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MetsGirl07
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Member since 12/07 16202 total posts
Name: Deanna
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TTC Topic ... 11/6/08
will you create a fake name when you get a BFP?
or use your original screen name?
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Posted 11/6/08 11:49 AM |
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MetsGirl07
LIF O2 Vendor

Member since 12/07 16202 total posts
Name: Deanna
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Re: TTC Topic ... 11/6/08
to answer my own question... i am actually undecided.. i dont know what i want to do yet
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Posted 11/6/08 11:50 AM |
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Angel321
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Re: TTC Topic ... 11/6/08
no, i didn't, as you all know.
i have too much invested in so many of the women on TTC that i feel cheated when i see the fake names, honestly...
i understand the 'lurker' thing, but at least tell your FRIENDS - ya know?
By posting a BFP - it's not going to change whatever happens....we are NOT IN CONTROL of our bodies.
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Posted 11/6/08 11:53 AM |
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chelle
It's a Good Life

Member since 8/06 15404 total posts
Name: Isn't it obvious?
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Re: TTC Topic ... 11/6/08
Nope. Not this time
I did last month when I was PG, but then I m/c
So this time, since I've gotten such enormous support from so many people...i won't be in hiding when I get PG again
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Posted 11/6/08 11:54 AM |
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Diana1215
Living on a prayer!!!

Member since 10/05 29450 total posts
Name: Diana
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Re: TTC Topic ... 11/6/08
Nope - although I haven't figured out how I would handle it yet being that I would want the friends/family that are on LIF to obviously hear it from me before reading it on here.
And, I would want to tell you all the second I got a BFP!
So - I have no clue what to do!
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Posted 11/6/08 11:55 AM |
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BlueDiamonds
mommy to 3 boys
Member since 2/07 3885 total posts
Name: proud mommy
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Re: TTC Topic ... 11/6/08
nope. no one IRL knows i am on here so by posting my BFP here, i won't be letting the cat out of the bag. that would be the only reason i would hesitate.
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Posted 11/6/08 12:05 PM |
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Re: TTC Topic ... 11/6/08
I am already under an alias due to lurkers. But once I get my BFP...because damn it I will...I'll let everyone out in cyber world know who I am. My really close friends already do. I did make a promise to my late grandmother that I would not tell anyone until after my first trimester. So I am going to try and keep that promise.
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Posted 11/6/08 12:14 PM |
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sweetdreamz1181
Baby Girl on the way!

Member since 1/08 2186 total posts
Name: Jackie
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Re: TTC Topic ... 11/6/08
nope i dont think i have lurkers but then again u never know but it would be a way for me to find out
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Posted 11/6/08 12:15 PM |
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maybeamommy
Blessed beyond belief

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Re: TTC Topic ... 11/6/08
OTHER:
I already have a fake name.
I want my friends IRL to hear it from ME first, not via word-of-mouth because people on LIF knew and it got around. JMO!
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Posted 11/6/08 12:18 PM |
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Diana1215
Living on a prayer!!!

Member since 10/05 29450 total posts
Name: Diana
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Re: TTC Topic ... 11/6/08
Posted by maybeamommy
OTHER:
I already have a fake name.
I want my friends IRL to hear it from ME first, not via word-of-mouth because people on LIF knew and it got around. JMO!
I'm sorry, but I am DYING to know who you are
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Posted 11/6/08 12:19 PM |
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CrankyPants
I'm cranky

Member since 7/06 18178 total posts
Name: Mama Cranky
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Re: TTC Topic ... 11/6/08
No-it's not for me and I have no need. I will try to wait to make a "big announcement" (if I even do that, given the controversy around that) until I see a Dr, but no fakie name in the meantime. My status will be out there for anyone who wants to know.
Also-I only know a few girls from the board IRL so no worry about anyone squealing to my family before I do.
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Posted 11/6/08 12:21 PM |
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MaMaTeenie
Party of 5

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Name: Mommy
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Re: TTC Topic ... 11/6/08
Posted by BlueDiamonds
nope. no one IRL knows i am on here so by posting my BFP here, i won't be letting the cat out of the bag. that would be the only reason i would hesitate.
Same here....I do know 1 person IRL, but she will know when I know anyway. Honestly, i'd rather tell you all than family because you have no emotional attachment if I should mc again and yet I know you will be here for me if I need support.
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Posted 11/6/08 12:24 PM |
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MetsGirl07
LIF O2 Vendor

Member since 12/07 16202 total posts
Name: Deanna
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Re: TTC Topic ... 11/6/08
Posted by CrankyPants
No-it's not for me and I have no need. I will try to wait to make a "big announcement" (if I even do that, given the controversy around that) until I see a Dr, but no fakie name in the meantime. My status will be out there for anyone who wants to know.
Also-I only know a few girls from the board IRL so no worry about anyone squealing to my family before I do.
you better be posting your announcement... you are cranky pants!! the best screen name on LIF!! and we love you
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Posted 11/6/08 12:36 PM |
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NoStressMom
My Heart and Soul

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Name: D
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Re: TTC Topic ... 11/6/08
nope I didn't
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Posted 11/6/08 12:38 PM |
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CrankyPants
I'm cranky

Member since 7/06 18178 total posts
Name: Mama Cranky
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Re: TTC Topic ... 11/6/08
Posted by MetsGirl07
Posted by CrankyPants
No-it's not for me and I have no need. I will try to wait to make a "big announcement" (if I even do that, given the controversy around that) until I see a Dr, but no fakie name in the meantime. My status will be out there for anyone who wants to know.
Also-I only know a few girls from the board IRL so no worry about anyone squealing to my family before I do.
you better be posting your announcement... you are cranky pants!! the best screen name on LIF!! and we love you
for that you get some of these , a few of these and as always to all of us!
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Posted 11/6/08 12:40 PM |
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lolipep
My prayers have been answered

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Name: Lori
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Re: TTC Topic ... 11/6/08
I made the mistake of telling family early on and then m/c so I might keep it from them a little longer this time around , but I think I would post here I don't think I have any lurkers
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Posted 11/6/08 12:41 PM |
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Re: TTC Topic ... 11/6/08
I already have one that I used a while back to ask some TTC questions when we weren't trying...
I just might bust it out if and when I ever get a BFP
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Posted 11/6/08 12:47 PM |
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MetsGirl07
LIF O2 Vendor

Member since 12/07 16202 total posts
Name: Deanna
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Re: TTC Topic ... 11/6/08
it sucks that i have lurkers... why cant they mind their own business.. if it weren't for them, i would come out with no problems!!
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Posted 11/6/08 1:00 PM |
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MRSBA
LIF Adult

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Re: TTC Topic ... 11/6/08
Posted by BlueDiamonds
nope. no one IRL knows i am on here so by posting my BFP here, i won't be letting the cat out of the bag. that would be the only reason i would hesitate.
I agree. I purposely don't post much about who I am IRL for this reason.
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Posted 11/6/08 1:24 PM |
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wcs3504
my boys

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Name: Wanda (formerly cw0904 on LIW)
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Re: TTC Topic ... 11/6/08
We plan on telling everybody after we get the okay from the Dr. when we have a BFP. After TTC'ing for so long, I am not going to wait until the first trimester which was my original plan...
BTW, what is IRL?
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Posted 11/6/08 1:36 PM |
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pinkandblue
Our family is complete, maybe

Member since 9/05 32436 total posts
Name: Stephanie
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Re: TTC Topic ... 11/6/08
I am not a fake screen name type of girl so NO
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Posted 11/6/08 1:41 PM |
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pinkandblue
Our family is complete, maybe

Member since 9/05 32436 total posts
Name: Stephanie
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Re: TTC Topic ... 11/6/08
Posted by wcs3504
BTW, what is IRL?
IRL = In Real Life
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Posted 11/6/08 1:43 PM |
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MrsRbk
<3 <3 <3 <3

Member since 1/06 19197 total posts
Name: Michelle
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Re: TTC Topic ... 11/6/08
I didn't create one. I was a regular poster on IF, but was always quiet about where I was in my cycles. There were a few people that knew via FMs what was going on, and I told those people only after my 2nd beta. I came out officially on the boards after my ultrascreen at 12 weeks.
I had a m/c after my first IVF, and then lost one of my twins at 7 weeks after my second IVF, so I wanted to wait until I was near the end of my 1st trimester.
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Posted 11/6/08 1:48 PM |
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beachgirl
LIF Adult

Member since 7/05 7967 total posts
Name: sara
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Re: TTC Topic ... 11/6/08
No I will be shouting it from the roof tops as you girls have been a HUGE support to me so you may even know before DH if its during a work day.
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Posted 11/6/08 2:01 PM |
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jlrj1219
LIF Adolescent

Member since 3/08 702 total posts
Name: JLRJ1219
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Re: TTC Topic ... 11/6/08
Deanna....THANK YOU for the "day's topic". I really missed this. I LOVED when we did the "non topic's"...where did they go? You fulfilled my fix
Message edited 11/6/2008 6:08:58 PM.
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Posted 11/6/08 6:07 PM |
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