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luvsbob4603
To a healthy 2013

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To a brand new year to a healthier me

People can be rude

Today at work someone said to me that i looked like i put the pounds on.. Ok i might have put some weight on but not that much! I guess i better work harder at the gym to get these pounds off.Chat Icon Chat Icon Just wanted to vent.

Posted 3/9/10 9:51 PM
 
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bklyngirl
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Member since 6/05

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Gail

Re: People can be rude

DON'T LISTEN TO THEM!!!!! you're doing great. we all hit the bumps in the road. you'll get over that bump

Posted 3/9/10 9:52 PM
 

DiamondGirl
You are my I love you

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Re: People can be rude

I will never understand why people comment on other peoples weight ESPECIALLY to say someone gained weight Chat Icon

Sorry you had to deal with that nonsense Chat Icon

Message edited 3/9/2010 9:56:18 PM.

Posted 3/9/10 9:55 PM
 

Jackie24
~We Did it~

Member since 7/06

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Jackie

Re: People can be rude

Chat Icon Wow that is beyond rude.

Posted 3/9/10 9:57 PM
 

BunnyWife
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BunnyWife

Re: People can be rude

Azz hats. Screw them! I'm sure you look greatChat Icon

Posted 3/9/10 9:58 PM
 

ItalianBella5184
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Re: People can be rude

That is rude. It has happened to me at my job. Not everyone in the world is skinny and people need to get over it. I used to get upset about it but just ingore them maybe they hate themselves and have nothing better to do then bring others down.

Posted 3/9/10 9:58 PM
 

Phyl
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Re: People can be rude

Chat Icon Chat Icon You look great Ro! Some people are just so miserable they have to try to make others feel bad!Chat Icon

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Posted 3/9/10 10:01 PM
 

luvsbob4603
To a healthy 2013

Member since 5/05

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To a brand new year to a healthier me

Re: People can be rude

Thanks ladies! I'm trying my best and No i wont let this girl bring me down..Chat Icon

Posted 3/9/10 10:04 PM
 

lvdolphins
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Re: People can be rude

What!! Seriously!!! People are sooo obnoxious and excuse me, but, the last time I checked you LOST over 40lbs I believe it was!!!
You look AMAZING!
Don't let idiots like that get to you!
YOU, my dear, should be EXTREMELY PROUD of your accomplishments! You're doing amazing and you know it!!!
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Posted 3/9/10 10:26 PM
 

PrincessP
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Re: People can be rude

Posted by lvdolphins

What!! Seriously!!! People are sooo obnoxious and excuse me, but, the last time I checked you LOST over 40lbs I believe it was!!!
You look AMAZING!
Don't let idiots like that get to you!
YOU, my dear, should be EXTREMELY PROUD of your accomplishments! You're doing amazing and you know it!!!
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Posted 3/9/10 10:36 PM
 

lakadema
LIF Adult

Member since 5/08

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Danielle

Re: People can be rude

I cannot stand weight comments.

I hope you returned the favor by telling her she looked "tired" today(Just kidding!)

Don't let this person control the way you feel. Be happy with the progress you have made to date and keep up the good work.

Posted 3/10/10 8:36 AM
 

MrsDrMatt
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Member since 5/06

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MrsDrMatt

Re: People can be rude

You should be very proud of your accomplishments. She is probably jealous!

Posted 3/10/10 8:51 AM
 

smdl
I love Gary too..on a plate!

Member since 5/06

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me

Re: People can be rude

I seriously do not understand why people think it's anything but rudeness to make a comment on someone physical features.

Things like eat a burger, are you sure you should eat those fries, you got some new padding for the winter?, etc...

Beyond rude!!!

Posted 3/10/10 8:57 AM
 

MommyofG
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Janice

Re: People can be rude

Posted by MrsDrMatt

You should be very proud of your accomplishments. She is probably jealous!

100% agree!
just laugh at her!

Posted 3/10/10 9:11 AM
 

Ever-After
Goals w/o plans r just wishes

Member since 6/09

2585 total posts

Name:
C

Re: People can be rude

wow that is ridiculous. That would hurt me a lot for somebody to make a comment like that. Try not to think about it. Who cares what that idiot says

Posted 3/10/10 9:16 AM
 

mosa77
LIF Adult

Member since 8/06

2122 total posts

Name:
Stephanie

Re: People can be rude

lol she is jealous and feels the need to make you feel bad cause inside she cant stand the fact that you prob look better then her

Posted 3/10/10 9:20 AM
 

robynfs
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Re: People can be rude

She said that because she is feeling down about herself. Whether it's weight related or she is not happy with something in her life she feels the need to bring you down too.

I am sorry this person felt the need to comment on something so personal. I really don't like when people comment about weight in general...whether its up or down I never want to hear it.

Good luck with the gym, you have made such a wondeful lifestyle change.

Posted 3/10/10 2:13 PM
 

JessInCA
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Jess

Re: People can be rude

Makes you wonder what some people are thinking Chat Icon

Posted 3/10/10 2:38 PM
 

luvsbob4603
To a healthy 2013

Member since 5/05

21840 total posts

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To a brand new year to a healthier me

Re: People can be rude

Thank you ladies!!!Chat Icon

Posted 3/10/10 6:18 PM
 

AngelaD1031
LIF Infant

Member since 11/09

219 total posts

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Angela

Re: People can be rude

I can totally feel your pain today! Apparently, my students have started a rumor that I'm pregnant. I'm definitely not!

Posted 3/10/10 8:12 PM
 

luvsbob4603
To a healthy 2013

Member since 5/05

21840 total posts

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To a brand new year to a healthier me

Re: People can be rude

Posted by AngelaD1031

I can totally feel your pain today! Apparently, my students have started a rumor that I'm pregnant. I'm definitely not!

That is also rude!! I'm sorry your students dont think.Chat Icon

Posted 3/10/10 8:27 PM
 

TaraVinny
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Member since 10/09

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Tara

Re: People can be rude

that is really rude! don't listen to them. some people don't think before they speak. i would be upset too.

Posted 3/10/10 8:39 PM
 

KittyKatCopper
missing my handsome boy

Member since 3/09

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Kat - HamptonsBride (LIW)

Re: People can be rude

Best t-shirt I ever saw said "I may be fat, but you're ugly... at least I can go on a diet!" (not that i am saying you are fat!!)...i just thought it's a great come back to these kind of idiotic comments from people Chat Icon

Posted 3/10/10 10:45 PM
 

Mrs213
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Member since 2/09

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Re: People can be rude

I can't believe someone would say something so rude. Don't let it get you down...

Posted 3/11/10 3:39 PM
 

KPsquared

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Re: People can be rude

Ugh that is so mean! If one of my co-workers ever said that to me that would be the last conversation we have. Did you say anything back? You need to stick up for yourself so people like this won't say anything again. So sorry this happened. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/11/10 8:23 PM
 
 

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