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Aristotelina
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Penny
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ummm....Let's Talk About Sex......please? LOL
Okay for those who aren't too shy and who aren't afraid of "TMI"...who here has sex on the regular?
I will admit it...I have not had ANY sex since I found out I was pregnant. I know the doctor said it's COMPLETELY safe but I was afraid all that poking around would dislodge the baby or something. 
But poor, poor DH is getting a little less patient lately and now that I'm four months pregnant I know I have to "get over it" and "just do it".
But is anyone else squeamish about the idea? I still get nervous!!!
Thanks ladies!!! 
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nraboni
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Re: ummm....Let's Talk About Sex......please? LOL
Me...NOPE!!! But I am sure that once I am further along it is just going to be uncomfortable but that is why there are so many different positions to choose from! lololol
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| Posted 8/3/10 3:35 PM |
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gporka23
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Re: ummm....Let's Talk About Sex......please? LOL
We do about 3x's a week mon - fri.. and usually twice a day on weekends (if he doesnt have to go to work early) Don't judge me, its the hormones I swear  Pregnancy has really increased the desire!.. 
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| Posted 8/3/10 3:37 PM |
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melbalalala
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Re: ummm....Let's Talk About Sex......please? LOL
Posted by Aristotelina
But poor, poor DH is getting a little less patient lately and now that I'm four months pregnant I know I have to "get over it" and "just do it".
I agree with DH, it's time you put out  baby will be fine!
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| Posted 8/3/10 3:38 PM |
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nicknmb
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Re: ummm....Let's Talk About Sex......please? LOL
took me until about 18 weeks or so before I would allow DH to come near me....then once I gave in, it was like to hormones took over and I was a horn-ball until the very end!!! To me there is nothing like a Pregnant ******!!!
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| Posted 8/3/10 3:39 PM |
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GrayStreet09
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Re: ummm....Let's Talk About Sex......please? LOL
We do! We do it the same amount now as we did before the BFP. Which is a lot lol
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| Posted 8/3/10 3:40 PM |
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MRnMRSNurse
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Re: ummm....Let's Talk About Sex......please? LOL
We had sex daily until the Dr. told us I had placenta previa & we can't have sex anymore. We have cheated a few times because we can't resist but were very careful. We are looking forward to my placenta taking a hike where it belongs!!
When we are in that moment I just forget I'm pregnant & focus on how much I love DH.
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| Posted 8/3/10 3:41 PM |
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Harlow-J
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Re: ummm....Let's Talk About Sex......please? LOL
We've cut down to like once a week.........I'm still paranoid!
I'll ask the doctor next week
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| Posted 8/3/10 3:42 PM |
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Aristotelina
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Re: ummm....Let's Talk About Sex......please? LOL
Posted by nicknmb
took me until about 18 weeks or so before I would allow DH to come near me....then once I gave in, it was like to hormones took over and I was a horn-ball until the very end!!! To me there is nothing like a Pregnant ******!!!
Oh, DON'T GET ME WRONG..I have been quite randy...but my fear is stronger than my desire.
But THANK YOU for your honest reply ladies...I swear you had me
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| Posted 8/3/10 3:43 PM |
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Eireann
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Re: ummm....Let's Talk About Sex......please? LOL
I could talk about it if I could remember it.
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| Posted 8/3/10 3:43 PM |
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Aristotelina
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Penny
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Re: ummm....Let's Talk About Sex......please? LOL
Posted by Harlow-J
We've cut down to like once a week.........I'm still paranoid!
I'll ask the doctor next week
I'm going tonight...I'm giong to ask again LOL!!
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| Posted 8/3/10 3:44 PM |
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DSLaff
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Re: ummm....Let's Talk About Sex......please? LOL
Posted by gporka23
We do about 3x's a week mon - fri.. and usually twice a day on weekends (if he doesnt have to go to work early) Don't judge me, its the hormones I swear Pregnancy has really increased the desire!..
same here , cant get enough!!! 
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| Posted 8/3/10 3:44 PM |
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LadyBug1209
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Re: ummm....Let's Talk About Sex......please? LOL
Posted by gporka23
We do about 3x's a week mon - fri.. and usually twice a day on weekends (if he doesnt have to go to work early) Don't judge me, its the hormones I swear Pregnancy has really increased the desire!..
You go girl!!!! 
To answer the OP...
Sex has pretty much been none existant lately. I had horrible MS in the first tri... so sex was OUT OF THE QUESTION!  Once I hit the 2nd tri, my hormones were raging and things picked up in that department for a bit. Now at 23 weeks, I feel like a FAT COW. DH keeps telling me how I am more beautiful than ever ( ) but I just don't feel that way AT ALL. We have sex 1-2x a week now, with some other stuff sprinkled in.  It's just not comfortable at all and frankily, the thought of the LO being right there between us is a major turnoff.
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| Posted 8/3/10 3:45 PM |
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curliegirl
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Re: ummm....Let's Talk About Sex......please? LOL
Posted by gporka23
We do about 3x's a week mon - fri.. and usually twice a day on weekends (if he doesnt have to go to work early) Don't judge me, its the hormones I swear Pregnancy has really increased the desire!..
you are a friggin LIAR!!!!!!!!
Crazy pregnant woman.....that's like more times than I do it all YEAR!!!!!! Jesus!!!!!
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| Posted 8/3/10 3:48 PM |
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8ternity
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Re: ummm....Let's Talk About Sex......please? LOL
I was at the beginning, but then I was going nuts lol...I know alot of people think "am i going to poke the baby" its not true!
I say get some lube (you will most likely be very dry) and have fun! 
Just to add: sex is soooo much better preggo!
Message edited 8/3/2010 3:50:25 PM.
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| Posted 8/3/10 3:48 PM |
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Re: ummm....Let's Talk About Sex......please? LOL
In the bginning we didnt have sex at all! I had no desire and I was scared. The desire is coming back but I wouldnt say I want it all the time.
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| Posted 8/3/10 3:50 PM |
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gporka23
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Re: ummm....Let's Talk About Sex......please? LOL
Posted by curliegirl
Posted by gporka23
We do about 3x's a week mon - fri.. and usually twice a day on weekends (if he doesnt have to go to work early) Don't judge me, its the hormones I swear Pregnancy has really increased the desire!..
you are a friggin LIAR!!!!!!!!
Crazy pregnant woman.....that's like more times than I do it all YEAR!!!!!! Jesus!!!!!
trust me.. thats the most he has ever seen it. I think DH is still in shock. He is going to really go through withdrawals once this baby is here... or when I finally get too uncomfy to do it.
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| Posted 8/3/10 3:52 PM |
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Barbiegrl
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Re: ummm....Let's Talk About Sex......please? LOL
Umm we've had sex like 6 times since my BFP At first I just felt so gross all the time with the MS but now that its over I'm feeling better and we are starting to do things again
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| Posted 8/3/10 3:52 PM |
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Aristotelina
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Penny
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Re: ummm....Let's Talk About Sex......please? LOL
I love these replies!!!! Some of your hubbies are lucky bastards!!!
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| Posted 8/3/10 3:55 PM |
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Pray4Baby2010
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Re: ummm....Let's Talk About Sex......please? LOL
umm gporka is my new hero
we're definitely doing it less- maybe 1-2 times a week but we never stopped
its getting more difficult though to figure out how the bigger I get
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| Posted 8/3/10 3:56 PM |
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Aristotelina
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Penny
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Re: ummm....Let's Talk About Sex......please? LOL
Posted by Pray4Baby2010
umm gporka is my new hero
we're definitely doing it less- maybe 1-2 times a week but we never stopped
its getting more difficult though to figure out how the bigger I get
i heard laying on your side is good for when you get bigger....at least that's what DH found out during his research on the net
I think Gporka is everyone's new hero!
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| Posted 8/3/10 3:57 PM |
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gporka23
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Re: ummm....Let's Talk About Sex......please? LOL
Posted by Aristotelina
Posted by Pray4Baby2010
umm gporka is my new hero
we're definitely doing it less- maybe 1-2 times a week but we never stopped
its getting more difficult though to figure out how the bigger I get
i heard laying on your side is good for when you get bigger....at least that's what DH found out during his research on the net
I think Gporka is everyone's new hero!
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| Posted 8/3/10 4:05 PM |
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missa
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Re: ummm....Let's Talk About Sex......please? LOL
sooo with DS pregnancy I was timid in the begining but we did it alot more than this pregnancy I was given a RED light since tha baby was low on cervix at 8 weeks it is now 13 and just today was given the GREEN light so hubby will be surprised tonight!!
Just go for it once that baby comes it will be harder to do enjoy it!!
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| Posted 8/3/10 4:09 PM |
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Karebaby
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Re: ummm....Let's Talk About Sex......please? LOL
We still have sex about 4-5 times a week.
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| Posted 8/3/10 4:20 PM |
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Lanabean
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Re: ummm....Let's Talk About Sex......please? LOL
we still do it....not AS much. we both feel a little weird about it, though. i get nervous and he worries he's hurting me....we try and relax and have fun though!
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