Re: Cheating

Posted by rojerono
In this guys case he cheated on his first fiance with the chick who would become his 2nd fiance. He cheated on his 2nd fiance with a woman that he worked with and he cheated on his co-worker turned girlfriend with the woman he eventually married. He had several affairs while he was married and he met my girlfriend in a CLUB while he was still married. She started dating him and then he came clean about being married so she dumped him. He told her the usual "The marriage is in name only and for the kids..." blah blah blah. She told him that if he was truly miserable with his marriage than he should end it before they continued anything. About 3 months later he was caught cheating by his wife for the umpteenth time and she kicked him out. Then he called my friend and she told him he needed to be on his own for a few months first. He dated during that period and finally hooked back up with her. They have been dating for about 3 months and have decided to get married.

BUT he told her that he has changed and now that he is IN LOVE for the FIRST TIME IN HIS LIFE - he will never cheat.

I say... sure.

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I think she's kinda crazy if she marries him, but to each their own!! People don't change...once a cheater always a cheater. My ex boyfriend was somewhat of a cheater. I dated him knowing that he cheated on another friend back when we were in high school. I went out with him thinking that he changed. I don't know if he cheated on me or not during the three months we were together, but he was definitely a player.....I don't think he changed much at all. He will always be a ladies man and will never be willing to settle with any one because no one is ever going to be good enough for him. Someone better is always going to come along. And most likely that's what is going to happen with this guy. I give your friend a lot of guts for sticking it out and hoping that he's going to change. All the power to her!!

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No, I wouldn't.

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no way - not with that record.

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as a person who cheated on boyfriends IN THE PAST....whom has grown into a WIFE who is sick at the thought, i do think people can change. if you are with the right person, YOU DONT WANT TO CHEAT

It is up to her to decide if he is tru to her. It is a risky proposition but all hope is not lost.

I wish you friend the best.

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NO WAY!!! I doubt that he has changed. It is one thing to cheat on a girlfriend it is another to cheat on your wife and two kids.

He'll cheat on her and then say something like, "You knew what I was like when you married me."

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Not in a million years.

Re: Cheating

Posted by KittyTheStray

Posted by rojerono
In this guys case he cheated on his first fiance with the chick who would become his 2nd fiance. He cheated on his 2nd fiance with a woman that he worked with and he cheated on his co-worker turned girlfriend with the woman he eventually married. He had several affairs while he was married and he met my girlfriend in a CLUB while he was still married. She started dating him and then he came clean about being married so she dumped him. He told her the usual "The marriage is in name only and for the kids..." blah blah blah. She told him that if he was truly miserable with his marriage than he should end it before they continued anything. About 3 months later he was caught cheating by his wife for the umpteenth time and she kicked him out. Then he called my friend and she told him he needed to be on his own for a few months first. He dated during that period and finally hooked back up with her. They have been dating for about 3 months and have decided to get married.

BUT he told her that he has changed and now that he is IN LOVE for the FIRST TIME IN HIS LIFE - he will never cheat.

I say... sure.

Ummm.... with these added details, I think I'll change my answer to:
IS SHE NUTS??????