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Momma2Be
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thank you card etiquette
would you send a thank you card to someone who chipped in with others for a gift but didn't bother showing up to the shower (even though she RSVP'd yes) and never contacted you to apologize, explain or anything?
For those who would still send the thank you, would you address her absence by saying something like "sorry you couldn't make it"? or just thank her for the gift and leave it at that?
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Posted 3/17/10 5:12 PM  |
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Cpt2007
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Re: thank you card etiquette
Posted by Momma2Be
For those who would still send the thank you, would you address her absence by saying something like "sorry you couldn't make it"? or just thank her for the gift and leave it at that?
Yes, I would. Something like "I'm so sorry that you weren't able to be there (you were missed!) but thank you so much for your gift."
leave it at that. you'll have done the right thing and addressed it in a passive way.
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| Posted 3/17/10 5:24 PM |
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Momma2Be
Mommy of an angel
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Dina
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Re: thank you card etiquette
Thanks!
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| Posted 3/17/10 5:27 PM |
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Deeluvsvinny
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Re: thank you card etiquette
I'm spiteful and would send a TY card to the person who did show up and add the person who chipped in name on that card! But, I'm just cranky, so don't listen to me. 
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| Posted 3/17/10 5:31 PM |
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OrganicMama
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Re: thank you card etiquette
Posted by Cpt2007
Posted by Momma2Be
For those who would still send the thank you, would you address her absence by saying something like "sorry you couldn't make it"? or just thank her for the gift and leave it at that?
Yes, I would. Something like "I'm so sorry that you weren't able to be there (you were missed!) but thank you so much for your gift."
leave it at that. you'll have done the right thing and addressed it in a passive way.
ITA with this.
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| Posted 3/17/10 5:58 PM |
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sunnygirl
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Re: thank you card etiquette
Posted by Cpt2007
Posted by Momma2Be
For those who would still send the thank you, would you address her absence by saying something like "sorry you couldn't make it"? or just thank her for the gift and leave it at that?
Yes, I would. Something like "I'm so sorry that you weren't able to be there (you were missed!) but thank you so much for your gift."
leave it at that. you'll have done the right thing and addressed it in a passive way.
this is what i would do
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| Posted 3/17/10 6:55 PM |
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SecretTTCer
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Re: thank you card etiquette
Of course she should get a TY! She got you a gift!!!!
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| Posted 3/17/10 9:33 PM |
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