i'm due for af today or thursday

testing is negative,so far no sign of her, no cramps, i have sore boobs and tired all the time, could be the weather and the fact i'm a lil depressed about not seeing any lines. next month i'm not using any opks or pregnancy tests and i'm not going crazy. i feel like i just want to give up. i think it's not ment to be. plus i have my wedding coming up and i am happy about it. ttc has consumed me so much it's all i think about and that is bad.

i can't take it anymore




i am so

so i'm going to try and go back to

Re: i'm due for af today or thursday

If you don't get your BFP this month...then next month for your sanity it may be better to put your focus 100% into your wedding...and hopefully while not focusing on your TTC journey your BFP will happen when you least expect it!

Hopefully this is you rmonth!

Re: i'm due for af today or thursday

that's what i was thinking. i will admit i haven't put 100% into our wedding reception we are renewing our vows and my inlaws suprised us with payin for a reception this yr. i feel like maybe it's time to focus on it.

Re: i'm due for af today or thursday

stressing yourself so badly is only going to negatively impact your TTC efforts.

I say, just go with the flow. BD every 3rd day until your O week and then every other days until two days before. Then every day from -2 thru +1 ...

focus on the wedding. do not let this consume you

Re: i'm due for af today or thursday

Posted by timefortwo

stressing yourself so badly is only going to negatively impact your TTC efforts.

I say, just go with the flow. BD every 3rd day until your O week and then every other days until two days before. Then every day from -2 thru +1 ...

focus on the wedding. do not let this consume you

Re: i'm due for af today or thursday

thanks everyone :) we are hoping to concieve naturally, but if there were to be issues we'd have to wait till next yr for his insurance to pay. i am going to focus on the wedding though, it's been coming along smoothly :) here's my dress :) I am happy that i can talk about this with my TTC group. I feel at home :) You all are so nice and understanding

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Re: i'm due for af today or thursday

OMG you look beautiful! That is so nice that you are reviewing your vows. I agree with the others but I know it's so much easier said than done when trying not to think about TTC. I find myself good during the day when I'm at work but when I temp in the morning it tends to make my mind race. I imagine scenarios and "what ifs". It's funny, when I got pregnant withe #1, it was the month where I didin't know when I O'd and we just went with the flow. You'd think I would have learned a lesson!

You are still not out until AF shows her face! I am for you that it happens!!!

Re: i'm due for af today or thursday

ty :) it is very hard to stop obessing but i'm prayin this is it, b/c if not i'm not using anything, i'll still be on the forum but not opk's. wont take one unless a week late for pregnancy tests. my son wasn't planned. he's from a previous relationship. so this will be mine and hubby's first together :) he has no kids. i'm greatful my son he's accepted as his own :) so i say damn i wish i could go with the flow too. i am not trying so hard next month. but i am hoping i'm pregnant. also our renewing of vows falls on 4-5 days before af if i'm not pregnant, i'm wishing i'm pregnant. so it doesnt ruin my dress. that one time i was late ruined my cycles. ugh.... to u too