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Somethings gotta give, right?

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MegZee
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Re: Somethings gotta give, right?

I think its unfair to generalize...

I am definitely NOT looking for a brand new home at age 24. I work very hard and have sacrificed going on trips with friends, etc to save $$ for my house.

But when people who make more than the average income can't even afford a starter home, something is wrong.

schnapy posted a house in North Masaspequa for $399 that needed to be GUTTED - for $325 Id be all over that, but almost a half a million dollars for a house that needs $100k of work??

Posted 7/7/06 9:31 AM
 
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Beth
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Re: Somethings gotta give, right?

Posted by dandg

Posted by Beth1210

what we are saying is a house is first a place to live- then an investment
not that it's not an investment-

it's when people look at houses for soley investment purposes then things get screwed up



I think some of us like to hear ourselves talk!


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FYI- putting the Chat Icon icon doesn't make it ok to insult me-

Posted 7/7/06 9:32 AM
 

Beth
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Re: Somethings gotta give, right?

Posted by Meaghan729

I think its unfair to generalize...

I am definitely NOT looking for a brand new home at age 24. I work very hard and have sacrificed going on trips with friends, etc to save $$ for my house.

But when people who make more than the average income can't even afford a starter home, something is wrong.

schnapy posted a house in North Masaspequa for $399 that needed to be GUTTED - for $325 Id be all over that, but almost a half a million dollars for a house that needs $100k of work??




so sad but true- but if you lived in most other states- $399K would get you a brand new house- all new applicances, all new furinture and 2 new cars in your driveway

not some 40 year old dump that needs to be gutted

Posted 7/7/06 9:35 AM
 

verdila
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Re: Somethings gotta give, right?

I understand, and I am not trying to be unfair, I am just saying that we as a generation expect more than our ancestors did and if you think about it, we are luckier than they were.

By the way, I grew up in Massapequa and that is a shame that that house is going for 399k - hopefully it will come down!! But I have to say at 24, I was barely out of my parents house and renting an apt, so more power to you if you can afford to buy!

Posted 7/7/06 9:37 AM
 

dandg
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Re: Somethings gotta give, right?

Posted by Beth1210

Posted by dandg

Posted by Beth1210

what we are saying is a house is first a place to live- then an investment
not that it's not an investment-

it's when people look at houses for soley investment purposes then things get screwed up



I think some of us like to hear ourselves talk!


Chat Icon



FYI- putting the Chat Icon icon doesn't make it ok to insult me-



Wasnt trying to make it ok, i was laughing at you!

Posted 7/7/06 10:14 AM
 

MegZee
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Re: Somethings gotta give, right?

Posted by dandg

Posted by Beth1210

Posted by dandg

Posted by Beth1210

what we are saying is a house is first a place to live- then an investment
not that it's not an investment-

it's when people look at houses for soley investment purposes then things get screwed up



I think some of us like to hear ourselves talk!


Chat Icon



FYI- putting the Chat Icon icon doesn't make it ok to insult me-



Wasnt trying to make it ok, i was laughing at you!



we were having a nice debate on the housing market - why do you feel the need to laugh at someones opinion? Very immature, imo!

Posted 7/7/06 10:17 AM
 

Beth
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Re: Somethings gotta give, right?

Posted by dandg

Posted by Beth1210

Posted by dandg

Posted by Beth1210

what we are saying is a house is first a place to live- then an investment
not that it's not an investment-

it's when people look at houses for soley investment purposes then things get screwed up



I think some of us like to hear ourselves talk!


Chat Icon



FYI- putting the Chat Icon icon doesn't make it ok to insult me-



Wasnt trying to make it ok, i was laughing at you!



grow up- you are so immature- who are you to laught at me????

Posted 7/7/06 10:18 AM
 

Palebride
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Re: Somethings gotta give, right?

Posted by dandg


Wasnt trying to make it ok, i was laughing at you!



That's not really necessary, is it? Chat Icon

Posted 7/7/06 10:18 AM
 

schnapy
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Re: Somethings gotta give, right?

Posted by Beth1210

Posted by Meaghan729

I think its unfair to generalize...

I am definitely NOT looking for a brand new home at age 24. I work very hard and have sacrificed going on trips with friends, etc to save $$ for my house.

But when people who make more than the average income can't even afford a starter home, something is wrong.

schnapy posted a house in North Masaspequa for $399 that needed to be GUTTED - for $325 Id be all over that, but almost a half a million dollars for a house that needs $100k of work??




so sad but true- but if you lived in most other states- $399K would get you a brand new house- all new applicances, all new furinture and 2 new cars in your driveway

not some 40 year old dump that needs to be gutted



But we are talking about NY. Not some other state... Things have always been relatively less expensive else where. even when houses here were only 170k things were cheaper in other states

Posted 7/7/06 10:20 AM
 

schnapy
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Diana

Re: Somethings gotta give, right?

Posted by Meaghan729

I think its unfair to generalize...

I am definitely NOT looking for a brand new home at age 24. I work very hard and have sacrificed going on trips with friends, etc to save $$ for my house.

But when people who make more than the average income can't even afford a starter home, something is wrong.

schnapy posted a house in North Masaspequa for $399 that needed to be GUTTED - for $325 Id be all over that, but almost a half a million dollars for a house that needs $100k of work??




399 is asking... You can submitt any offer. Dont ever shy away from making offers because you think the price is too high. You never know

Posted 7/7/06 10:21 AM
 

Palebride
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Lori

Re: Somethings gotta give, right?

Posted by schnapy

But we are talking about NY. Not some other state... Things have always been relatively less expensive else where. even when houses here were only 170k things were cheaper in other states



Maybe I'm a crazy optimist.....but I kind of like that houses are more expensive on LI....it makes it that much more of an accomplishment when you work hard, save, and then can actually own a home here.
Sure, it can get ridiculous - but we do have great schools, so I think the high taxes have a reason for being so high!

Posted 7/7/06 10:23 AM
 

Beth
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Beth

Re: Somethings gotta give, right?

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But we are talking about NY. Not some other state... Things have always been relatively less expensive else where. even when houses here were only 170k things were cheaper in other states



I think you missed my point- some one that that we expect too much- and I am just saying we don't- b/c if we lived every where else buying a brand new house wouldn't be such a big deal

Posted 7/7/06 10:24 AM
 

schnapy
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Diana

Re: Somethings gotta give, right?

Posted by Palebride

Posted by schnapy

But we are talking about NY. Not some other state... Things have always been relatively less expensive else where. even when houses here were only 170k things were cheaper in other states



Maybe I'm a crazy optimist.....but I kind of like that houses are more expensive on LI....it makes it that much more of an accomplishment when you work hard, save, and then can actually own a home here.
Sure, it can get ridiculous - but we do have great schools, so I think the high taxes have a reason for being so high!



I agree. Its a sad reality, housing is expensive and you dont get alot for your buck. But I dont want to live any where else other than NY. I like the prxomity to the city, and my family is here.

I would love a coop in florida, but as a second home

Posted 7/7/06 10:26 AM
 

schnapy
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Re: Somethings gotta give, right?

Posted by Beth1210

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But we are talking about NY. Not some other state... Things have always been relatively less expensive else where. even when houses here were only 170k things were cheaper in other states



I think you missed my point- some one that that we expect too much- and I am just saying we don't- b/c if we lived every where else buying a brand new house wouldn't be such a big deal


No I understand but if we lived somewhere else, we would still be complaining because salaries are less out of state also.

In the end we all die complaining about our 30 yr mortgages and taxesChat Icon

Posted 7/7/06 10:27 AM
 

MegZee
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Re: Somethings gotta give, right?

honestly, If i had been able to buy before the boom I would be in that boat.

but it irks me that people who bought 5 years ago wouldnt be able to afford their own home today. and I have to get over that, but thats insane to me!

and I agree, LI is a great place to live, but again - when the middle class can't afford a home....theres a serious economic problem happening!

eta: the lower salary thing isnt necessarly true either - i know pleanty of people that make comparable salaries in "cheaper" states. For example, friends of mine moved to NC - put no money down on a new construction 4 bedroom colonial in NC and her FHwas able to transfer with his NY Salary! His mortgage and taxes are less than one paycheckChat Icon

Message edited 7/7/2006 10:33:38 AM.

Posted 7/7/06 10:31 AM
 

SweetestOfPeas
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Re: Somethings gotta give, right?

Posted by Palebride

Posted by schnapy

But we are talking about NY. Not some other state... Things have always been relatively less expensive else where. even when houses here were only 170k things were cheaper in other states



Maybe I'm a crazy optimist.....but I kind of like that houses are more expensive on LI....it makes it that much more of an accomplishment when you work hard, save, and then can actually own a home here.
Sure, it can get ridiculous - but we do have great schools, so I think the high taxes have a reason for being so high!

actually, the reason the taxes are so high on LI is because we get the least amount of Gov't funding. there are great schools in other parts of the country as well.

Posted 7/7/06 10:34 AM
 

Beth
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Re: Somethings gotta give, right?




No I understand but if we lived somewhere else, we would still be complaining because salaries are less out of state also.

In the end we all die complaining about our 30 yr mortgages and taxesChat Icon


that's not true at all- such a myth

my sister are her BF moved to Maryland- and the make the same if not more then they would have made here

my Brother lives in floirda with his FW- they both make more then they could have made here- and are buying a house next year


Sasha who moved to Atlanta- both her and her DH make more- own a home and 2 new cars- something they did not have here

Posted 7/7/06 10:36 AM
 

Palebride
I am an amazing bakist

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Lori

Re: Somethings gotta give, right?

Posted by Meaghan729

honestly, If i had been able to buy before the boom I would be in that boat.

but it irks me that people who bought 5 years ago wouldnt be able to afford their own home today. and I have to get over that, but thats insane to me!

and I agree, LI is a great place to live, but again - when the middle class can't afford a home....theres a serious economic problem happening!



I don't think it's as impossible as some people think it is to afford a home. Perhaps you can't afford the nicest home in the nicest town right away, but there are homes out there that are affordable.

My husband and I are FAR from wealthy - but we will be able to afford a house (once we find one that we like)

And people who bought 5 years ago could easliy sell their homes for A LOT more than they paid then, and use the money they made as a nice down payment on a new home.

Where there's a will, there's a way.Chat Icon

Posted 7/7/06 10:36 AM
 

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Re: Somethings gotta give, right?

Posted by dandg

Posted by Beth1210

Posted by dandg

Posted by Beth1210

what we are saying is a house is first a place to live- then an investment
not that it's not an investment-

it's when people look at houses for soley investment purposes then things get screwed up



I think some of us like to hear ourselves talk!


Chat Icon



FYI- putting the Chat Icon icon doesn't make it ok to insult me-



Wasnt trying to make it ok, i was laughing at you!



Beth, You are 100% correct. I read most of this post and while a house is an asset, if it's a primary residence it usually isn't a great "investment" because of maintantence cost and replacement costs. Add in taxes, utility bills, repair costs, etc. over the years you own your home. Those costs come out of the "appreciation" in your home and cut into the return. Then add in the replacement cost....you have to live somewhere so if you sell a home and take a profit, you eventually have to find some place else to live.

This was my 2 cents and I'm done.

Posted 7/7/06 10:36 AM
 

SweetestOfPeas
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Re: Somethings gotta give, right?

Posted by Meaghan729

honestly, If i had been able to buy before the boom I would be in that boat.

but it irks me that people who bought 5 years ago wouldnt be able to afford their own home today. and I have to get over that, but thats insane to me!

and I agree, LI is a great place to live, but again - when the middle class can't afford a home....theres a serious economic problem happening!

eta: the lower salary thing isnt necessarly true either - i know pleanty of people that make comparable salaries in "cheaper" states. For example, friends of mine moved to NC - put no money down on a new construction 4 bedroom colonial in NC and her FHwas able to transfer with his NY Salary! His mortgage and taxes are less than one paycheckChat Icon

yup! making less outside of NY is a misconception. same goes for "taxes are higher here b/c we have better schools"

umm no. taxes are higher here because we don't get the Gov't funding the rest of the country gets!

Posted 7/7/06 10:36 AM
 

MegZee
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Re: Somethings gotta give, right?

Posted by Palebride

Posted by Meaghan729

honestly, If i had been able to buy before the boom I would be in that boat.

but it irks me that people who bought 5 years ago wouldnt be able to afford their own home today. and I have to get over that, but thats insane to me!

and I agree, LI is a great place to live, but again - when the middle class can't afford a home....theres a serious economic problem happening!



I don't think it's as impossible as some people think it is to afford a home. Perhaps you can't afford the nicest home in the nicest town right away, but there are homes out there that are affordable.

My husband and I are FAR from wealthy - but we will be able to afford a house (once we find one that we like)

And people who bought 5 years ago could easliy sell their homes for A LOT more than they paid then, and use the money they made as a nice down payment on a new home.

Where there's a will, there's a way.Chat Icon



And if you didn't buy 5 years ago??? you're screwed?? sorry, I was 19 five years ago!

Posted 7/7/06 10:38 AM
 

Beth
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Re: Somethings gotta give, right?



Beth, You are 100% correct. I read most of this post and while a house is an asset, if it's a primary residence it usually isn't a great "investment" because of maintantence cost and replacement costs. Add in taxes, utility bills, repair costs, etc. over the years you own your home. Those costs come out of the "appreciation" in your home and cut into the return. Then add in the replacement cost....you have to live somewhere so if you sell a home and take a profit, you eventually have to find some place else to live.

This was my 2 cents and I'm done.



thank you- I love when people can explain my points better then me- I appericate it

Posted 7/7/06 10:41 AM
 

Palebride
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Re: Somethings gotta give, right?

Posted by SweetestOfPeas


yup! making less outside of NY is a misconception. same goes for "taxes are higher here b/c we have better schools"

umm no. taxes are higher here because we don't get the Gov't funding the rest of the country gets!


The salary thing isn't a misconception if you're a teacher, as i am. There's NO WAY I could make my salary as a teacher aywhere but on LI. I have a friend who has been teaching twice as long as I have, but I'm making more money than her now - only because I'm on LI and she isn't.

And I never said we have better schools than anywhere else. I said we have high taxes, and excellent schools. I don't mind paying higher taxes if it is going to the school so that my children can get an excellent education.

I don't know, maybe it's just me, but I don't understand why people have to be so negative about things. Why doesn't anyone like to look on the positive side of this situation?

Think happy thoughts Chat Icon

Posted 7/7/06 10:41 AM
 

MegZee
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Re: Somethings gotta give, right?

Posted by Palebride

Posted by SweetestOfPeas


yup! making less outside of NY is a misconception. same goes for "taxes are higher here b/c we have better schools"

umm no. taxes are higher here because we don't get the Gov't funding the rest of the country gets!



The salary thing isn't a misconception if you're a teacher, as i am. There's NO WAY I could make my salary as a teacher aywhere but on LI. I have a friend who has been teaching twice as long as I have, but I'm making more money than her now - only because I'm on LI and she isn't.

And I never said we have better schools than anywhere else. I said we have high taxes, and excellent schools. I don't mind paying higher taxes if it is going to the school so that my children can get an excellent education.

I don't know, maybe it's just me, but I don't understand why people have to be so negative about things. Why doesn't anyone like to look on the positive side of this situation?

Think happy thoughts Chat Icon


i dont feel that we are being negative.
I will own a home by next year. may not be my dream house, but I need a place to live and would rather buy than rent.

I am just talking about the insane housing costs and the 20 somethings leaving long island in droves - somethings gotta give!

Posted 7/7/06 10:43 AM
 

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Re: Somethings gotta give, right?

Posted by Meaghan729
but it irks me that people who bought 5 years ago wouldnt be able to afford their own home today. and I have to get over that, but thats insane to me!


Sure, but their parent's and friend's said the same thing to them when they were buying that home 5 years ago. So really, it's all relative. Where there's a will, there's a way.

Posted 7/7/06 10:45 AM
 
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