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Jen2999
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Jen
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well...
I havent posted this week because I was having a REALLY hard time with the meds in that I was VERY emotional and up and down in my moods. I had tested a few times and got BFN's so I was pretty sure it didnt work.
Had Beta today and it came back a 5....so I have to go back on Friday to make sure they go back down to zero before I can discuss a FET. He wants me to stay on the meds until Friday and THAT is really the worst part of this for me because I feel like they are making me crazy and for no purpose.
He did say that the 5 embryos that were frozen were all very good quality so I guess that is a positive. I just dont get it. I am 26 and it is hard to understand what went wrong. They put 2 perfect embies back in and I had off of work the week of retrieval and transfer! If it didnt work in perfect conditions,I just dont see how it will next time.
Im really ok with it, but I just want to be done and I am annoyed I have to go back Friday and remain on meds.
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MrsRbk
<3 <3 <3 <3
Member since 1/06 19197 total posts
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Michelle
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Re: well...
I'm sorry Jen!  I've been thinking about you the past few days.
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| Posted 3/5/08 1:51 PM |
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flowergirl85
LIF Infant
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Missy
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Re: well...
I am sooooo sorry Jen - I too have been thinking of you and sending positive vibes your way -
Try to understand (although I understand it is not easy) that it is nothing YOU did or did not do!! it just wasn't meant to be.
You will be a mom!!!!!
Keep your chin up - we are here for you!! 
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| Posted 3/5/08 1:56 PM |
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JsWife
His laugh, Her smile
Member since 12/06 2902 total posts
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Patricia
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Re: well...
I'm sorry....
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| Posted 3/5/08 2:02 PM |
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MrsJoeG
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Member since 2/08 1482 total posts
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Amanda
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Re: well...
It WILL work You will absolutely positively be a mommy!
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| Posted 3/5/08 2:36 PM |
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Bops
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Re: well...
Jen , I am so sorry to hear that ...There is just no rhyme or reason to any of this....You have 5 more chances and a great attitude which is so important...Keep your chin up- It will happen
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| Posted 3/5/08 2:53 PM |
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leighdvm
My golden boys!
Member since 3/06 4419 total posts
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Michele
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Re: well...
I am so sorry, Jen..... This whole process takes such a huge emotional toll on us...
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| Posted 3/5/08 2:53 PM |
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Kissy331
My two miracles!
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Kristen
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Re: well...
I have been thinking of you a lot lately Jen I was going to send a FM but I wasn't sure.
I am so sorry you are going through this Your emotions are definately normal & it is ok to feel that way but you need to find your inner strength & know that it is nothing you or DH did. Things will happen when the timing is right  DH reminds me all the time that these things happen all for a reason & one day it will make sense...
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| Posted 3/5/08 2:53 PM |
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fullofhope13
Please stay little one
Member since 2/08 1158 total posts
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Helen
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Re: well...
Sorry, Jen; stay strong!!
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| Posted 3/5/08 2:55 PM |
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LaurenExp
Waiting patiently for baby sis
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L-Diddy EDD 11/11/11 :)
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Re: well...
I'm so sorry
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| Posted 3/5/08 3:22 PM |
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karenk71
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Karen
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| Posted 3/5/08 3:34 PM |
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mcl916
my two loves
Member since 10/06 5133 total posts
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Megan
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Re: well...
I'm so sorry Jen, I have been thinking about you today. You have a great attitude about the FET and there is NO reason why it didn't take. Sometimes it just doesn't take. I hope you are able to stop the meds soon and get on with the next cycle.
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| Posted 3/5/08 3:52 PM |
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MST9106
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| Posted 3/5/08 3:57 PM |
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MrsMessina
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Re: well...
I'm sorry.
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| Posted 3/5/08 4:10 PM |
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Gertyrae
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Gerty ®
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Re: well...
I'm so sorry you are going through this...if it makes you feel any better, I did everything right on my last fresh cycle and nothing right on my FET and ended up PG on the FET.
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| Posted 3/5/08 5:35 PM |
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babyquestion
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Re: well...
I am so sorry!
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| Posted 3/5/08 6:27 PM |
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rose825
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Re: well...
That BFN after everything was "perfect" suckks big time. And staying on the meds when you know its hopeless blows. I had to do it when I was already bleeding, and once when by beta was 13. I hated every moment of it.
But they want you to stay on it cause there may be a chance, so for that chance
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| Posted 3/5/08 6:34 PM |
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juju
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Re: well...
So Sorry!
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| Posted 3/5/08 7:04 PM |
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CAH127
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Re: well...
I am so sorry.
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| Posted 3/5/08 7:59 PM |
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Goldi0218
My miracles!
Member since 12/05 23902 total posts
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Leslie
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Re: well...
Jen I am so sorry.
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| Posted 3/5/08 8:14 PM |
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beautyq115
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Re: well...
I am so sorry Jen...I cannot even begin to imagine what you are going through..you are in my thoughts
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| Posted 3/5/08 8:46 PM |
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babystuff1
LIF Toddler
Member since 8/07 420 total posts
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Twins for us!!!!
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Re: well...
I am so sorry
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| Posted 3/6/08 8:05 AM |
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Carolyn
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Member since 5/07 5351 total posts
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Twin mommy
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Re: well...
I'm sorry Jen...best of luck with your next cycle!
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| Posted 3/6/08 12:32 PM |
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babyquestions
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Re: well...
I'm so sorry....
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| Posted 3/6/08 1:34 PM |
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lemonlime
Member since 1/07 1226 total posts
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Jennifer
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Re: well...
I am so sorry 
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