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I'm so stupid -- please help me try to fix this

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bikramaddict
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I'm so stupid -- please help me try to fix this

I fibbed on my resume -- said I had a LOWER title at my last job than I actually did. Don't ask why. I had my reasons and yes, I know it was stupid. Now this new place may call the old place to verify my employment and if they hear what my real title was, I know I'm gonna look shady.

So...do I come clean now and explain why I did what I did? Hope that they never ask my last job? Something else?

Please help!

Posted 4/20/07 1:05 PM
 
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usuk2004
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Re: I'm so stupid -- please help me try to fix this

It'll be fine. As long as your old job is giving you a good reference. and at least you didn't say you held a higher position than you did.

I also changed my job title to a lower title on my resume for a while - it was too difficult to explain the internal politics, etc.

Posted 4/20/07 1:07 PM
 

QuoteTheRaven424
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Re: I'm so stupid -- please help me try to fix this

send them an FYI email a fresh copy of the resume, with the new title. tell them you're consistently updating it, and wanted to make sure they had the latest copy

Posted 4/20/07 1:07 PM
 

lilacwine
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Re: I'm so stupid -- please help me try to fix this

Well, you've already lied to them. If you bring it up out of nowhere, you'll destroy any credibility you may have had with them. So, I'd say don't bring it up unless they either ask you about it or tell you that they're not going to offer you the job because your references didn't check out.

Did you state your salary as the salary for the higher position or the lower position? Or, did you try to pass off the lower title with the higher salary?

Honesty. It's a good thing. Seriously. Consider it. Chat Icon

Posted 4/20/07 1:12 PM
 

bikramaddict
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Re: I'm so stupid -- please help me try to fix this

Posted by lilacwine

Well, you've already lied to them. If you bring it up out of nowhere, you'll destroy any credibility you may have had with them. So, I'd say don't bring it up unless they either ask you about it or tell you that they're not going to offer you the job because your references didn't check out.

Did you state your salary as the salary for the higher position or the lower position? Or, did you try to pass off the lower title with the higher salary?

Honesty. It's a good thing. Seriously. Consider it. Chat Icon



I stated my exact salary. Didn't up it one penny. I gave the lower title and the actual salary.

Posted 4/20/07 1:18 PM
 

paulandles912
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Re: I'm so stupid -- please help me try to fix this

You said before in your other post that they were doing a background check and contacting your old employer. If they don't confirm that title then that'll be bad.

I agree with the other poster that maybe you can try to email them an updated resume.

Posted 4/20/07 1:21 PM
 

leese
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Re: I'm so stupid -- please help me try to fix this

Posted by RandJ0806

I fibbed on my resume -- said I had a LOWER title at my last job than I actually did. Don't ask why. I had my reasons and yes, I know it was stupid. Now this new place may call the old place to verify my employment and if they hear what my real title was, I know I'm gonna look shady.

So...do I come clean now and explain why I did what I did? Hope that they never ask my last job? Something else?

Please help!



You do PR, right? I'm in the same business and I wouldn't do anything until you get the background check, etc.

Did you make it like AAE from AE or AE from Account Supervisor?

I recently had the "background" check but they stop at your current employer until you accept.

Now, if they call the old place and get the correct title -- you could always just say that their titles are little different than the industry and you wanted it to reflect that.

Like, I've been a director before but now I'm a manager, it's totally different so if i were to move forward I would maybe change that director to something similar and wouldn't think different of it.

HTH

Posted 4/20/07 1:24 PM
 

PaddysGirl
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Re: I'm so stupid -- please help me try to fix this

I always thought that ones past employers are only required to provide that yes in fact your worked there and the dates and that information needs to come from HR not your previous manager. Now I am not sure if this is different company to company but I know that is how my company handles it and a few others that I have interacted with. This basically prevents the old company from being sued by the ex employee for defamation of character in case you don't get the job.
Personally, I do not think the title is an issue, it is not like you increased your position.
Well, I hope this helps. Good luck

Posted 4/20/07 2:56 PM
 

leighla
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Re: I'm so stupid -- please help me try to fix this

If you had inflated your title, I would be worried.

As it is now, if they get the exact title from your old company, you can always say that the title you gave is how you were referred to in the office.

"Oh, I guess I was *technically* the Senior Manager of Accounting, but I was always referred to as the Manager."

Posted 4/20/07 3:03 PM
 

bridget-n-jimmy
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Re: I'm so stupid -- please help me try to fix this

You could just tell them that even though they refer to that position as that title in the old company you felt that it was more in line (work wise) to the title that you placed on your resume.

Posted 4/20/07 3:34 PM
 

Jen2999
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Re: I'm so stupid -- please help me try to fix this

If they bring it up, I would just blow it off and say "Oh I must have forgot t change it when I updated my resume last"

I dont thnik it will be an issue.

Posted 4/20/07 5:51 PM
 

sometimesmommy
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Re: I'm so stupid -- please help me try to fix this

Posted by bridget-n-jimmy

You could just tell them that even though they refer to that position as that title in the old company you felt that it was more in line (work wise) to the title that you placed on your resume.


This is what I would use. It maintains your credibility.
I am a recruiter and would not think twice about this answer since titles vary from company to companyChat Icon

Posted 4/20/07 6:00 PM
 

sometimesmommy
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Re: I'm so stupid -- please help me try to fix this

Posted by Jen2999

If they bring it up, I would just blow it off and say "Oh I must have forgot t change it when I updated my resume last"

I dont thnik it will be an issue.




Jen2999
Please dont say this-people have said it to me and it makes me doubt your attention to detail. Chat Icon

Message edited 4/20/2007 6:02:10 PM.

Posted 4/20/07 6:01 PM
 

CouponKT
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Re: I'm so stupid -- please help me try to fix this

I woudn't worry about it too much. Some people are not into "titles" like other people are. Plus, each company may have different tasks and responsibilities for the same job title.
I would think that if you are qualified - you should do just fine!

Posted 4/20/07 10:20 PM
 

CkGm
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Re: I'm so stupid -- please help me try to fix this

I am pretty sure that all your previous employer can say is that you worked there- plus dates of employment- no other details per NY employment law. At least this is what was true when I worked in NY last. Chat Icon

Message edited 4/20/2007 11:35:38 PM.

Posted 4/20/07 11:34 PM
 

bikramaddict
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Re: I'm so stupid -- please help me try to fix this

Posted by sometimesmommy

Posted by bridget-n-jimmy

You could just tell them that even though they refer to that position as that title in the old company you felt that it was more in line (work wise) to the title that you placed on your resume.


This is what I would use. It maintains your credibility.
I am a recruiter and would not think twice about this answer since titles vary from company to companyChat Icon



Oh good! Something like this is what I was leaning towards. LOVE knowing that from a recruiter's standpoint, this is alright. THANK YOU ALL!!!

Posted 4/21/07 3:52 PM
 
 

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