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PrincessP
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changing documents after marriage

So far I have changed my drivers license and bank acct. Ive been married 5 months. Is it an absolute necessity to keep changing things or can I hold out? I cant stand the lines!

Posted 12/30/05 2:23 PM
 
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Re: changing documents after marriage

Posted by PrincessP

So far I have changed my drivers license and bank acct. Ive been married 5 months. Is it an absolute necessity to keep changing things or can I hold out? I cant stand the lines!



The thing is...when do you think the lines are gonna get shorter?
Chat Icon If you hold out you might run into some snags...like if oyu go to pay by CC and hte cashier asks you for ID. I don't think there is any big deal in waiting though.

Posted 12/30/05 2:26 PM
 

MrsS2005
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Re: changing documents after marriage

Other than your SS card, what else do you need to wait in line for? You can even get a new SS card through the mail. That's probably the only thing I'd change now. The credit cards were easy. Except for 2 of mine, I just called the companies and they sent me a new one right away.

Posted 12/30/05 2:29 PM
 

neenie

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Re: changing documents after marriage

i feel your pain!!
i left the DMV Twice already... because if i didnt leave, i was going to punch someone!!
married 10 months- still no changes done yet Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/30/05 2:31 PM
 

PrincessP
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Re: changing documents after marriage

Posted by MrsS2005

Other than your SS card, what else do you need to wait in line for? You can even get a new SS card through the mail. That's probably the only thing I'd change now. The credit cards were easy. Except for 2 of mine, I just called the companies and they sent me a new one right away.



I didnt know that you can do SS through the mail??? I thought I had to wait on the LOOOOOOONG line that wraps around the bldg.
The DMV was a nightmare waiting and I "think" I would have to change my name on my registration and all....no? The credit cards I can handle. I am sure thats a quick phone call. Though with all the push #1, 2s and 3s...it could take a while.

Posted 12/30/05 2:42 PM
 

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Re: changing documents after marriage

Social Security although a PITA is important but Credit Cards you can do over the phone

Posted 12/30/05 2:54 PM
 

MrsS2005
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Re: changing documents after marriage

Posted by PrincessP

Posted by MrsS2005

Other than your SS card, what else do you need to wait in line for? You can even get a new SS card through the mail. That's probably the only thing I'd change now. The credit cards were easy. Except for 2 of mine, I just called the companies and they sent me a new one right away.



I didnt know that you can do SS through the mail??? I thought I had to wait on the LOOOOOOONG line that wraps around the bldg.
The DMV was a nightmare waiting and I "think" I would have to change my name on my registration and all....no? The credit cards I can handle. I am sure thats a quick phone call. Though with all the push #1, 2s and 3s...it could take a while.


Go to the SS website and they have a form you can fill out. The only annoying thing is you have to mail them your marriage certificate (but they're supposed to mail it back to you). I waited in line, but I went first thing in the morning so it wasn't as bad as it could've been.
I changed my license and registration at the same time. It was a PITA, but I'm glad it's over and done. I think I was required to change them at the same time, but I live in CT so the rule could be different. I didn't need to change the title on my car though.

Posted 12/30/05 3:08 PM
 

MRSE
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Re: changing documents after marriage

When I went SS...I didn't have to stand on the normal line because I wasn't trying to collect money... I went to the one in Freeport

Posted 12/30/05 6:43 PM
 

05mommy09
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Re: changing documents after marriage

How bad is it if youve changed everything but your ss card? Ive been married 5 months as well....

Posted 12/30/05 8:45 PM
 

mommy2bella
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Re: changing documents after marriage

Message edited 12/16/2011 4:27:55 PM.

Posted 12/30/05 8:56 PM
 

JodiBabe
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Re: changing documents after marriage

I would NEVER mail anything to Social Security unless it went certified/return receipt requested!!! They have lost or supposedly never received toooooo many things on me in the past! I filled out all the forms & my DH brought everything down to them & got a receipt on his way home from work one day.

SS was the last thing I changed & did that about 10 months after I was married.

Posted 12/30/05 9:18 PM
 
 

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