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Disneygirl17
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Re: Would you go?
Ha! Not a chance I'd go to that... and when my sh asked me why I hate his family, I'll tell him "this"
Is why.
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jlm2008
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Re: Would you go?
Posted by JME78
No, sounds like a gift grab.
I would never invite someone to a shower and not to the wedding - its very rude.
This.
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| Posted 3/23/17 7:39 PM |
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Mrs&MrsK
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Re: Would you go?
Posted by Eunyboo
Who invites to a shower and not the wedding? Are you sure the wedding invites just haven't gone out yet? If so, I would decline.
I had this happen once too and was TOTALLY put off by it.
they ended up getting divorced anyway.
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| Posted 3/24/17 10:06 AM |
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MrsG823
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Would you go?
Nope and I wouldn't send a gift either--it is so rude to invite you to the shower but not the wedding.
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| Posted 3/24/17 10:56 AM |
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MrsM84
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Re: Would you go?
Posted by Mrs&MrsK
they ended up getting divorced anyway.
So what? How is this relevant? It sounds like you are insinuating that there was some kind of a "karma" involved since they didn't follow proper party etiquette with their shower invites. Weird. Lots of people get divorced -- even those with perfect showers at fancy places when everyone and their mother is invited.
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| Posted 3/24/17 11:07 AM |
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DiamondGirl
You are my I love you
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Re: Would you go?
Posted by SusiBee
Shower invite but no wedding invite ?
oh hell no.
That's just plain rude - and a gift grab.
this
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| Posted 3/24/17 11:09 AM |
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Chai77
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Re: Would you go?
If you are absolutely sure you are not invited to the wedding, NO WAY would I go to the shower. That is beyond rude. I'd explain my reasoning to DH and leave it at that.
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| Posted 3/24/17 11:17 AM |
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lululu
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Re: Would you go?
No that's so rude to invite you to the shower and not the wedding, unless the wedding is a destination wedding or immediate family only.
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| Posted 3/24/17 11:20 AM |
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CookiePuss
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Re: Would you go?
As the other posters have said...I, too, think it's rude to be invited to a shower but not main event. I would be okay with not being invited to the wedding but don't turn around and invite me to the shower. However, I would send a small gift for their wedding.
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| Posted 3/24/17 11:25 AM |
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Mrs&MrsK
i need sleep ;-)
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Re: Would you go?
Posted by MrsM84
Posted by Mrs&MrsK
they ended up getting divorced anyway.
So what? How is this relevant? It sounds like you are insinuating that there was some kind of a "karma" involved since they didn't follow proper party etiquette with their shower invites. Weird. Lots of people get divorced -- even those with perfect showers at fancy places when everyone and their mother is invited.
It was meant more like at least i didn't waste money on a gift!
i was pretty close to this person so i was very offended at the time. i probably shouldn't have said it without explaining.
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| Posted 3/24/17 12:04 PM |
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summerBaby10
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Re: Would you go?
No way would I go or spend money on a gift.
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| Posted 3/24/17 12:42 PM |
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