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FireIslandLove

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Re: I wonder if my neighbor upstairs died

Jes I have to say, I NEVER get involved in any sort of drama, or any post where there is a debate going on and after almost a year of chatting on LIF I need to. I am absolutely sick to my stomach as I write this thinking of even the term, and I can't even write it it makes me so sick.

I think before you respond again, wait a few minutes, think about your reply. People on this board were truly offended by your comment. If everyone on this board were of a different religion than I was, and I came on saying how jokes about their religion were my favorite, don't you think I'd get a lot of backlash? Don't you think those people would not only think differently of me but they would be absolutely sick to their stomachs? We all have a past, we all have things that make us different, anytime ANYONE makes a joke poking fun at one of those differences we're going to get offended - that's only human nature...so you have to expect people are shocked by your comments. I think people are just asking that you apologize to those you offended, you can stand firm on your "humor" or think what you want, but next time you post it on a public forum, please be wise enough to remember your audience.

Posted 12/19/05 10:44 AM
 
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Member since 11/05

1977 total posts

Name:
Cassie

Re: I wonder if my neighbor upstairs died

Agreed. Totally inappropriate and offensive.

Posted 12/19/05 10:44 AM
 

Jesaroo
is not the girl you knew

Member since 5/05

14266 total posts

Name:
Jes

Re: I wonder if my neighbor upstairs died

Posted by FireIslandLove

Jes I have to say, I NEVER get involved in any sort of drama, or any post where there is a debate going on and after almost a year of chatting on LIF I need to. I am absolutely sick to my stomach as I write this thinking of even the term, and I can't even write it it makes me so sick.

I think before you respond again, wait a few minutes, think about your reply. People on this board were truly offended by your comment. If everyone on this board were of a different religion than I was, and I came on saying how jokes about their religion were my favorite, don't you think I'd get a lot of backlash? Don't you think those people would not only think differently of me but they would be absolutely sick to their stomachs? We all have a past, we all have things that make us different, anytime ANYONE makes a joke poking fun at one of those differences we're going to get offended - that's only human nature...so you have to expect people are shocked by your comments. I think people are just asking that you apologize to those you offended, you can stand firm on your "humor" or think what you want, but next time you post it on a public forum, please be wise enough to remember your audience.




youre right. i understnad what you are saying.

i DID apologize.
so i dont get why people are STILL dragging it on and on.

Posted 12/19/05 10:49 AM
 

FireIslandLove

Member since 5/05

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Re: I wonder if my neighbor upstairs died

Read the time you apologized, and the time of the responses, people were probably just writing their responses as you apologized.

Posted 12/19/05 10:50 AM
 

Jesaroo
is not the girl you knew

Member since 5/05

14266 total posts

Name:
Jes

Re: I wonder if my neighbor upstairs died

true, true....

Posted 12/19/05 10:51 AM
 

pinkandblue
Our family is complete, maybe

Member since 9/05

32436 total posts

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Stephanie

Re: I wonder if my neighbor upstairs died

Posted by Lolita4Life

i apologize. not for what i said, BUT becuase what i said offened people.




That's all we wanted.

Posted 12/19/05 10:57 AM
 

emilain
UNREAL!!!!!!!!

Member since 5/05

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Name:
Mama

Re: I wonder if my neighbor upstairs died

Posted by stephanief

Posted by Lolita4Life

i apologize. not for what i said, BUT becuase what i said offened people.




That's all we wanted.



Yup, I guess we could use a "foot inserted in mouth" icon sometimes, huh Jess?

Posted 12/19/05 10:58 AM
 

Jesaroo
is not the girl you knew

Member since 5/05

14266 total posts

Name:
Jes

Re: I wonder if my neighbor upstairs died

Posted by stephanief

Posted by Lolita4Life

i apologize. not for what i said, BUT becuase what i said offened people.




That's all we wanted.



then i am happy to do it

Posted 12/19/05 10:58 AM
 

Shorty
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Member since 5/05

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Name:
really

Re: I wonder if my neighbor upstairs died

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Apology or not...I'm horrified.

Posted 12/19/05 11:07 AM
 

Luvlylady
Earned My Bragging Rights!

Member since 5/05

6141 total posts

Name:
Alexandria

Re: I wonder if my neighbor upstairs died

Jess you need a Check-Up From The Neck UpChat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 12/19/05 11:10 AM
 

leighla
Support Cancer Research

Member since 5/05

16353 total posts

Name:
Lauren

Re: I wonder if my neighbor upstairs died

While I don't agree with what Jes said either, she did apologize and I think it's time we let this thread fade into the background.

Posted 12/19/05 11:12 AM
 

pinkandblue
Our family is complete, maybe

Member since 9/05

32436 total posts

Name:
Stephanie

Re: I wonder if my neighbor upstairs died

Posted by emilain

Posted by stephanief

Posted by Lolita4Life

i apologize. not for what i said, BUT becuase what i said offened people.




That's all we wanted.



Yup, I guess we could use a "foot inserted in mouth" icon sometimes, huh Jess?



OMG, If I had a dollar for every time I out my foot in my mouth, I'd be a rich girl Chat Icon

Posted 12/19/05 11:20 AM
 
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