I was looking at our BD schedule this cycle and I feel like we didn't have a great schedule.
The week before I got my +opk DH and I got into a small fight over how scheduled our sex life has become. So I just stepped back from it and figured that since I was getting all -opks that I wasn't missing anything. I didn't want to press the issue and have blow out. I know that he feels the stress of TTC as much as me.
We BD on CD 8 then the next time we BD was CD11 the next night we had our spat. So then it was a while till we BD again CD 19. The next day CD20 I got my first +opk we BD that night, the next day CD 21 got another +opk and again we BD that night. I got a -opk on cd 22. We BD days 22-24.
So do you think we did ok or that we messed up?
I told DH yesterday that if we are out this month I don't want to hear a peep about how scheduled it is.
Really? That is great to hear. I am such a nervous wreak. I don't how much more of this I can take. I want to scream sometimes. Then I saw that news story with the young girls making a pregnancy pack it made me cry my eyes out. These young girls getting pg and yet I can't. I feel bad for feeling that way but sometimes I just cant help it.
I also think you got it right. Best of luck to you!
I agree that all this scheduling makes us all a little nuts and makes the sex life not all that exciting - more like a chore than fun - but hopefully it will be all worth it and we will get our bundles of joy!
