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What do you think is the ideal age b/w siblings?

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Goobster
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What do you think is the ideal age b/w siblings?

Wondering what the best age b/w children are?

ETA- I didnt realize someone recently asked this same question.

Message edited 3/29/2010 9:20:12 AM.

Posted 3/29/10 9:10 AM
 
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BethanyLynn
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Re: What do you think is the ideal age b/w siblings?


IMO 2 yrs is good

Posted 3/29/10 9:11 AM
 

Goldi0218
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Re: What do you think is the ideal age b/w siblings?

Mine will be 2 years and approximately 10 days apart. Most would see that as ideal. Had I married younger and if I wasn't turning 40 this summer, I would have spaced them out further.

Posted 3/29/10 9:16 AM
 

pinkandblue
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Re: What do you think is the ideal age b/w siblings?

2.5-3 years

Posted 3/29/10 9:16 AM
 

jprimrose
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Re: What do you think is the ideal age b/w siblings?

My DC are one year apart and I love it their age difference. Chat Icon

Posted 3/29/10 9:23 AM
 

MAC222
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Re: What do you think is the ideal age b/w siblings?

Posted by pinkandblue

2.5-3 years



I agree!

Posted 3/29/10 9:24 AM
 

computergirl
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Re: What do you think is the ideal age b/w siblings?

I have no experience with any other age difference but the 3 yrs between my two is fantastic, makes my life easier in many ways!

Posted 3/29/10 9:25 AM
 

dani731
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Re: What do you think is the ideal age b/w siblings?

For us I think 3 yrs is good

Posted 3/29/10 9:30 AM
 

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Re: What do you think is the ideal age b/w siblings?

Ideally if I didn't have fertility issues I would've liked to have them 4 years apart. These will be less than 2....

Posted 3/29/10 9:33 AM
 

Diana1215
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Re: What do you think is the ideal age b/w siblings?

Posted by pinkandblue

2.5-3 years



this is what worked for us, and if we go for number three I will plan it so that it's the same way if possible.

Posted 3/29/10 9:34 AM
 

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Re: What do you think is the ideal age b/w siblings?

I think 3...although we'll probably have to wait till 4 yrs

Posted 3/29/10 9:35 AM
 

MSeid
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Re: What do you think is the ideal age b/w siblings?

2-3 years in between

Posted 3/29/10 9:46 AM
 

mommy2B3
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Re: What do you think is the ideal age b/w siblings?

My brother and I are 16 months apart, and we had and still have a great relationship. So DS and DD will be 18 months apart, and I can't wait!

Posted 3/29/10 9:52 AM
 

MrsRbk
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Re: What do you think is the ideal age b/w siblings?

My kids will be 18 months apart.

I would have liked maybe a 3 year difference, but my fertility issues and age wouldn't allow that.

Posted 3/29/10 9:54 AM
 

eddiesmommy
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Re: What do you think is the ideal age b/w siblings?

I dont think there is an ideal age....my sister and I are 2.5 years apart and are very close now but fought like h-e-l-l growing up. Whereas there is 8 years between my brother and I, we NEVER fought growing up and are very close today.

Posted 3/29/10 9:55 AM
 

lipglossjunky73
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Re: What do you think is the ideal age b/w siblings?

Ideally - 2 yrs.

Realistically, who knows Chat Icon

I will say this - my stepdaughters are 6 years apart and for them, it was perfect! They never really fought, they had a great relationship, and now at ages 13 and 19 they are best friends.

My thought is this: Like everything else in life, whatever you make of it, it will either be perfect or a disaster.

Posted 3/29/10 9:56 AM
 

ReiRei13
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Re: What do you think is the ideal age b/w siblings?

Posted by eddiesmommy

I dont think there is an ideal age....my sister and I are 2.5 years apart and are very close now but fought like h-e-l-l growing up. Whereas there is 8 years between my brother and I, we NEVER fought growing up and are very close today.

ITA! My brother and I are 4 years apart, never fought and are close to this day! My sister and I are 6 years apart, fought like crazy when we were younger but are now the best of friends!!

For me, I'd like 3-4 years between each child!

Posted 3/29/10 9:57 AM
 

beachgirl
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Re: What do you think is the ideal age b/w siblings?

We have 3 1/2 years apart over here and its been great.

Posted 3/29/10 10:00 AM
 

pickles16
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Re: What do you think is the ideal age b/w siblings?

I want ours to be around 2.5 years apart...when my mother heard this she said I was insane...she would love if we waited until DD was older enough to be fully verbal etc..But I am an only child for a reasonChat Icon so I told her to shush...

Posted 3/29/10 10:00 AM
 

JenBenMen
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Re: What do you think is the ideal age b/w siblings?

For us 2 yrs has been awesome

--play together so nice
--i re-use everything from DC#1 (toys books etc)

Posted 3/29/10 10:01 AM
 

08BabySurprise
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Re: What do you think is the ideal age b/w siblings?

Posted by eddiesmommy

I dont think there is an ideal age....my sister and I are 2.5 years apart and are very close now but fought like h-e-l-l growing up. Whereas there is 8 years between my brother and I, we NEVER fought growing up and are very close today.



I agree. My brother and I are 8 years apart and personally I think THAT is ideal though givem my age I can't wait that long. So ideal for me is at least 3-4 years apart.

Posted 3/29/10 10:01 AM
 

babyfever08
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Re: What do you think is the ideal age b/w siblings?

I always thought I would have them 2 years apart, but honestly I can't do that right now. I am not looking to have DC#2 until DS is in school.

Posted 3/29/10 10:01 AM
 

Bxgell2
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Re: What do you think is the ideal age b/w siblings?

I wanted a 2 year age difference, like that between me and my brothers, but fertility issues intervened, and my kids are 4 years apart. I have no regrets, and see it as a blessing in disguise - the age difference is just perfect for us - Yael transitioned seamlessly into our family with little to no disruption because Alex was old enough to understand and be excited about her new role, and independent enough that it didn't rock her world. She adores her little sister and is such an amazing little helper to mommy and daddy.

Posted 3/29/10 10:02 AM
 

IrishMom77
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Re: What do you think is the ideal age b/w siblings?

I think about 3 years

We are going to start trying around DS 2nd birthday

I would ideally like him potty trained when a new baby comes. Would just make it easier for us I think

My sister is 11 years older than me and my brother is 9 years older than me (the doc told my mom she wouldnt be able to have any more babies//I was a surprise!)

My sister and I are SUPER close!

Posted 3/29/10 10:03 AM
 

MrsRbk
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Re: What do you think is the ideal age b/w siblings?

Posted by lipglossjunky73

Ideally - 2 yrs.

Realistically, who knows Chat Icon

I will say this - my stepdaughters are 6 years apart and for them, it was perfect! They never really fought, they had a great relationship, and now at ages 13 and 19 they are best friends.

My thought is this: Like everything else in life, whatever you make of it, it will either be perfect or a disaster.




There is a 6 year difference between my sister and I, and a 9 year difference between my brother and I. The three of us are VERY close!

Posted 3/29/10 10:04 AM
 
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