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The Journey to Fill Our Nest: Filled. Sharing "OUR" Story

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2BirdsofaFeather
Miracles can happen!

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The Journey to Fill Our Nest: Filled. Sharing "OUR" Story

I was an avid poster on this board 40 or so weeks ago. Many of you may not know our story so I thought I would update you all. This is an extremely shortened version of our journey!

In June of 2011, my husband and I bought the house of our dreams. Ok maybe not dreams, but our nest nonetheless. Of course the next step was filling the nest with lil’ chicks! In December of 2011 we decided to go to the RE because I knew I had PCOS.

I wanted things to happen, so we were proactive. Now, I will say that this RE we saw was a family friend but is well known on these boards. After my initial blood work, I came back as a carrier of Fragile X. (a whole other story) My DH also had some morphology and motility issues which at first they recommended IUI, but we went straight to IVF due to me being a carrier and IUI percentages not in our favor. We decided IVF because we wanted to do PGD on our embryos.

July 2011: Fresh Cycle, 5dt – BFN
November 2011: Frozen Chemical
March/April 2012: Fresh Cycle, frozen transfer – due to embryology lab error- Chemical

PGD was done on all of these embryos. At first just looking for the Fragile X marker. Then the third cycle the office paid for me to get all genetic testing because of the lab’s error.

I knew something else was wrong.. I went to see Dr. Kofinas at the suggestion of some very INSPIRATIONAL posters. He tested me right after my chemical for immunology issues, clotting issues and of course NK cells. The tests came back. They issues were not off the charts but, I had poor uterine blood flow, slight clotting issues and elevated NK cells.

I knew I HAD to see Dr. Braverman. In May of 2012, we went for a consult. He suggested I use the typical IF drugs along with Intralipids, Lovenox, and some other medication I can’t remember because endometriosis runs in my family.

I had frozen embryos which were tested for chromosomal irregularities, so I knew I had the most information about them. We decided we would use these embryos.

After being put on birth control to start my cycle- I ovulated! Yep, PCOS and I ovulated on birth control (which isn’t the first time that has happened) My DH and I took our embryos on a trip to the lab that Dr. B uses. Scary!!!!!!!!! We packed them up and put them in our car.

Well, needless to say three or so weeks ago our daughter was back in our car with us! This time as a little bundle of joy coming to live with us. Happy and healthy as can be.

I wanted to tell you all to never lose hope. You can get low, like we did after 3 failed cycles,… but keep the hope alive.

My last cycle included acupuncture and a closer look into my faith. I know now that God gave me these struggles for a reason. It is my testimony. Believe in yourself. Believe in what you’re doing. BELIEVE!!!!

Sorry for my lack of writing skills! I just wanted to put it out there now before life gets in the way.

Posted 5/16/13 8:44 PM
 
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PennyCat
Just call me mommy :)

Member since 7/08

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Jib

Re: The Journey to Fill Our Nest: Filled. Sharing "OUR" Story

I rarely say this .. maybe it's the hormones, but mostly I attribute it to your story of hope and strength....... your story brought tears to my eyes. Chat Icon Chat Icon I'm so happy to read this amazing update. Sometimes all it takes is believing and finding the team of doctors who will work. Congratulations on the birth of your daughter!! Care to share the name of your baby bird? Chat Icon

Posted 5/16/13 9:25 PM
 

PhyllisNJoe
My Box Is Broken

Member since 6/11

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Phyllis

Re: The Journey to Fill Our Nest: Filled. Sharing "OUR" Story

Chat Icon thank you for sharing your story. It definitely gives those of us still struggling some extra hope.

Congratulations

Posted 5/16/13 10:01 PM
 

IrishGirl2007
LIF Infant

Member since 9/10

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The Journey to Fill Our Nest: Filled. Sharing

Thank you so much for your very personal inspiring story!! It helps so much to hear & share from others......you give us hope!

Posted 5/16/13 10:24 PM
 

FlowerWife
Positive Vibrations...

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The Journey to Fill Our Nest: Filled. Sharing

im so happy to see an update from you - i was wondering how you've been. i am soooo happy to read this!!!!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon
enjoy your little miracle. as dr. B said to me the day after my DD was born, "Life has just begun MOMMY!!" Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Message edited 5/16/2013 10:46:13 PM.

Posted 5/16/13 10:44 PM
 

ElizaRags35
My 2 Girls

Member since 2/09

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Me

The Journey to Fill Our Nest: Filled. Sharing

Thank you for sharing! Congratulations!!

Posted 5/16/13 11:16 PM
 

gina409
TWINS!

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g

Re: The Journey to Fill Our Nest: Filled. Sharing "OUR" Story

i have thought about you!!!!!!!!!

so so happy for you! enjoy every moment!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 5/16/13 11:56 PM
 

LoLaBlue
PARTY OF 5

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Re: The Journey to Fill Our Nest: Filled. Sharing "OUR" Story

I am so incredibly happy for you!
congrats!

Posted 5/17/13 7:53 AM
 

Jax430
Hi!

Member since 5/05

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Jackie

Re: The Journey to Fill Our Nest: Filled. Sharing "OUR" Story

What a wonderful story. I'm so happy for you, mama!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 5/17/13 8:37 AM
 

LIRascal
drama. daily.

Member since 3/11

7287 total posts

Name:
Michelle

The Journey to Fill Our Nest: Filled. Sharing

OMG SO happy for you and DH! Welcome to your new baby daughter and I hope that your story inspires people to keep going, going going going going.... There is always a shred of hope! So happy for you! Chat Icon

Posted 5/17/13 9:55 AM
 

2BirdsofaFeather
Miracles can happen!

Member since 10/10

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The Journey to Fill Our Nest: Filled. Sharing

Thank you all very much! I don't get on much anymore but know I am thinking of you all!

Posted 5/17/13 10:07 AM
 

IveGotAFeeling
Always look on the bright side

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of life!

Re: The Journey to Fill Our Nest: Filled. Sharing "OUR" Story

Thank you for sharing! So happy for you! Chat Icon

Posted 5/17/13 11:54 AM
 

LizSav315
LIF Infant

Member since 4/13

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Liz

The Journey to Fill Our Nest: Filled. Sharing

Thanks for sharing!! such a wonderful and inspiring story!!

Posted 5/17/13 3:17 PM
 

MrsGoldie
<3 Miracles can happen <3

Member since 9/12

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R

The Journey to Fill Our Nest: Filled. Sharing

Thank you for sharing your beautiful story!!! Congratulations!!

Posted 5/17/13 3:27 PM
 

01ellie
LIF Adult

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Re: The Journey to Fill Our Nest: Filled. Sharing "OUR" Story

what a wonderful story and so so so happy for you. Enjoy every day with your little one!

Posted 5/17/13 4:17 PM
 

FergieK
Loving my girls

Member since 7/09

2533 total posts

Name:
Fergie

Re: The Journey to Fill Our Nest: Filled. Sharing "OUR" Story

that is wonderful. Congratulations!

Posted 5/17/13 10:54 PM
 
 

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