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Blu-ize
Plan B is Now Plan A
Member since 7/05 32475 total posts
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Susan
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Please forgive me
If I'm not terribly supportive to you ladies right now.
I know you understand, but I thought I would tell you that I'm still hopeful for everyone and feel your pain.
Right now, I'm just in a bad place but I appreciate all of your good wishes and advice.
thanks
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quasi3
LIF Adult
Member since 7/07 1764 total posts
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Stacey
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Re: Please forgive me
no problem, we are all allowed to be down!
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| Posted 6/12/08 10:43 AM |
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MrsRbk
<3 <3 <3 <3
Member since 1/06 19197 total posts
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Michelle
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Re: Please forgive me
Susan - We've all been there! That's what this board is about!
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| Posted 6/12/08 10:43 AM |
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Blu-ize
Plan B is Now Plan A
Member since 7/05 32475 total posts
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Susan
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Re: Please forgive me
i've never felt this much despair
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| Posted 6/12/08 10:48 AM |
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SweetTooth
I'm a tired mommy!
Member since 12/05 20105 total posts
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Lauren
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Re: Please forgive me
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| Posted 6/12/08 10:58 AM |
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fullofhope13
Please stay little one
Member since 2/08 1158 total posts
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Helen
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Re: Please forgive me
We all can relate; sending so many hugs your way. Wish they could be real.
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| Posted 6/12/08 11:00 AM |
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Bxgell2
Perfection
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Beth
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Re: Please forgive me
Posted by Blu-ize
i've never felt this much despair
Susan, my heart goes out to you - we can all understand the place you are in so don't ask for forgiveness.
I know you've mentioned therapy before - I can only suggest that if you aren't in it at the moment, that you think about making an appointment. The despair you feel is normal, and you need an outlet to talk this through and find a way of dealing with it, and moving forward.
And remember, we are all here for you
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| Posted 6/12/08 11:06 AM |
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Blu-ize
Plan B is Now Plan A
Member since 7/05 32475 total posts
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Susan
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Re: Please forgive me
Posted by Bxgell2
Posted by Blu-ize
i've never felt this much despair
Susan, my heart goes out to you - we can all understand the place you are in so don't ask for forgiveness.
I know you've mentioned therapy before - I can only suggest that if you aren't in it at the moment, that you think about making an appointment. The despair you feel is normal, and you need an outlet to talk this through and find a way of dealing with it, and moving forward.
And remember, we are all here for you
I have a wonderful therapist. I called her today since I'm working from home (couldn't face the office today) to see if she could see me. I am scheduled to see her Monday anyway. This suks.
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| Posted 6/12/08 11:09 AM |
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Bxgell2
Perfection
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Beth
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Re: Please forgive me
Posted by Blu-ize
Posted by Bxgell2
Posted by Blu-ize
i've never felt this much despair
Susan, my heart goes out to you - we can all understand the place you are in so don't ask for forgiveness.
I know you've mentioned therapy before - I can only suggest that if you aren't in it at the moment, that you think about making an appointment. The despair you feel is normal, and you need an outlet to talk this through and find a way of dealing with it, and moving forward.
And remember, we are all here for you
I have a wonderful therapist. I called her today since I'm working from home (couldn't face the office today) to see if she could see me. I am scheduled to see her Monday anyway. This suks.
Good. I'm glad - hopefully she can help you work through this a little. Yes, it DOES suc!k. But you know what? We are ALL stronger than IF. You can get through this
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| Posted 6/12/08 11:11 AM |
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Blu-ize
Plan B is Now Plan A
Member since 7/05 32475 total posts
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Susan
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Re: Please forgive me
Posted by Bxgell2
Posted by Blu-ize
Posted by Bxgell2
Posted by Blu-ize
i've never felt this much despair
Susan, my heart goes out to you - we can all understand the place you are in so don't ask for forgiveness.
I know you've mentioned therapy before - I can only suggest that if you aren't in it at the moment, that you think about making an appointment. The despair you feel is normal, and you need an outlet to talk this through and find a way of dealing with it, and moving forward.
And remember, we are all here for you
I have a wonderful therapist. I called her today since I'm working from home (couldn't face the office today) to see if she could see me. I am scheduled to see her Monday anyway. This suks.
Good. I'm glad - hopefully she can help you work through this a little. Yes, it DOES suc!k. But you know what? We are ALL stronger than IF. You can get through this
My biggest fear is that no program will take me.
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| Posted 6/12/08 11:17 AM |
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leighdvm
My golden boys!
Member since 3/06 4419 total posts
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Michele
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Re: Please forgive me
Oh Susan, my heart totally goes out to you.....I pray that you will find a program that takes you 
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| Posted 6/12/08 11:21 AM |
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Babe49
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Member since 4/08 1880 total posts
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Maria
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Re: Please forgive me
Susan, we are all here for you and we know the feeling of the stress, disappointment, excitement, anxiety, blah, blah.... I wish there was more I could say or do, but if you ever wanna talk.....
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| Posted 6/12/08 11:41 AM |
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Kissy331
My two miracles!
Member since 5/06 17826 total posts
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Kristen
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Re: Please forgive me
We are all here for one another!!!!
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| Posted 6/12/08 11:58 AM |
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LisaW
Time for me to FLY!
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Did I ever tell you that I hate people?
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| Posted 6/12/08 12:12 PM |
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Donna
1 year already!!
Member since 5/05 3360 total posts
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Donna
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Re: Please forgive me
Posted by Blu-ize
My biggest fear is that no program will take me.
I just wanted to add another clinic to look into - New Hope Fertility. Dr. Zhang doesn't worry about age, FSH, etc.
I'm sorry you're so upset but this is your chance to take back the power. Read books, message boards, etc. Check out different diets, herbs, accupuncture, etc.
I know it's easier said than done but you will be okay again. When being a mother is most important to you, you begin to examine all ways to make that possible.
Many
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| Posted 6/12/08 12:17 PM |
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MrsPornStar
Partners in crime
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Mama
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Re: Please forgive me
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| Posted 6/12/08 12:21 PM |
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LaurenExp
Waiting patiently for baby sis
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L-Diddy EDD 11/11/11 :)
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| Posted 6/12/08 2:39 PM |
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babyfaith
Onward and Upward!
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Re: Please forgive me
I can totally relate to the despair and depression. Right now I am in survival mode and trying all angles to keep my sanity: therapy, accupuncture, massage, medication (when needed), decreasing work stress. IF is a devastating thing. We are here for you!
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| Posted 6/12/08 2:46 PM |
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MrsRbk
<3 <3 <3 <3
Member since 1/06 19197 total posts
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Michelle
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Re: Please forgive me
ITA with this! Trust me when I say you will find a strength within yourself you never knew you had!
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| Posted 6/12/08 2:48 PM |
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Carolyn
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Member since 5/07 5351 total posts
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Twin mommy
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Re: Please forgive me
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Domino
Always My Miracle
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Re: Please forgive me
Nothing to forgive
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| Posted 6/12/08 2:58 PM |
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MrsS518
Big Sister to be!
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Tara
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Re: Please forgive me
we are all here for you!!
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| Posted 6/12/08 4:16 PM |
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rose825
Best Friends
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Re: Please forgive me
Posted by Blu-ize
Posted by Bxgell2
Posted by Blu-ize
i've never felt this much despair
Susan, my heart goes out to you - we can all understand the place you are in so don't ask for forgiveness.
I know you've mentioned therapy before - I can only suggest that if you aren't in it at the moment, that you think about making an appointment. The despair you feel is normal, and you need an outlet to talk this through and find a way of dealing with it, and moving forward.
And remember, we are all here for you
I have a wonderful therapist. I called her today since I'm working from home (couldn't face the office today) to see if she could see me. I am scheduled to see her Monday anyway. This suks.
Monday isn't soon enough, see if she can see you sooner, or if not have a phone session. It will really help
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CAH127
LIF Adult
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Re: Please forgive me
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| Posted 6/12/08 6:28 PM |
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Blu-ize
Plan B is Now Plan A
Member since 7/05 32475 total posts
Name:
Susan
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Re: Please forgive me
Posted by rose825
Posted by Blu-ize
Posted by Bxgell2
Posted by Blu-ize
i've never felt this much despair
Susan, my heart goes out to you - we can all understand the place you are in so don't ask for forgiveness.
I know you've mentioned therapy before - I can only suggest that if you aren't in it at the moment, that you think about making an appointment. The despair you feel is normal, and you need an outlet to talk this through and find a way of dealing with it, and moving forward.
And remember, we are all here for you
I have a wonderful therapist. I called her today since I'm working from home (couldn't face the office today) to see if she could see me. I am scheduled to see her Monday anyway. This suks.
Monday isn't soon enough, see if she can see you sooner, or if not have a phone session. It will really help
I saw her tonight..good session as always. We came to the conclusion that I am mourning. Mostly the loss of the easy conception. I knew it wouldn't be quick and easy but the be turned down..that suks..I feel better.
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