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FlowerWife
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CD31 and MAJOR VENTING....
ok ladies i need a MAJOR vent session here...
i REALLY REALLY thought I O'ed on CD19 which would make today 12DPO. however i had only the slightest of slight thermal shifts and Fertility Friend can't decide whether it will confirm my O date or not...tested on "10DPO" and "12DPO" (notice the use of quotes), and both were BFN...
anyway i also have had MAJOR EWCM over the last 2 days (liek better EWCM than any other time this cycle) and right now i have super O-ish pains.. oh and did i neglect to mention my THIRD set of +OPKs that I got over the last 24 hours (3 +'s for the third time this cycle...). so if i didnt O on CD19 I seriously BETTER pop some eggies out today or tomorrow!!
and to add insult to injury one of my friends who was def not TTC just told me she's PG. i am happy for her but what the heII!!
anyway if you want to peak at my chart see the link (hope it works)...also posted a pick of +OPK round 3 this cycle...
my bbt chart
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Message edited 8/23/2009 12:31:39 AM.
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Re: CD31 and MAJOR VENTING....
 
edited: I dont use opk's or temp so I really am no help. I just wanted to give you a Also if you have EWCM I would BD and hope for the best!
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| Posted 8/23/09 12:37 AM |
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Ever-After
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Re: CD31 and MAJOR VENTING....
oh boy. Talk about frustrating 
Hang in there. Hopefully if you didn't O before then you will now
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| Posted 8/23/09 12:46 AM |
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FlowerWife
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Re: CD31 and MAJOR VENTING....
Posted by MrsB0118
edited: I dont use opk's or temp so I really am no help. I just wanted to give you a Also if you have EWCM I would BD and hope for the best!
we are but some of the fun is def gone when i told DH for the third time this cycle that my OPK is + when we both thought we were almost done with the 2WW. plus we were so busy yesterday that we didnt get a chance to so the only hope really is today. last night i had such weird cramps on the lower left side but i didnt have a temp rise today so im hoping theres still time if it is O.
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Ladyinred
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Re: CD31 and MAJOR VENTING....
By looking at your chart I would think you O'ed on CD 19. What the temp taken at the same time each day??
I don't use OPK only CBEFM.
I get EWCM DPO sometime, if you want to just double check just BD and wait and see. I know how fustrating this is..
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FlowerWife
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Re: CD31 and MAJOR VENTING....
Posted by runningmama
By looking at your chart I would think you O'ed on CD 19. What the temp taken at the same time each day??
I don't use OPK only CBEFM.
I get EWCM DPO sometime, if you want to just double check just BD and wait and see. I know how fustrating this is..
thanks so much for looking at the chart. i take it pretty much within the same half hour window everyday except CD26 and 27 cause i had to go to work way earlier than normal. on CD20 i slept really poorly which is why i got the open circle on the high temp that day even though I took the temp at a regular time.
the only reason i think i could be Oing now instead of then is cause i got another round of +OPK's in addition to the EWCM.
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| Posted 8/23/09 11:59 AM |
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Makin-da-baby
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Re: CD31 and MAJOR VENTING....
Posted by FlowerWife
the only reason i think i could be Oing now instead of then is cause i got another round of +OPK's in addition to the EWCM.
Okay, I don't want to alarm you but here's the thing. Everyone gets EWCM at different points in their cycle. I tend to get a lot right before AF shows, so unless you know exactly when you are in your cycle it is hard to tell.
Having said that, I would definitely take a pregnancy test ASAP!!!! You very well be pregnant! Check out this link...
OPK as HPTs
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KNic19
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Re: CD31 and MAJOR VENTING....
I had read that article too...glad I scrolled down before I posted a link as well 
I would definately take an HPT if I were you!!!!! Best of luck!!!!!!
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FlowerWife
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Re: CD31 and MAJOR VENTING....
i read that too and i took one yesterday at the same time as the OPK and that was BFN. havent taken one since. the only reason i started using the OPKs again is cause my temps have been too erratic to confirm O...
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Re: CD31 and MAJOR VENTING....
Looking at your chart in its entirety, I think you have been gearing up to ovulate a couple of times (hence the two sets of + OPKs), but for some reason you haven't. I have read that this happens a lot for various reasons like stress, travel, or other things.
Every time you get EWCM and/or + OPKs I would treat it as fertile time and BD as you plan. I'm sorry!!! This must be beyond frustrating!!! I hope this is the real time for you! 
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FlowerWife
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Re: CD31 and MAJOR VENTING....
Posted by LoveyQ
Looking at your chart in its entirety, I think you have been gearing up to ovulate a couple of times (hence the two sets of + OPKs), but for some reason you haven't. I have read that this happens a lot for various reasons like stress, travel, or other things.
Every time you get EWCM and/or + OPKs I would treat it as fertile time and BD as you plan. I'm sorry!!! This must be beyond frustrating!!! I hope this is the real time for you!
thats kinda what i was thinking too.. ugh though DH and I have had NO TIME to BD this weekend at all...possibly tonight but at this point both of today's OPKs are BFN so if it did happen we prob missed it..
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Re: CD31 and MAJOR VENTING....
Posted by FlowerWife
Posted by LoveyQ
Looking at your chart in its entirety, I think you have been gearing up to ovulate a couple of times (hence the two sets of + OPKs), but for some reason you haven't. I have read that this happens a lot for various reasons like stress, travel, or other things.
Every time you get EWCM and/or + OPKs I would treat it as fertile time and BD as you plan. I'm sorry!!! This must be beyond frustrating!!! I hope this is the real time for you!
thats kinda what i was thinking too.. ugh though DH and I have had NO TIME to BD this weekend at all...possibly tonight but at this point both of today's OPKs are BFN so if it did happen we prob missed it..
I just came from the dr and told him I had 2 cycles of EWCM this month (I haven't started using OPKs yet). He doesn't think I've O'd yet. SImilar to what Lovey said, it's like my body is gearing up to O but hasn't dropped the egg. It's really frustrating.
Let's hope it happens for us soon.
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munchkinbugs
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Re: CD31 and MAJOR VENTING....
How long have you been off the pill?
My charts looked like that when TTC #1. My doctor said I probably was not Oing and was going to start me on Clomid my next cycle. But luckily I got a BFP before I started it on my 6th try.
That could be the story with you. In which case you can talk to your Dr. and try to get O to happen.
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FlowerWife
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Re: CD31 and MAJOR VENTING....
Posted by babybug631
How long have you been off the pill?
My charts looked like that when TTC #1. My doctor said I probably was not Oing and was going to start me on Clomid my next cycle. But luckily I got a BFP before I started it on my 6th try.
That could be the story with you. In which case you can talk to your Dr. and try to get O to happen.
this is only my second cycle off the pill. the first one i beleive was completely anovulatory. i wasnt charting then but i went off BCP on May 1 and did get AF or really even any CM at all. eventually i got provera from my doc and got AF on July 23rd. so i havent actually had a normal ovulatory cycle yet. if i did O this past weekend it would be the first time off the pill.
i just hope its normal post-pill stuff thats causing me not to O and not a bigger problem. i dont think i had any issues there before BCP but i was on it for 12 years so i dont really remember.
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Re: CD31 and MAJOR VENTING....
Posted by LoveyQ
Looking at your chart in its entirety, I think you have been gearing up to ovulate a couple of times (hence the two sets of + OPKs), but for some reason you haven't. I have read that this happens a lot for various reasons like stress, travel, or other things.
Every time you get EWCM and/or + OPKs I would treat it as fertile time and BD as you plan. I'm sorry!!! This must be beyond frustrating!!! I hope this is the real time for you!
I was also thinking this as well.
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munchkinbugs
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Re: CD31 and MAJOR VENTING....
Posted by FlowerWife
Posted by babybug631
How long have you been off the pill?
My charts looked like that when TTC #1. My doctor said I probably was not Oing and was going to start me on Clomid my next cycle. But luckily I got a BFP before I started it on my 6th try.
That could be the story with you. In which case you can talk to your Dr. and try to get O to happen.
this is only my second cycle off the pill. the first one i beleive was completely anovulatory. i wasnt charting then but i went off BCP on May 1 and did get AF or really even any CM at all. eventually i got provera from my doc and got AF on July 23rd. so i havent actually had a normal ovulatory cycle yet. if i did O this past weekend it would be the first time off the pill.
i just hope its normal post-pill stuff thats causing me not to O and not a bigger problem. i dont think i had any issues there before BCP but i was on it for 12 years so i dont really remember.
Some women become regular right away. For me it took much longer. I went off the pill in May of 2006. Started actively TTC in September or October of 2006. Had charts just like you. Finally got a BFP in March of 2007. If you don't get normal in the next couple of cycles, I would ask about Clomid.
I have not gone back on the pill since DD for that reason. I ovulate every month now.
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