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nraboni
Uggh...
Member since 10/09 6905 total posts
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Nicole
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soo frustrating....
I just found out this past weekend that my cousin is PG with #2 and I overheard a co-worker telling a friend of hers on the phone that she is PG. She didn't actually come out and say it but I could tell by the way she was talking. I know she is only about 5 weeks and will probably not come out to anyone at work until she is at least 10 weeks.
I am just so damned frustrated. I know I should be happy for the both of them and I'm sure there is a part of me that is happy for them but right now my jealous, frustrated part is taking over.
DH and I have been trying for 8 months and we just recently met with Dr. B. DH's SA results came back normal and we are waiting on my test results to come back. I have to contact Dr. B on CD1 to schedule CD3 bloodwork. I know that there is hope for us and we will get our BFP soon but I just don't want to hear about other people's BFP's right now.
Ok, vent over. Sorry for the pity party.
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snowflake09
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Member since 4/10 1076 total posts
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Jillian (Bean08)
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Re: soo frustrating....
I know how you feel...this morning as I was walking from Penn Station to my office I was having similar thoughts. It seems like everywhere I walked, there were pregnant women...A while ago it might have made me hopeful to see so many...now it just makes me sad...
Hang in there. And vent away - we all need to!!!!
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| Posted 5/26/10 11:01 AM |
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MrsKS
Thank You St. Gerard.....
Member since 12/09 8306 total posts
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Kerri
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Re: soo frustrating....
I'm LITERALLY RIGHT THERE WITH YOU!!!
It seems everywhere I turn someone is either pregnant or just had a baby. And here I am on going on what SHOULD be month 7 of pregnancy... and instead we are still trying.
Someone literally just came up to me at work and asked when I was having babies. I said... "who knows" with a smile as my other co-workers who know what I've just been through listened on with sad looks on their faces. The girl then went on to talk about how she has a 6 month old and just found out about these 2 other girls who are pregnant and she's looking for a 3rd becuase they come in 3's. And here I am sitting at my desk.. knowing that I'm not her number 3 bc I'm not at all pregnant and just feeling robbed of it all, yet again. It was awkward to say the least. I didn't tell her anything. Eventually she left my desk area.
hugs for you!!!!
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| Posted 5/26/10 11:13 AM |
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snowflake09
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Member since 4/10 1076 total posts
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Jillian (Bean08)
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Re: soo frustrating....
Posted by MrsKS
I'm LITERALLY RIGHT THERE WITH YOU!!!
It seems everywhere I turn someone is either pregnant or just had a baby. And here I am on going on what SHOULD be month 7 of pregnancy... and instead we are still trying.
Someone literally just came up to me at work and asked when I was having babies. I said... "who knows" with a smile as my other co-workers who know what I've just been through listened on with sad looks on their faces. The girl then went on to talk about how she has a 6 month old and just found out about these 2 other girls who are pregnant and she's looking for a 3rd becuase they come in 3's. And here I am sitting at my desk.. knowing that I'm not her number 3 bc I'm not at all pregnant and just feeling robbed of it all, yet again. It was awkward to say the least. I didn't tell her anything. Eventually she left my desk area.
hugs for you!!!!
And hugs for YOU too...Your story made me very sad for you...I know that people obviously don't know your situation, but I just wish the world would realize that pregnancy doesn't come easily to everyone, and that not all pregnancies end happily. But unfortunately, a lot of the world gets to live in that naiveté...
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| Posted 5/26/10 11:16 AM |
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CallaLily
Thank you, Saint Gerard!
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Re: soo frustrating....
Message edited 5/26/2010 12:55:58 PM.
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Exarina
My Two Girls
Member since 12/09 1249 total posts
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Lisa Marie
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Re: soo frustrating....
i know how you feel there are two UNWED girls at work with a friggen BELLY and its so unfair!
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| Posted 5/26/10 1:42 PM |
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BabyHopes15
Thank you St. G for my boy PJ!
Member since 5/10 1756 total posts
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Aim
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Re: soo frustrating....
I hear you! I can't tell you how many girls I know that got pregnant by accident! No 2WW for them! UGH!
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| Posted 5/26/10 2:08 PM |
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Re: soo frustrating....
I'm with you....it is so frustrating. Lately, I just feel like I am giving up because it makes me so  every time I hang out with friends (all have kids), get a BFN and hear about yet another person that is PG.
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| Posted 5/26/10 4:37 PM |
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MrsDeVito
Gio's gonna be a big brother!
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Christina
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Re: soo frustrating....
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Harlow-J
Mason's mommy!
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Jen
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Re: soo frustrating....
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| Posted 5/26/10 4:59 PM |
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allIwant
Love my crazy life!
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Re: soo frustrating....
so sorry you are having a rough day!
Don't worry Dr. B is the best...I didn't go on CD3 for my first appt and he still did bloodwork and was able to find out alot about me and we got started really quick!!!
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| Posted 5/26/10 6:42 PM |
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angel333
Sigh.....
Member since 3/10 1803 total posts
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AKS
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Re: soo frustrating....
Just want ot give you a big and  and tell you not worry! Our time should come soon 
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| Posted 5/26/10 6:48 PM |
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Miss2mrs
LIF Adolescent
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Re: soo frustrating....
I totally understood where you are coming from. It took us about 7/8 months until I finally got my BFP.
It really made me upset when people around me were PG and I was trying to very hard.
Just keep trying. It will happen. Your in the right direction by going to see Dr. B.
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| Posted 5/26/10 7:14 PM |
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Re: soo frustrating....
I completely understand and I am sure most girls on this board have been in your shoes too. We are all at the same pity party.
Hang in there and stay positive. Your time for your BFP will come soon
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| Posted 5/26/10 10:06 PM |
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