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Your feelings on ownership of a house!

Forum Opinion Poll
a dream come true 78 63.93%
a money pit 44 36.07%
 

Poll - Homeownership

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MrsPorkChop
Twinning!!

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Missy

Poll - Homeownership

Posted 4/18/07 5:41 PM
 

MrsPorkChop
Twinning!!

Member since 5/05

9941 total posts

Name:
Missy

Re: Poll - Homeownership

my answer- money- freakin- pit


something is always breaking

or flooding

or needing replacement

it makes me sad. i work so hard for my house and i feel like i get nothing from it. i wish i didnt give into the pressure of homeownership. id have a HELL of alot of money in my bank if i waited.
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Posted 4/18/07 5:43 PM
 

LuckySV
LIF Adult

Member since 10/05

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Re: Poll - Homeownership

I'm kinda in the middle. I don't think homeownership is all it's cracked up to be. But so far I don't feel like money has been sucked out of me (although we have put alot of money into the house it was all expected.)

ETA: Sorry you're having a rough time. Chat Icon

Message edited 4/18/2007 5:57:17 PM.

Posted 4/18/07 5:56 PM
 

nixy
LIF Adult

Member since 9/06

1575 total posts

Name:
K

Re: Poll - Homeownership

I was just in the same funk, I think that i am slowly coming out of it.

I think I like my house more (but only a little bit) in the summer b/c i know i wouldn't have a backyard where I used to live.

Posted 4/18/07 6:06 PM
 

smdl
I love Gary too..on a plate!

Member since 5/06

32461 total posts

Name:
me

Re: Poll - Homeownership

We bought a "cosmetic fixer" house. So, we have stuff to be fixed (like most houses on LI which are at least 50 years old!) but the house is really sound.

Posted 4/18/07 6:31 PM
 

Nicole728
My Happy Girl

Member since 7/06

8198 total posts

Name:
Me

Re: Poll - Homeownership

we bought new construction OOS...so anything we do to the house is and will up the value, but we are not rushed to improve it...we are doing one thing at a time

Posted 4/18/07 6:47 PM
 

JerseyMamaOf3
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Member since 6/05

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Re: Poll - Homeownership

Posted by npbride

I'm kinda in the middle. I don't think homeownership is all it's cracked up to be. But so far I don't feel like money has been sucked out of me (although we have put alot of money into the house it was all expected.)

ETA: Sorry you're having a rough time. Chat Icon



I feel the same way.

Owning a home always means having something to do on it even if it is brand spankin new or 50 years old. I think it comes with the territory unfortunatly.

Hopefully nothing else goes wrong for you Chat Icon

Posted 4/18/07 6:49 PM
 

MrsRbk
<3 <3 <3 <3

Member since 1/06

19197 total posts

Name:
Michelle

Re: Poll - Homeownership

Posted by MrsPorkChop

my answer- money- freakin- pit


something is always breaking

or flooding

or needing replacement

it makes me sad. i work so hard for my house and i feel like i get nothing from it. i wish i didnt give into the pressure of homeownership. id have a HELL of alot of money in my bank if i waited.
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ditto on all accounts

but at the same time, I love that we own a house.

Posted 4/18/07 6:53 PM
 

~Colleen~
my loves...

Member since 5/05

9129 total posts

Name:
guess

Re: Poll - Homeownership

Posted by smdl

We bought a "cosmetic fixer" house. So, we have stuff to be fixed (like most houses on LI which are at least 50 years old!) but the house is really sound.


Same here...and I love it. I don't know if I would classify it as a "dream come true" but she's been really good to us and we've been having fun fixing her up Chat Icon

Posted 4/18/07 7:11 PM
 

MrsPowers
So blessed!

Member since 11/06

10348 total posts

Name:
Ivelysse

Re: Poll - Homeownership

Posted by smdl

We bought a "cosmetic fixer" house. So, we have stuff to be fixed (like most houses on LI which are at least 50 years old!) but the house is really sound.



Same here. We are just doing things to show our personal taste. Nothing too major needs to be done.

Posted 4/18/07 8:25 PM
 

july06bride
I'm a mom!

Member since 5/05

3966 total posts

Name:
Nicole

Re: Poll - Homeownership

I say dream come true, I feel very lucky to be young and able to own a nice home, in a nice area-we are lucky that we haven't had to put much money into our home because it was newer-and everything we did do, was expected

Message edited 4/18/2007 9:27:22 PM.

Posted 4/18/07 9:06 PM
 

Jen13
LIF Zygote

Member since 6/06

25 total posts

Name:
Jennifer

Re: Poll - Homeownership

I am so sorry your sad. I have the same feeling you do sometimes I wish I had the money in the bank instead. It stinks when things break and we have to fix them especially when it's a surprise. Overall I am happy I have my house at the end of the day. It feels good to own something so special.

Posted 4/18/07 9:53 PM
 

anjerandunder
Positive thoughts worked!!!

Member since 6/06

1909 total posts

Name:
J

Re: Poll - Homeownership

a dream come true but then again we're not in the house yetChat Icon

Posted 4/18/07 9:56 PM
 

johnsae
Sip.

Member since 3/06

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Re: Poll - Homeownership

A dream come true. I love our house so much.

Posted 4/18/07 11:30 PM
 

MegZee
My bunny

Member since 5/06

8777 total posts

Name:
Meaghan

Re: Poll - Homeownership

Posted by smdl

We bought a "cosmetic fixer" house. So, we have stuff to be fixed (like most houses on LI which are at least 50 years old!) but the house is really sound.



same. so far we have only spent (knock on wood) on things we knew we were going to change - surprises that came up luckily havent been too $$$$.

Posted 4/19/07 5:48 AM
 

2PreciousBlessings
The Perfect Pair

Member since 5/06

19861 total posts

Name:
Best Wife & Mommy

Re: Poll - Homeownership

Posted by johnsae

A dream come true. I love our house so much.



Same here!!!

Posted 4/19/07 6:52 AM
 

Faithx2
All good things in 2016!!

Member since 8/05

20181 total posts

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Re: Poll - Homeownership

A little bit of both for us. Whatever we put into it we know we will get back but it's ALOT of work and $$. It's a beautiful house and I do feel blessed.....

Message edited 4/19/2007 7:34:16 AM.

Posted 4/19/07 7:03 AM
 

GoldenRod
10 years on LIF!

Member since 11/06

26792 total posts

Name:
Shawn

Re: Poll - Homeownership

Even though houses always need fixing, I enjoy it. I like fixing thing around the house (although the leaking roof was NOT fun...... Chat Icon )

Overall, for me, it's definitely worth the time and money. I often wonder how people manage owning a house when they aren't able to fix things themselves.... I do so many things around the house that would cost $$$ to have a professional come in and do.

Posted 4/19/07 7:13 AM
 

Kissy331
My two miracles!

Member since 5/06

17826 total posts

Name:
Kristen

Re: Poll - Homeownership

Definately a dream come true...I feel blessed to have the home we have & honestly sometimes feel I am so young to own a home! We bought our house from a contractor that completely re-did our home. So anything we do to it now, ups the value

Posted 4/19/07 7:26 AM
 

Janice
Sweet Jessie Quinn

Member since 5/05

27567 total posts

Name:
Janice

Re: Poll - Homeownership

not a homeowner, but lately I have had feelings of it being overrated for some.

We bid on one, it was too late.
Bid on another, inspection came back terrible, so with a baby on the way, we moved into a new apt.

Saving for a home was our long term goal, we definitely wanted to buy, but I have grown to love apartment style living. I love that I have a pool, that I don't take care of. I love that I don't have to replace anything.

I know building equity would be nice, and the interest and taxes we are paying on banked money suc ks...but when I was doing the paperwork for the mortgage, I could not believe how much of the payment goes to interestChat Icon
So for the time being, I am a very happy renter.

Posted 4/19/07 8:54 AM
 

LaPetiteSirène
:)

Member since 8/06

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Re: Poll - Homeownership

Although my house needed work before we moved in, I wouldn't pass up the neighborhood, house itself (we wanted this particular style), size of the property (we have a 1/2 acre), or town. Our home has tons of possibilities and we are excitedly researching what we want to do with it next. We definitely didn't settle and I'm SO happy that when the house was offered to us we JUMPED on it!

Posted 4/19/07 8:57 AM
 

TheLorax
LOVE

Member since 2/06

5581 total posts

Name:
Suzanne / SuzBride

Re: Poll - Homeownership

Dream. There are things that go wrong (and that are payful to pay for), but all in all it is SO nice to have our own space, our own backyard. Plus I love decorating and making the space my own.

Posted 4/19/07 8:58 AM
 

alisonggg
Cutie

Member since 3/06

4749 total posts

Name:
a

Re: Poll - Homeownership

Posted by smdl

We bought a "cosmetic fixer" house. So, we have stuff to be fixed (like most houses on LI which are at least 50 years old!) but the house is really sound.



This was us too....For us it has been a dream come true...We havent had any major unexpected expenses yet (knock on wood). We enjoy living in our home so much.

Posted 4/19/07 9:25 AM
 

bikramaddict
mommy-to-be

Member since 8/06

4376 total posts

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Re: Poll - Homeownership

i'm in the middle on that one. i love that i'm not renting but at the same time, i don't love that I have to fix and pay for everything myself.

Posted 4/19/07 10:19 AM
 

ckdk
My girls

Member since 5/05

7027 total posts

Name:
Cheryl

Re: Poll - Homeownership

somewhere in the middle...I love owning a home and I love my house...It's far from a money pit but I have come to terms with the fact that we will always be putting money into it and something will always need to be done.
I don't have my "dream house" and it was not new construction.

Posted 4/19/07 10:56 AM
 
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