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Wedding etiquette question

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saraH
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Wedding etiquette question

Just curios as to what you would do here.

Your at a family wedding, walking into dinner after the ch. at your table of 12, you notice that you are short a place setting, seat. Do you: find the maitre d and explain you need a setting and seat. Possibly find the bridal attendant and tell her. Or run right to the brides parents and dramatically tell them that YOU need another chair. And go on and on about it for a while.

What do you think my mil did? Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 5/31/12 1:55 PM
 
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tink23
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Lori

Re: Wedding etiquette question

Sorry, but Chat Icon Chat Icon. Sounds like your MIL ran to the bride's parents and made a big fuss.

I would definitely find an employee or ANYONE ELSE besides the bride/groom and their immediate family.

Sorry that happened! Chat Icon

Posted 5/31/12 2:00 PM
 

jilliibabii
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Jillian

Re: Wedding etiquette question

D. None of the above. I'd run right up to the bride and rip her a new one. How dare she not provide support for my rear end! Chat Icon



Chat Icon On a serious note, all you can do is laugh about it. Chat Icon I hope the bride's parents had a sense of humor!

Posted 5/31/12 2:08 PM
 

GoldenRod
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Shawn

Re: Wedding etiquette question

I would grab the mic from the DJ and scream and rant about for at least 10 minutes, then fume about it for the remainder of the ceremony, making sure nobody else enjoyed themselves, either..... Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

.... either that, or quietly ask the waitstaff for a place setting....

Posted 5/31/12 2:15 PM
 

JenniferEver
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Jennifer

Re: Wedding etiquette question

LOL, I can guess what your MIL did.

I would quietly find the Maitre'D and tell them we need another place setting

Posted 5/31/12 2:16 PM
 

saraH
happy birthday sweet kate!

Member since 5/05

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I know that God exsists, I held her in my arms...

Re: Wedding etiquette question

Ding ding ding!

The woman has no social graces whatsoever.

I do like GR's approach. I think I'll save that for my bil's wedding, of that day ever happens.

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Posted 5/31/12 2:25 PM
 

saraH
happy birthday sweet kate!

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I know that God exsists, I held her in my arms...

Re: Wedding etiquette question

And at my wedding, my parents had no seats.

We didn't know until,the next day. My dad got th bridal attendant and maitre d and figured it out. If it was my il's they would've ran right up to us.

Posted 5/31/12 2:28 PM
 

Songwriter76
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David

Re: Wedding etiquette question

Where do you and your family have weddings? It seems like there is an epidemic of parents not getting seats! Chat Icon

Posted 5/31/12 4:24 PM
 

summerBaby10
let's be nice

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Wifey

Re: Wedding etiquette question

ha! This happened at my wedding. My parent's table was short a place setting for my mom & my mom told me & I became pissed off so I went to the maitred to get an extra place setting.

Posted 5/31/12 4:32 PM
 
 

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