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The Stupidest ? I have ever been asked

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Boobobunny
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The Stupidest ? I have ever been asked

some moron at work just asked me...
"is your sister better now? Is she ok with what happened? Has she made peace with it"

I stood there like a deer in headlights for what seemed liked an eternity...actually about 7 or 8 seconds...and responded "NO"

*** are you kidding me? She just lost her son...of course she's not ok, dumba$$

Posted 9/21/07 3:15 PM
 
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Re: The Stupidest ? I have ever been asked

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Posted 9/21/07 3:17 PM
 

mtnmama

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Posted 9/21/07 3:18 PM
 

nrthshgrl
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Re: The Stupidest ? I have ever been asked

Wait you mean she hasn't made peace with her 4 year old dying? I mean it's been TWO WEEKS already!

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I'm sorry for both of your losses. Many hugs to you both!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 9/21/07 3:20 PM
 

MsSissy
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Re: The Stupidest ? I have ever been asked

Yeah, that was pretty stupid.
I'm sorry some people just don't think before they speak.
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Posted 9/21/07 3:21 PM
 

MrsPJB2007
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Re: The Stupidest ? I have ever been asked

ugh---made PEACE with it?? yeah cause it happens soooo fast. seriously ppl need to just mind their own business with stupid questions like that!

Posted 9/21/07 3:24 PM
 

karabara
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Re: The Stupidest ? I have ever been asked

OMG. What an idiot! I hope she doesn't encounter too many stupid comments like that again, but something tells me there will be more. People can be really ignorant.

Posted 9/21/07 3:28 PM
 

Ambersmom
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Re: The Stupidest ? I have ever been asked

Holy F*ck!!! Are you serious?!? You HAVE to FM me who it is, so I can go key their car!!!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon What an inconsiderate a$$hole!!

Bob actually asked me the other night how you were doing and if you were "back to normal?". I looked at him (like the moron he is) and asked "How do you think she's doing???Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Some people are just so thoughtless DanielleChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 9/21/07 3:36 PM
 

Ritse
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Who's asking?

Re: The Stupidest ? I have ever been asked

I swear some people need to walk around with a sign that says "I am stupid" would make life easier for the rest of us!!!

Jeez, she/he shouldn't even expect you to be okay by now not to talk of your sister!! What a dumba$$$

So sorry that they were so freaking insensitive!!
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Posted 9/21/07 3:44 PM
 

Goldi0218
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Re: The Stupidest ? I have ever been asked

What a dolt.

There is never peace when a child is lost. My mother lost a child over 38 years ago and is not over it.

Posted 9/21/07 3:50 PM
 

SweetestOfPeas
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Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon some people are just clueless! I am so sorry

Posted 9/21/07 3:57 PM
 

Phyl
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Posted 9/21/07 4:00 PM
 

Blu-ize
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Re: The Stupidest ? I have ever been asked

Nobody will ever be at peace with it. What a moron!!!

Does that person have kids? Or a conscience?

Posted 9/21/07 4:00 PM
 

smdl
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Re: The Stupidest ? I have ever been asked

I don't know anyone who would ever be at peace with the loss of a child.

Posted 9/21/07 4:06 PM
 

Ambersmom
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Re: The Stupidest ? I have ever been asked

Posted by Blu-ize

Nobody will ever be at peace with it. What a moron!!!

Does that person have kids? Or a conscience?



No, she's a $hit stirring gossip w&ore who has to interject her comments into every scenario over here at our job. I wish she'd fall into a hole!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 9/21/07 4:06 PM
 

Boobobunny
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Re: The Stupidest ? I have ever been asked

Posted by Ambersmom

Posted by Blu-ize

Nobody will ever be at peace with it. What a moron!!!

Does that person have kids? Or a conscience?



No, she's a $hit stirring gossip w&ore who has to interject her comments into every scenario over here at our job. I wish she'd fall into a hole!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon





Sharon...I think you might be angrier than I am

Posted 9/21/07 4:08 PM
 

CathyB

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Re: The Stupidest ? I have ever been asked

I'm so sorry. What a jerk.

Posted 9/21/07 4:09 PM
 

Ambersmom
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Re: The Stupidest ? I have ever been asked

Posted by Boobobunny

Posted by Ambersmom

Posted by Blu-ize

Nobody will ever be at peace with it. What a moron!!!

Does that person have kids? Or a conscience?



No, she's a $hit stirring gossip w&ore who has to interject her comments into every scenario over here at our job. I wish she'd fall into a hole!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon





Sharon...I think you might be angrier than I am



I am!! I think that overall (and I don't want to make it sound like I've been intentionally overhearing your biz) that everyone has been trying to respect your privacy and be conscientious of what you've been through over here. It's typical NT style to come in and mix it up emotionally when someone is going through something. Unfortunately not enough people put IT in it's places. She's crossed a few lines of mine back in the day (until I told IT's a$$ off). I intensely disliked IT before this issue, now I flat out HATE ITChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 9/21/07 4:13 PM
 

eroxgirl
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Re: The Stupidest ? I have ever been asked

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My grandfather passed away 28 years ago and my mother still mourns him like it was recent, and that at least is the natural order of things. I don't think people ever heal from the loss of a child, certainly not within -- what, a week? Chat Icon What a beast. Chat Icon

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Posted 9/21/07 4:18 PM
 

Preguntas
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That must have been hard to hear. I'm sure this person was trying to express concern, but what an idiot.
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Posted 9/21/07 4:56 PM
 

Goobster
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Re: The Stupidest ? I have ever been asked

How stupid. I hate people sometimes.

Posted 9/21/07 5:15 PM
 

Stefanie

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Re: The Stupidest ? I have ever been asked

STUPID! And uh...nice of them to bring it up...like you want to talk about it with them.Chat Icon

Posted 9/21/07 5:58 PM
 

NewlyMrs
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Re: The Stupidest ? I have ever been asked

What a JACK A S S !!!!

I am so sorry!!!!!

Posted 9/21/07 6:03 PM
 

Gertyrae
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Re: The Stupidest ? I have ever been asked

Wow that is so sad - how would anyone expect someone to ever get over that.

BTW, I didn't know and I am so sorry for your whole family.Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 9/21/07 6:04 PM
 

Stacey1403
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Re: The Stupidest ? I have ever been asked

I seriously would have smacked themChat Icon

Posted 9/21/07 6:06 PM
 
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