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need opinions.... going through majorly tough time

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sunny
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Posted 7/4/08 10:14 AM
 
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Posted 7/4/08 10:17 AM
 

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Posted 7/4/08 10:20 AM
 

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Re: need opinions.... going through majorly tough time

That is an amazing, heartfelt, poem...

I unfortunately know exactly what you are going through...

I dont get into it much. I joke about it when I do. But I was married to a con man for a very brief period of time. Fortunately we didnt have any children but my kids were effected by him..It wasnt a good thing and I thought my world was over...

Well...

Just when I thought all was over my life turned around..I met the most amazing man...and had an incredible little boy.

Point..Heather make a point...my point is that it might not be tomorrow, or next week, or next month...but some where down the road you'll look back and see why it all turned out the way it did.

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Posted 7/4/08 10:26 AM
 

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Posted 7/4/08 11:01 AM
 

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I am so so sorr you and your daughter are going through this. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 7/4/08 11:09 AM
 

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Posted 7/4/08 11:10 AM
 

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Posted 7/4/08 11:58 AM
 

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I used to do spoken word poetry and this isChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

With pain always comes great art, unfortunately!!!Chat Icon

Posted 7/4/08 12:00 PM
 

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I am so sorry that you are going through this. Your poem is very moving & powerful. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 7/4/08 12:22 PM
 

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Very powerful poem. I'm so sorry you and your daughter are going through this.Chat Icon

Posted 7/4/08 12:33 PM
 

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Your words brought tears to my eyes. I hope that you and your daughter find the happiness you deserve. Chat Icon

Happy Independence Day. Chat Icon

Posted 7/4/08 12:35 PM
 

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Posted 7/4/08 12:50 PM
 

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Posted 7/4/08 12:55 PM
 

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Posted 7/4/08 12:56 PM
 

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Great poem. When I broke up with the sweet talking guy who was full of crap, the chorus of "everybody plays the fool," made me feel better. It was great to know that I was not the only person who ever got duped. I also got the chance to talk to another girl who fell for the same guy years earlier (he had played me against her but we got together and talked it out). In a sense I was lucky because that guy did come grovelling back about a year later and I got the chance to turn him down. He is in his mid 40s now and never had the marriage or family that he always said he wanted. I'm now married to a guy who is not a smooth talker and does not pile on the BS but he is 100% true.

Here is the song:

Ok, so your heart is broken
Youre sitting around mopin, mopin, mopin, cryin, cryin
You say youre even thinking about dying
Well, before you do anything rash, baby, listen to this

Everybody plays the fool, sometime
Theres no exception to the rule, listen baby
It may be factual, it may be cruel, I aint lying
Everybody plays the fool

Fallin in love is such an easy thing to do
But theres no guarantee that the one you love, is gonna love you
Oh, loving eyes they cannot see a certain person could never be
Love runs deeper than any ocean, it clouds your mind with emotion

Everybody plays the fool, sometime
Theres no exception to the rule, listen baby
It may be factual, it may be cruel, I aint lying
Everybody plays the fool

How can you help it, when the music starts to play
And your ability to reason, is swept away
Oh, heaven on earth is all you see, youre out of touch with reality
And now you cry, but when you do, next time around someone cries for you

Hey, everybody plays the fool, sometime
Use your heart just like a tool, listen baby
They never tell you so in school, I wanna say it again,
Everybody plays the fool

Everybody plays the fool, sometime
Theres no exception to the rule, listen baby
It may be factual, it may be cruel, I aint lying
Everybody plays the fool

Every plays the fool, sometime
Theres no exception to the rule, listen baby
It may be factual, it may be cruel, I wanna say it again
Everybody plays the fool

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Posted 7/4/08 6:11 PM
 

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I am sorry you and your daughter are going through such a difficult time. Thanks for sharing such a powerful poem.

Posted 7/4/08 6:56 PM
 

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Posted 7/4/08 7:13 PM
 

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Posted 7/4/08 7:16 PM
 

michele31
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Re: need opinions.... going through majorly tough time

That is a truly powerful and beautiful poem. Please save it for your daughter when she is grown.
For now you need to replace anger so that your daughter can feel your healing and heal herself.I am truly sorry for your pain. I hope that this man can see what he had and find it within himself to allow his daughter to have love and peace in her life.

Posted 7/4/08 9:12 PM
 

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I'm so sorry you are going through this. You sound so strong. Hang in there. Chat Icon

Posted 7/4/08 9:22 PM
 

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Posted 7/4/08 9:46 PM
 

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I'm sorry for what you've been going through! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 7/4/08 10:19 PM
 

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Wow - that was really moving - I am so sorry for what you are going thru...

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Posted 7/4/08 10:21 PM
 

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Posted 7/4/08 10:45 PM
 
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