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Redhead
You Live, You Learn
Member since 5/05 31871 total posts
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Jennifer
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Bachelor Party Spin
What about the B-parties that are for the weekend?
Like Vegas? or Cancun
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Posted 8/11/05 6:53 PM  |
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MrsERod
Praying for Everyone.
Member since 5/05 26170 total posts
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MrsERod™®
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Re: Bachelor Party Spin
NOT!
eta: and it has NOTHING to do with NOT trusting my DH!!!
Message edited 8/11/2005 7:58:03 PM.
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| Posted 8/11/05 6:53 PM |
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Redhead
You Live, You Learn
Member since 5/05 31871 total posts
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Jennifer
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Re: Bachelor Party Spin
yea i have to say i am sooo not into that one
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| Posted 8/11/05 6:58 PM |
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Re: Bachelor Party Spin
ummmmmm...NO!
My whole take on that changed when I took a "girls weekend" trip to Myrtle Beach and saw all the MARRIED men there on golf trips that were hitting on us!!
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| Posted 8/11/05 7:00 PM |
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MrsERod
Praying for Everyone.
Member since 5/05 26170 total posts
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MrsERod™®
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Re: Bachelor Party Spin
Posted by Scotty-CassidysMom
ummmmmm...NO!
My whole take on that changed when I took a "girls weekend" trip to Myrtle Beach and saw all the MARRIED men there on golf trips that were hitting on us!!
soooo glad my DH HATES golf!!!! 
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| Posted 8/11/05 7:00 PM |
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Dani
Life is about choices.
Member since 5/05 6532 total posts
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Dani
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Re: Bachelor Party Spin
me and DH both took separate trips to vegas!
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| Posted 8/11/05 7:07 PM |
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Stefanie
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Member since 5/05 23599 total posts
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Stefanie
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Re: Bachelor Party Spin
NO!!!
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| Posted 8/11/05 7:11 PM |
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Elbee
Zanzibar
Member since 5/05 10767 total posts
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Me
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Re: Bachelor Party Spin
I wouldn't mind.
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| Posted 8/11/05 7:12 PM |
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jar823
LIF Infant
Member since 7/05 231 total posts
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Jennifer
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Re: Bachelor Party Spin
NO!
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| Posted 8/11/05 7:13 PM |
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julz33
i run for bacon
Member since 5/05 20584 total posts
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julz
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Re: Bachelor Party Spin
I wouldn't be thrilled with it but I wouldn't tell him he can't go either. I trust him completely...2 years ago (before we were married) he went to one in Vegas... but I hope now that we are married he would choose himself not to go.
ETA: Rays bachelor party was a weekend in Atlantic City.. I went to the hamptons with my girlsfriends for the weekend... we both had a blast!
Message edited 8/11/2005 7:37:00 PM.
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| Posted 8/11/05 7:21 PM |
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Marcie
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Re: Bachelor Party Spin
Just like Julz said - I would not be thrilled about it, but he can go. I have a feeling that DH wouldn't go - he doesn't like being away from home, unless I am with him.
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| Posted 8/11/05 7:25 PM |
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Leeners
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Eileen
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Re: Bachelor Party Spin
He was at one at the end of August (before we got married) and is planning one for his brother for whenever they get married. I don't love it, and am happy when he's home, but I would never ever "forbid" him from going. I married an adult, not a child - he can make his own decisions.
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| Posted 8/11/05 7:27 PM |
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Member since 5/05 6530 total posts
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Lisa
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Re: Bachelor Party Spin
I don't have a problem with it. Al's B-party was a few days in Vancover with the guys, and he's been to other friends B-parties in Atlantic City. etc.
I don't think the location or duration makes a difference. You either trust him, or you don't.
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| Posted 8/11/05 7:29 PM |
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Member since 5/05 6530 total posts
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Lisa
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Re: Bachelor Party Spin
Posted by Leeners
He was at one at the end of August (before we got married) and is planning one for his brother for whenever they get married. I don't love it, and am happy when he's home, but I would never ever "forbid" him from going. I married an adult, not a child - he can make his own decisions.
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| Posted 8/11/05 7:30 PM |
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Diane
Hope is Contagious....catch it
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Re: Bachelor Party Spin
NOPE
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| Posted 8/11/05 7:54 PM |
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ggt08
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Re: Bachelor Party Spin
I didnt/wouldnt like it- ex DH went away for the weekend for his bp but I dont think i had the right to tell him what to do. He wanted to go...And if I wanted to go away with the girls for the weekend, I would like the option as well.
Actually my cousin is having her bachelorette party in South Beach in October and guess who is in charge of it!!
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| Posted 8/11/05 7:57 PM |
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QuoteTheRaven424
22 Months?!!!!
Member since 5/05 13659 total posts
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And If That Isn't A True Blue Miracle
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Re: Bachelor Party Spin
Posted by Redhead
yea i have to say i am sooo not into that one
not saying i disagree with you and christina, because i agree it might be a little tougher to accept
i'm just curious, what's the difference between the one night party and the weekend that makes it different
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| Posted 8/11/05 8:09 PM |
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Moehick
Ready for the sun!
Member since 5/05 30339 total posts
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Re: Bachelor Party Spin
What would happen in a weekend could easily happen in a night....I wouldn't be thrilled but I would never forbid him
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| Posted 8/11/05 8:16 PM |
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dm24angel
Happiness
Member since 5/05 34581 total posts
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Donna
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Re: Bachelor Party Spin
Im ok with it. Im ok with it because I trust him 100% , if I didnt, I would not have married him.
I can only think people would say no because of that?
BUT that said, we are in our 30's as are our friends, so the only "weekend" trip they may take is say to vegas, and I dont see what trouble he could get into...see naked girls..thats ok, its a bachelor party, it happens, and Im not the type to worry about that stuff.
If DH is gonna say cheat...hes going to do it anywhere...and I cant control his every move or choice.
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| Posted 8/11/05 8:23 PM |
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KaRiSsA
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KARISSA
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Re: Bachelor Party Spin
We both went to South Beach for ours on seperate weekends. 
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| Posted 8/11/05 8:24 PM |
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Luvlylady
Earned My Bragging Rights!
Member since 5/05 6141 total posts
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Alexandria
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Re: Bachelor Party Spin
IDK
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| Posted 8/11/05 10:14 PM |
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MrsJ
I love my Katie Bug
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Kathy
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Re: Bachelor Party Spin
Not unles I could go with him...but then it wouldnt be much of a b-party if I was there.
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| Posted 8/11/05 10:14 PM |
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Christine
2nd verse same as the 1st
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Re: Bachelor Party Spin
It wouldn't bother me at all.
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| Posted 8/11/05 10:16 PM |
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neenie
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Re: Bachelor Party Spin
Posted by CaptainCharisma424
i'm just curious, what's the difference between the one night party and the weekend that makes it different
Ditto
Posted by Moehick
What would happen in a weekend could easily happen in a night....I wouldn't be thrilled but I would never forbid him
and Ditto.
i DISlike both ideas equally, but i think it really boils down to the Same thing. and really, i'm not a pro-BP person but how can you "allow" one, but "disallow" the other, and still consider that fair and trusting?
DH went away last summer for a BP in new orleans with 30 guys.. Yeah, i was not happy about that At All, but i felt the same way when they had the BPs locally too. In both cases, i'm not thrilled at the idea, but in Neither one would i forbid it 
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| Posted 8/11/05 10:30 PM |
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Janice
Sweet Jessie Quinn
Member since 5/05 27567 total posts
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Janice
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Re: Bachelor Party Spin
no way..who is he f'ing his friends? Mine would not even ask, what fun is being drunk if you go to bed that night horny?
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| Posted 8/11/05 10:45 PM |
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