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baghag
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When you argue with someone
Are you usually the bigger person and suggest that you bury the hatchet?
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Posted 12/23/05 3:58 PM  |
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luvsbob4603
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Re: When you argue with someone
Yes!
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| Posted 12/23/05 4:10 PM |
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nancygrace
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Re: When you argue with someone
im half and half on that. sometimes im the bigger person bc i know the other people will never do it. Other times if i feel strongly enough about it i dont back down until the person apologizes. i can be subborn at times
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| Posted 12/23/05 4:10 PM |
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Ambersmom
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Re: When you argue with someone
Posted by baghag
Are you usually the bigger person and suggest that you bury the hatchet?
Yeah, in their head (j/k)...
Honestly...no. I'm very stubborn and see things in black and white (very little shades of grey). It takes awhile for me to back down from my position or from my anger. Although I have to admit, I've been getting better at this and have tried to become receptive to truces. If I have wronged someone without justification, I have been trying to make amends.
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| Posted 12/23/05 4:14 PM |
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neenie
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Re: When you argue with someone
i *think * i usually bury the hatchet. it depends on the argument, but i feel like most of them fall ito 1 of 2 categories:
1. the argument's not worth it
or
2. the person isn't worth it.
usually, if i care enough about the person, i let go of the argument. If i care enough about the argument, i let go of the person. 
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| Posted 12/23/05 4:17 PM |
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Ambersmom
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Re: When you argue with someone
Posted by neeniebean86
i *think * i usually bury the hatchet. it depends on the argument, but i feel like most of them fall ito 1 of 2 categories:
1. the argument's not worth it
or
2. the person isn't worth it.
usually, if i care enough about the person, i let go of the argument. If i care enough about the argument, i let go of the person.
Very good synapsis!!
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| Posted 12/23/05 4:18 PM |
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dooodles
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Re: When you argue with someone
I can bury the hatchet easily after some time has passed.
Except if someone lies to me.
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| Posted 12/23/05 4:20 PM |
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neenie
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Re: When you argue with someone
Posted by dooodles
Except if someone lies to me.
thats a BIG one that i can never get past. (hence, those people fall into category #2 for me )
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| Posted 12/23/05 4:21 PM |
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dooodles
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Re: When you argue with someone
Posted by neeniebean86
Posted by dooodles
Except if someone lies to me.
thats a BIG one that i can never get past. (hence, those people fall into category #2 for me )
Completely agree Neenie. Once they lie, they just aren't worth it anymore!
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| Posted 12/23/05 4:23 PM |
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baghag
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Re: When you argue with someone
thanks for the input, ladies! advice duly noted. 
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| Posted 12/23/05 4:39 PM |
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Ambersmom
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Re: When you argue with someone
Posted by baghag
thanks for the input, ladies! advice duly noted.
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| Posted 12/23/05 4:44 PM |
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05mommy09
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Re: When you argue with someone
Posted by baghag
Are you usually the bigger person and suggest that you bury the hatchet?
Prob about half the time!
It most certainly depends on the person....
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| Posted 12/23/05 4:46 PM |
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baghag
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Re: When you argue with someone
ETA: I like that saying, Neenie!
Message edited 12/23/2005 4:48:11 PM.
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MommyofG
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Re: When you argue with someone
When I am at fault, yes.
edited to say, I dont like being in fights so I guess I do if the other person started it, but I wont take the blame, just bury the hatchet and move on. but if I am at fault I do say it and apologize.
Message edited 12/23/2005 6:19:42 PM.
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| Posted 12/23/05 6:18 PM |
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Redhead
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Re: When you argue with someone
i will be honest and say no i am not
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| Posted 12/23/05 7:53 PM |
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nrthshgrl
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Re: When you argue with someone
Depends on the situation & where I'd like to bury that hatchet.
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| Posted 12/23/05 8:09 PM |
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Bri
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Re: When you argue with someone
Posted by nancygrace
im half and half on that. sometimes im the bigger person bc i know the other people will never do it. Other times if i feel strongly enough about it i dont back down until the person apologizes. i can be subborn at times
me too
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