people that couldn't make the official bachelor party, I will be there for dinner, but the guys are going out alone after. won't be too crazy as all but 1 have to work on Friday
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| Posted 11/15/05 4:30 PM |
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CaseyGirl
Mommy to 3 Boys :)
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Re: Did your DH have a bachalor party?
Yes, he went to a comedy club and out to dinner with his brother and some buddies
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| Posted 11/15/05 4:38 PM |
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btrflygrl
me and baby #3!
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Shana
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Re: Did your DH have a bachelor party?
mine did...they got him a party bus, gave him a blow up doll to walk around with all night that had a tee shirt they all signed, gave him toy rings and told him to "propose" to a girl in every bar they went to....
and he had 2 beers the WHOLE NIGHT...came home around 4am I think.....
his GM were BLASTED
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| Posted 11/15/05 6:07 PM |
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boosh1002
We like hanging together!
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Re: Did your DH have a bachelor party?
My hubby never had it so good!!! Yes I am a very lient wife
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neenie
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Re: Did your DH have a bachelor party?
yup. 
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