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HeatherRose
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Anyone else get offended

Message edited 3/3/2011 10:23:15 AM.

Posted 1/2/08 8:21 PM
 
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june262004
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Re: Anyone else get offended

No. And I for one don't always check the friend request thing a lot. It's not like Myspace. I still don't really get the friend thing

Posted 1/2/08 8:23 PM
 

MrsRbk
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Re: Anyone else get offended

I wouldn't get offended. Unless I specifically go and check if I have friend requests, there's no way to know if there is a request waiting. Maybe LIF could send an automatic FM to that persons inbox letting them know they have a friend request waiting.

Posted 1/2/08 8:23 PM
 

Tany
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Re: Anyone else get offended

i don't get offended, i'm assuming everyone has their reasoning for declining, i try not to take it personally.Chat Icon

Posted 1/2/08 8:25 PM
 

luvsbob4603
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Re: Anyone else get offended

Nope.

Posted 1/2/08 8:25 PM
 

BRod-Cheng
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Re: Anyone else get offended

How do you check a friend request?

Posted 1/2/08 8:25 PM
 

HeatherRose
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Re: Anyone else get offended

Posted by MrsRbk

I wouldn't get offended. Unless I specifically go and check if I have friend requests, there's no way to know if there is a request waiting. Maybe LIF could send an automatic FM to that persons inbox letting them know they have a friend request waiting.



hmmmm thats weird, I get an email telling me I have a friends request waiting for me, and I also get an email when a friend has accepted me. the email comes to my personal email that i used to set up this accountChat Icon

Posted 1/2/08 8:25 PM
 

MarathonKnitter
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Re: Anyone else get offended

don't take it personally... i didn't know it existed. i had friend requests just sitting there. i felt like a azz!

they probably haven't seen them. that's what happened to me

Posted 1/2/08 8:26 PM
 

Chatham-Chick
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Re: Anyone else get offended

I don't get the whole "My Friends" thing. It doesn't seem to serve a purpose, just waste space.

To answer the OP's question, I wouldn't get offended, but then again, I've never requested someone to add me as a friend.

Posted 1/2/08 8:28 PM
 

MeeshkaMich
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Re: Anyone else get offended

maybe they didnt check their email and saw the request?

Posted 1/2/08 8:28 PM
 

mamallama
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Re: Anyone else get offended

I'm new here - I didn't know you could be friends with someone! HAHA

Posted 1/2/08 8:43 PM
 

MrsPornStar
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Re: Anyone else get offended

I would not be offended. Perhaps, like others have said, the person doesn't realize they have a friend request.

Posted 1/2/08 8:46 PM
 

MrsPornStar
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Re: Anyone else get offended

oops... double post.

Message edited 1/2/2008 8:53:41 PM.

Posted 1/2/08 8:47 PM
 

DaniJude
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Re: Anyone else get offended

Aww Chat Icon Chat Icon

I don't think it is abnormal that you are a little offended - but I'm just hoping maybe they haven't seen it yet - I don't get alerts to it - I just check it from time to time by going to MY FAMILY and then FRIENDS.

Well, either way, I just requested you!! Chat Icon

Posted 1/2/08 8:52 PM
 

Shorty
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Re: Anyone else get offended

the only way i know if i have a request is by checking my email...so i'm sorry if there's a delay!

Posted 1/2/08 8:54 PM
 

LightUpOurLife
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Re: Anyone else get offended

I think you have to chose the option for them to email you if you have a request. If you don't have that option checked, then no email, then no friend Chat Icon I'll be your friend. Chat Icon

Posted 1/2/08 9:11 PM
 

luckystars3
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Re: Anyone else get offended

I just checked and saw I had a friend Chat Icon I have never checked that before... Hope no one gets offended by that.

Posted 1/2/08 9:11 PM
 

KPsquared

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Re: Anyone else get offended

I wouldn't be offended. I don't have any friends for a different reason.

Posted 1/2/08 9:13 PM
 

Laura1
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Re: Anyone else get offended

I have only had 3 friend requests since I have been on here anyway, so I don't think I would be offended.
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Posted 1/2/08 9:20 PM
 

Tine73

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Re: Anyone else get offended



Posted by MrsRbk

hmmmm thats weird, I get an email telling me I have a friends request waiting for me, and I also get an email when a friend has accepted me. the email comes to my personal email that i used to set up this accountChat Icon



me too...

Posted 1/2/08 9:21 PM
 

nickipa
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Re: Anyone else get offended

Posted by taytay423

I just checked and saw I had a friend Chat Icon I have never checked that before... Hope no one gets offended by that.



me too...I didn't know I had to check it!! woops!!

Posted 1/2/08 9:22 PM
 

julz33
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Re: Anyone else get offended

Posted by nickipa

Posted by taytay423

I just checked and saw I had a friend Chat Icon I have never checked that before... Hope no one gets offended by that.



me too...I didn't know I had to check it!! woops!!



I also never check mine and usually don't see the request until weeks-months later. So no, I wouldn't be offended!

Posted 1/2/08 9:25 PM
 

HeatherRose
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Re: Anyone else get offended

thanks girls, I'm over it then...Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 1/2/08 9:38 PM
 

jellybean78
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Re: Anyone else get offended

Posted by taytay423

I just checked and saw I had a friend Chat Icon I have never checked that before... Hope no one gets offended by that.



I just checked too...didn't know that I had some friend requests. I didnt get an email to my yahooChat Icon

Posted 1/2/08 10:10 PM
 

lvdolphins
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Re: Anyone else get offended

I would not be offended.
I usually get an email too, but, I was curious to see if I had anyone "waiting" and I didChat Icon
So, of course I accepted. I do feel a little bad..She requested me on Dec. 16th...Oooopssss...LOL.

It's possible, like me, the person just hasn't checked.Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 1/2/08 10:38 PM
 
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