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Wish I stayed in the closet ....

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Budjeg11
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Wish I stayed in the closet ....

So this past weekend we made the news official, as we were at three separate functions with friends and family, we figured it was the perfect time to tell everyone we are pregnant and I was pretty excited about it, well...

I liked it better before everyone knew!

My favorite responses from people after we told them (in no particular order!):

1. Speechless, not in a good way, but as in a, completely, flat uninterested response.

2. Oh, a Sagitarious baby, ya they are very difficult personalities, my husband, son and mother in law are all Sagitarious. Good luck.

3. Well, it was about time, I dont know what you were waiting for (ehem, DH and I have only even been married for 1.5 years)

4. Oh, (grimace) December eh, its such a cold and snowy time of year.

5. Oh, (grimace) December eh, ya my (insert some family member or childhood friend) was born in December, he/she always fely gypped around the holidays. Oh well.


6. I knew you gained weight!!


People seriously SUCK. Feel free to post your favorites!

Message edited 6/13/2011 2:26:02 PM.

Posted 6/13/11 2:22 PM
 
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Pomegranate5
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Pomegranate5

Re: Wish I stayed in the closet ....

OMG Chat Icon You need new friends AND family!!!!

I'm sorry you got such a sucky reaction. Chat Icon

Posted 6/13/11 2:24 PM
 

TryingSoHard
I know there's angels watching

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Marissa SugaBeans

Re: Wish I stayed in the closet ....

WOW!!! Just... WOW!!!! Chat Icon

Posted 6/13/11 2:30 PM
 

jamiemarie12
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Re: Wish I stayed in the closet ....

Chat Icon That's terrible, they should have been genuinely excited for you.

Posted 6/13/11 2:40 PM
 

forgetfullucy
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Re: Wish I stayed in the closet ....

Ugh bummer! Tell the Nay Sayers to F OFF! Don't let it kill any ounce of excitement! Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/13/11 2:41 PM
 

Ready4aBaby
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Re: Wish I stayed in the closet ....

God, I HATE people.. couldn't they just say congrats and give you a Chat Icon ???

Posted 6/13/11 2:49 PM
 

MrsPenthouse
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Re: Wish I stayed in the closet ....

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We're due on Christmas and get your 5. ALOT .

Whatevs girl! Congratulations!

Posted 6/13/11 2:52 PM
 

Budjeg11
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Re: Wish I stayed in the closet ....

Posted by forgetfullucy

Ugh bummer! Tell the Nay Sayers to F OFF! Don't let it kill any ounce of excitement! Chat Icon Chat Icon



Took every ounce of strenght I had not to do what your profile icon shows, on a couple of occasions.Chat Icon

Message edited 6/13/2011 3:29:42 PM.

Posted 6/13/11 2:52 PM
 

codybear
Our Family is Complete!

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Christine

Re: Wish I stayed in the closet ....

ugh, what is with people?! Can't they just say congratulations and move on!

Posted 6/13/11 3:07 PM
 

JulyMommy2Be
Happy Autumn<3

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Christina

Re: Wish I stayed in the closet ....

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wow people are so rude!!
so sorry you didn't have a good experience with telling your amazing news! Chat Icon

Posted 6/13/11 3:23 PM
 

LightUpOurLife
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Bonnie-Jean

Re: Wish I stayed in the closet ....

Wow! Those are some REALLY obnoxious responses! So sorry you had to deal with that!

Posted 6/13/11 3:24 PM
 

MySunshine
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Re: Wish I stayed in the closet ....

Maybe it's the hormones but i hate all of those people for you! Chat Icon

Posted 6/13/11 3:32 PM
 

BabyLoveBug143
Alyssa Rose is here!!!

Member since 9/10

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Jessica

Re: Wish I stayed in the closet ....

im a dec baby and i love having my bday by christmas!!

dont listen to them!! you be excited and screw everyone else.

Posted 6/13/11 3:35 PM
 

RocPin
Life's Beachy <3

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Heather

Re: Wish I stayed in the closet ....

Wow! People are ridiculous!

All I heard every time I announced it was how horrible it was that I had to go the entire HOT summer super pregnant (Im due September 2nd) and how it would suck that I had to go all summer without a drink. Chat Icon

Posted 6/13/11 3:37 PM
 

kelkel09
Love my twins!!!

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K

Re: Wish I stayed in the closet ....

people are annoying! Don't let anyone put a damper on this happy time in your life!Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/13/11 3:41 PM
 

Budjeg11
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Re: Wish I stayed in the closet ....

Posted by RocPin

Wow! People are ridiculous!

All I heard every time I announced it was how horrible it was that I had to go the entire HOT summer super pregnant (Im due September 2nd) and how it would suck that I had to go all summer without a drink. Chat Icon




yes the second half to the "oh december, its so cold and snowy blah blah blah was, well atleast you're not really pregnant in the heat of july and august!"

People, cmon! its not like you can plan these things, just SHUT Up, stop talking, like now, shh, dont say it, control yourself!

Message edited 6/13/2011 3:48:36 PM.

Posted 6/13/11 3:47 PM
 

forgetfullucy
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Re: Wish I stayed in the closet ....

Posted by Budjeg11

Posted by forgetfullucy

Ugh bummer! Tell the Nay Sayers to F OFF! Don't let it kill any ounce of excitement! Chat Icon Chat Icon



Took every ounce of strenght I had not to do what your profile icon shows, on a couple of occasions.Chat Icon



That's damn commendable!! Chat Icon bc although I haven't actually come to blows with anyone...this pregnancy isn't over just yet Chat Icon

Posted 6/13/11 5:12 PM
 

teaforthree
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Re: Wish I stayed in the closet ....

Hey!!! As a Sagittarean myself, I LOVE having my birthday around Christmas!It may be tough to schedule a get-together, but it's such a festive time of year!

As for the "difficult personality thing"... I think I turned out alright! Usually Sags end up loving sports (the archer) and are "to the point". But we're also sweet, lovable people and I, for one, get along with almost anyone (except anyone who annoys the crap out of me). lol

Sorry you got that sucky response! Sagittareans rule! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/13/11 5:27 PM
 

ShhItsASecret
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Re: Wish I stayed in the closet ....

Omg that's terrible!Chat Icon

Posted 6/13/11 5:33 PM
 

marymob

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Re: Wish I stayed in the closet ....

Awwww, hon, bless your heart!!! I have a Christmas Baby!!! Course he's 33 now!! I'm happy for you!!!!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Blessings!!!! Mary

Posted 6/13/11 5:55 PM
 

aliwnec10
mom of 3 boys

Member since 4/06

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Ali

Re: Wish I stayed in the closet ....

Posted by Pomegranate5

OMG Chat Icon You need new friends AND family!!!!

I'm sorry you got such a sucky reaction. Chat Icon



ITA!

Posted 6/13/11 8:54 PM
 

WinginIt
LIF Adolescent

Member since 11/10

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Kim

Re: Wish I stayed in the closet ....

What jerks! I am sorry you had some awful responses - just think of all the people who are happy for you both!

Posted 6/13/11 9:11 PM
 

MelToddJulia
Love my Family!

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Mel

Re: Wish I stayed in the closet ....

Wow, what a bunch of downers!! Anyway Sagittarius (like I am) are very out going loving people, who love life and are very adventurous! Everyone always has something to say, its annoying!! Don't let them get you down!!Chat Icon

Posted 6/13/11 9:22 PM
 

nycgirl
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Re: Wish I stayed in the closet ....

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I love the horoscope baby personality predictions...

Posted 6/14/11 8:27 AM
 
 

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