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QuoteTheRaven424
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Re: Wonder Husband

Posted by Moehick

The suspense is killing me!



you have a while to wait

Posted 10/17/05 1:09 PM
 
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FeliciaDP

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Re: Wonder Husband

Posted by CaptainCharisma424

Posted by Moehick

The suspense is killing me!



you have a while to wait



Chat Icon But its soo gonna be worth it Chat Icon

Posted 10/17/05 1:15 PM
 

QuoteTheRaven424
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Re: Wonder Husband

Posted by FeliciaDP

Posted by CaptainCharisma424

Posted by Moehick

The suspense is killing me!



you have a while to wait



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shhhhhhhh Chat Icon

Posted 10/17/05 1:16 PM
 

BabyAvocado
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Re: Wonder Husband

I'm intrigued!

Posted 10/17/05 1:47 PM
 

DebG
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Re: Wonder Husband

I am late to this whole thread but wanted tos ay I would be LIVID with DH.
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Posted 10/17/05 2:01 PM
 

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Re: Wonder Husband

Jenn
Any updates? Just now saw this thread. I did something similar last week..My seat belt was caught in the door all night. Two days later, ooops, my battery was dead!
I was so Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon at myself for not checking!

Posted 10/17/05 5:08 PM
 

Redhead
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Re: Wonder Husband

wellllll DON??????

Posted 10/17/05 7:06 PM
 

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Men NEVER cease to amaze me!!!!!!!

Posted 10/17/05 7:30 PM
 

Ambersmom
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Re: Wonder Husband

Wonder husband...yeah, I wonder why we have them sometimes!!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 10/17/05 7:32 PM
 

Redhead
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Re: Wonder Husband

Posted by ambersmom

Wonder husband...yeah, I wonder why we have them sometimes!!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



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Posted 10/17/05 7:40 PM
 

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Re: Wonder Husband

well at least it wasn't the door to the house. DH has done that on a few occassions. YES, left the door WIDE open. wasn't ever overnight but for a few hours while we were out.

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Posted 10/17/05 8:03 PM
 

Redhead
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Re: Wonder Husband

Posted by skew

well at least it wasn't the door to the house. DH has done that on a few occassions. YES, left the door WIDE open. wasn't ever overnight but for a few hours while we were out.

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Posted 10/17/05 8:08 PM
 

lvdolphins
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Re: Wonder Husband

Posted by skew

well at least it wasn't the door to the house. DH has done that on a few occassions. YES, left the door WIDE open. wasn't ever overnight but for a few hours while we were out.

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Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon I think I'd be pretty P.Od at that one!

Posted 10/17/05 8:34 PM
 

luvsbob4603
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Re: Wonder Husband

men!!!! thank god your car is still there and no one stoled it! i would have been p.od myself!Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 10/17/05 8:43 PM
 

Redhead
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Re: Wonder Husband

Posted by luvsbob4603

men!!!! thank god your car is still there and no one stoled it! i would have been p.od myself!Chat Icon Chat Icon



DAMN STRAIGHT I WAS P!SSED Chat Icon

Posted 10/17/05 8:49 PM
 

bklyngirl
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Re: Wonder Husband

what did he saw about the door being opened

Posted 10/17/05 8:51 PM
 

Redhead
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Re: Wonder Husband

Posted by bklyngirl

what did he saw about the door being opened



he first asked....was it all the way open?
I think he was going to use the seatbelt excuse...

But there was NO WAY...The door was all the way open....

He has no excuse...just very apologietic at his utter stupidity...Chat Icon

Posted 10/17/05 8:54 PM
 

oakslady
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Re: Wonder Husband

thank goodness it was still there when you got up - men can be so absent minded sometimes - how do you leave the door open

Posted 10/17/05 10:13 PM
 

QuoteTheRaven424
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Re: Wonder Husband

OK, at long last, after reviewing the thread and similar threads over the past several weeks, here is my response.

I have noticed over the past little while that there have been several threads where someone will come on and "vent" about something their DH has done. First, let me make it clear that this is totally fine. When someone screws up, you have a right to be angry and a right to vent.

Here's where I have a problem. After the initial "vent", we get pages and pages of responses that attack men. We get:

"all men are idiots"

"all men are stupid"

"men are jerks"

"men are a$$holes"

"men don't get it"

"men are absent-minded"

etc.

These generalized statements are silly and without substance, IMO, and disrespectful to the six guys on this site (Ron included :). The funny thing is, you never hear the other guys on here complain. Well, it's time one of us did.

The second thing that irks me is that there seems to be an opinion on here that when your man screws up, that you are somehow OWED something in return (e.g. a gift). Let me break it down for you. You are owed NOTHING, except an apology for the mistake. We're human, we all make mistakes. Yes, even me. It's called married life. We're all gonna leave the car door open, leave the milk out, forget to take out the garbage, etc. But this idea that every screw up deserves a gift is silly IMO. If Boosh got a gift for every time I screwed up, we wouldn't have a place to live because there would be no room. And vice versa.

Now, there are exceptions to this and hey, if your guy wants to buy you a gift after a fight, well, that's because he wants to. But he shouldn't have to feel like he owes you anything, other than an apology.

I have said my piece. Let the flames begin. Chat Icon

Posted 10/18/05 7:33 AM
 

Moehick
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Re: Wonder Husband

Oh Capt what a funny funny guy you areChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 10/18/05 7:39 AM
 

Redhead
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Re: Wonder Husband

Good Points Don

BUT if my "man" is going to treat my property with such utter lack of concern....possibly causing it damage. YOU BET HE WILL PAY Reparations !

ETA. and how i choose to spend said reparations...is entirely up to me Chat Icon

Message edited 10/18/2005 7:51:10 AM.

Posted 10/18/05 7:50 AM
 

Redhead
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Re: Wonder Husband

Continuing:

And to be quite frank...I have heard a certain male poster here talk about "his woman" in not in the most flattering way. It is just venting and joking around. People generalize a lot about lots of people actually....MIL's or should i say monster in-laws IMO get the most crap actually. IMO it is natural.

And i know that LOTS of guys when they are around their male friends talk about the PITA little woman and all the nagging that she does...

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Posted 10/18/05 7:58 AM
 

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Don - it's a site full of women - of course you're going to get a ton of "men are dumb" type comments when we get a DH vent. It doesn't really mean anything. Chat Icon

Plus I have to say that you DO see alot of "my DH is so sweet" threads too so I think it balances out.

Posted 10/18/05 9:05 AM
 

QuoteTheRaven424
22 Months?!!!!

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Re: Wonder Husband

Posted by Redhead

Good Points Don

BUT if my "man" is going to treat my property with such utter lack of concern....possibly causing it damage. YOU BET HE WILL PAY Reparations !

ETA. and how i choose to spend said reparations...is entirely up to me Chat Icon




counterpoint:

he didn't treat your property with an utter lack of concern intentionally. It's not like he went outside and said, "I'm going to leave the car door open". It was a mistake, we all make them. You are owed an apology, nothing more.

Posted 10/18/05 9:05 AM
 

QuoteTheRaven424
22 Months?!!!!

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Re: Wonder Husband

Posted by BabyAvocado

Don - it's a site full of women - of course you're going to get a ton of "men are dumb" type comments when we get a DH vent. It doesn't really mean anything. Chat Icon

Plus I have to say that you DO see alot of "my DH is so sweet" threads too so I think it balances out.



i think as of late, it's been more on the negative. I agree though we do see some nice ones.

Posted 10/18/05 9:07 AM
 
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