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it's 5:30, and my veins are BULGING OUT OF MY FACE.

I've moved on to the shoes. Time to pack up the espadrilles!

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if you were going to be 1 1/2 hours later than planned, WOULDN'T YOU CALL?!?!

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I would be packing up HIS closet right now.

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he doesn't live here

I don't know whether to be angry or upset - i'm sure he has a perfectly good reason for acting like this, but it's at MY EXPENSE!

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Oh my GOSH Nic I just read thru this entire thread and I have no words

I dont even know where to begin so I'll just leave it off with the fact that I am sorry to see YOU so upset and aggravated, but yet the way you are feeling is totally justified IMO

Sorry sweetie (and further I'm sorry you have been going thru a rough time too, I didn't even realize just know that you can FM me if you ever need to chat okie ? )

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Uch Nic..he better get his azz home soon! I'm sorry you're dealing with this right now. Whatever his reasons, he is not being fair to you at all! They definitely do NOT sound like your crowd of women though.

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just came back to give more

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any updates? I'm guessing he must have returned by now...

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Did he get home yet???

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yeah, he showed up at my door at 5:50pm with a sob story, card, and some flowers.

blah blah blah i needed to "not think about anything for a few hours".
blah blah blah i needed some mindless BSing w/ the guys
blah blah blah i didn't even look at the stripper
blah blah blah blah blahhhhhh....

then he made it a point to say that the other players were so distracted by the stripper, that they were betting recklessly, and he won the $200 tournament.

i sat down w/ him and listed the reasons why i was soooooooo pissssssed...he understands them, but claims that he didn't realize them at the time.

And apparently the other girls there weren't playing cards w/ them, because they don't know how. According to Rich, I wasn't invited because our friend knows that I play (well), and didn't want me to feel left out. (SO not inviting me makes me feel IN??!) guys are so stupid.

I just have to realize that his emotions are probably just as f'ed up as mine are right now....but it's not an excuse.

After a drive down into Huntington and a long walk in the rain, we're "speaking".

thank you again, to everyone

It'll get better. And we'll probably be better people for it.

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I'm glad you two were able to talk and get some things clarified. Things WILL get better.

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just adding some hugs here, Nic... relationships stink sometimes, but you guys are a strong couple and I know that its going to get better

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glad its worked out

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personally if dh said he was just going to play cards i wouldnt care because i TRUST him.
it would tick me off that i purposefully wasnt invited and i would have to say somthing to the a s s h o l e running this party. how do you invite half of a couple?

dumb wad.


if your guy has a problem with playing cards ( it seems he is playing all the time from your post) that is a whole other thing and no i wouldnt let him go and would drop hints about the gambler's anon meeting at the community center.

JMO