So we made the decision. . .

To take it easy TTC wise this month. We are still going to try, but not going to BD every day during my fertile window. It was a lot of pressure last month, and it didn't work!

I'll still be on here, but am just going to try and let things happen

for all you ladies!

Re: So we made the decision. . .

good luck and happy thanksgiving!

Re: So we made the decision. . .

Good luck.
I had to do the same thing, too much pressure. No POAS this month for me !and I really feel better.

Re: So we made the decision. . .

Next month Im def. going to try to relax more and try not to think about it 24/7 because that just made it so much harder on me. I was comparing charts like a lunatic.

Good Luck!!!

Re: So we made the decision. . .

I am doing the same thing!! I told my DH yesterday morning, no OPKs for me this month. I've done them for 6 mos. and 6 mos. of nothing has resulted--and I know I can get pregnant, so that's it. And the DC I do have were not conceived with ANY special aids.

I just read recently that the best was to maximize your chances of becoming pregnant is to BD 2-3x a week EVERY week of the month (aside from AF obviously). So that's maybe what I'll try to do this month...if anything. I took a break for most of the summer and it was awesome.

Good luck!

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That's what I did this past month...It was so hard thinking and doing everyhting in my power to do it at the "right time" and it still didn't work. I keep telling myself it only takes one time..so that's the track I took. We'll see what happens!!

Good luck to you!