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pickles16
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So this is my "plan" for this month
I'm going into my third month of TTC...and yes I'm totally a type A and need control over EVERYTHING....and I started going nutso the second we started trying...preseed, vitamins...laying with a pillow under my tush, OPK's, the monitor, the whole shebang....
This month, I'm not doing ANYTHING!!!! I'm promising myself..the only thing I may do is just do the monitor to know around the time I O...but I'm not using the preseed, I'm not laying on my stomach back, standing on my head etc..
I'm just going to try to have fun with it BD as much as we can when we can and not put pressuer on myself or DH..or at least thats what I'm hoping to do!!!!
This is what my mom actually told me to do, or yelled at me to do actually
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Posted 12/27/07 11:43 AM  |
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Re: So this is my "plan" for this month
Posted by pickles16
I'm going into my third month of TTC...and yes I'm totally a type A and need control over EVERYTHING....and I started going nutso the second we started trying...preseed, vitamins...laying with a pillow under my tush, OPK's, the monitor, the whole shebang....
This month, I'm not doing ANYTHING!!!! I'm promising myself..the only thing I may do is just do the monitor to know around the time I O...but I'm not using the preseed, I'm not laying on my stomach back, standing on my head etc..
I'm just going to try to have fun with it BD as much as we can when we can and not put pressuer on myself or DH..or at least thats what I'm hoping to do!!!!
This is what my mom actually told me to do, or yelled at me to do actually
see now this is why i didn't tell my mom we are TTC 
i like your plan - good luck!!! 
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| Posted 12/27/07 11:48 AM |
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pickles16
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Re: So this is my "plan" for this month
see now this is why i didn't tell my mom we are TTC
i like your plan - good luck!!!
ha ha....I know, but sometimes, and I only mean SOMETIMES, she is the voice of reason....
her exact words were, when I got pregnant with you, I was in Eastern Europe, with none of this CRAP (said in a thick accent), we just had fun with it, the more pressure you put on yourself and your husband the harder its going to be....
I hope Mom is right for me in this instance!!!!
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| Posted 12/27/07 11:50 AM |
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DeniseMarie
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Re: So this is my "plan" for this month
good luck! I did this the month I got PG.
Also , if you know anyone with a baby, put one of the babies socks in your underwear draw. Just a little superstition my family does.
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| Posted 12/27/07 11:53 AM |
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headoverheels
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Re: So this is my "plan" for this month
Posted by DeniseMarie
good luck! I did this the month I got PG.
Also , if you know anyone with a baby, put one of the babies socks in your underwear draw. Just a little superstition my family does.
aww that's a cute idea!
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| Posted 12/27/07 11:55 AM |
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pickles16
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Re: So this is my "plan" for this month
Posted by DeniseMarie
good luck! I did this the month I got PG.
Also , if you know anyone with a baby, put one of the babies socks in your underwear draw. Just a little superstition my family does.
ooh we're actually going to see our friends that just had their second...maybe i'll ask for one, hopefully she knows the superstition and won't think I'm really going off the deep end
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| Posted 12/27/07 11:55 AM |
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diva7531
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Re: So this is my "plan" for this month
it's a good plan, it's what everyone tells me to do, maybe next month
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| Posted 12/27/07 12:08 PM |
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-BabyMiracle-
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Re: So this is my "plan" for this month
Good Luck! Sounds like a good plan!!
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| Posted 12/27/07 12:08 PM |
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BrookeD
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Re: So this is my "plan" for this month
My Grandmother (who had 7 kids) told me that the "secret" to making babies is to have "FUN" OMG........ Back then they had oodles of kids, and there were no opks, hpts, no preseed, just good ole fashion BD-ing, and they enjoyed it. So I agree with your Mother, that's our plan too, the OPK's and that's it (hopefully).  GL dear...... Image Attachment(s):
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| Posted 12/27/07 12:21 PM |
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pickles16
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Jen
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Re: So this is my "plan" for this month
Posted by DeniseMarie
good luck! I did this the month I got PG.
I know, I stole your idea
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| Posted 12/27/07 2:02 PM |
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maybeamommy
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Re: So this is my "plan" for this month
I hope this is your month!
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| Posted 12/27/07 3:53 PM |
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Lolitababy
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Re: So this is my "plan" for this month
I love this plan!!! I will have to buy an OPK, but will try to stick to this plan too. I have to say, last month bding was not fun but more like a job. I felt bad for DH because I put so much pressure on him and was kind of nastly at times. I mean, on Christmas we bded twice for fun and what a difference-it was great!!!!!!!!!! Therefore, here is to having fun and taking it easy with less presssure and stress.
Do you think you are going to still bd every other day??????????
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| Posted 12/27/07 6:07 PM |
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pickles16
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Re: So this is my "plan" for this month
Posted by Lolitababy
I love this plan!!! I will have to buy an OPK, but will try to stick to this plan too. I have to say, last month bding was not fun but more like a job. I felt bad for DH because I put so much pressure on him and was kind of nastly at times. I mean, on Christmas we bded twice for fun and what a difference-it was great!!!!!!!!!! Therefore, here is to having fun and taking it easy with less presssure and stress.
Do you think you are going to still bd every other day??????????
I'm hoping, but we'll see, last month we got into a massive argument bc of the BDing schedule he didn't want to be put on a schedule which now looking back I understand..so I'm hoping I can stick to this and still BD every other day...so we'll see..DH works really long days so I'm hoping we will be able to!!!
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| Posted 12/27/07 6:10 PM |
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BrookeD
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Re: So this is my "plan" for this month
Posted by Lolitababy
I love this plan!!! I will have to buy an OPK, but will try to stick to this plan too. I have to say, last month bding was not fun but more like a job. I felt bad for DH because I put so much pressure on him and was kind of nastly at times. I mean, on Christmas we bded twice for fun and what a difference-it was great!!!!!!!!!! Therefore, here is to having fun and taking it easy with less presssure and stress.
Do you think you are going to still bd every other day??????????
I know that we will... But we are still newly weds so it just happens like that.lolImage Attachment(s):
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| Posted 12/27/07 6:10 PM |
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Lolitababy
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Re: So this is my "plan" for this month
Ok...so every other day it is-hopefully. I think everyday is too stressful for us!!!
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| Posted 12/27/07 6:34 PM |
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pickles16
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Re: So this is my "plan" for this month
Posted by Lolitababy
Ok...so every other day it is-hopefully. I think everyday is too stressful for us!!!
Exactly...I'm just waiting for AF to get out of here already, its sooo freaking heavy this month its annoying the crap out of me....
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| Posted 12/27/07 6:37 PM |
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twinkletoes807
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Re: So this is my "plan" for this month
That sounds like a great plan! My DH wants to do this too...alas, I too am a Type A and cannot relinguish control!! Here's to a prosperous month!!
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| Posted 12/28/07 8:21 AM |
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pickles16
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Re: So this is my "plan" for this month
Posted by twinkletoes807
That sounds like a great plan! My DH wants to do this too...alas, I too am a Type A and cannot relinguish control!! Here's to a prosperous month!!
I'm trying not to relinquish control, but I'm also trying everything so maybe this will be the way I get knocked up, if not, then the next month I'll bring all the artillery out again!!!
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| Posted 12/28/07 9:37 AM |
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Lolitababy
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Re: So this is my "plan" for this month
Mine is so heavy too and then I always get myself all nervous-what is I'm m/cing I really hope our new plan works. Although, I do have a question???? If you get a positive OPK, but you bded the day before, will you wait until the following day to bd again or just do it again that same day? Sorry, I'm trying not to let my type A personality get in the way of our plan!!!!! I just had to ask
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| Posted 12/28/07 9:41 AM |
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MrsFlatbread
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Re: So this is my "plan" for this month
just OPK's this month and nothing else...
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| Posted 12/28/07 9:43 AM |
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pickles16
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Re: So this is my "plan" for this month
Posted by Lolitababy
Mine is so heavy too and then I always get myself all nervous-what is I'm m/cing I really hope our new plan works. Although, I do have a question???? If you get a positive OPK, but you bded the day before, will you wait until the following day to bd again or just do it again that same day? Sorry, I'm trying not to let my type A personality get in the way of our plan!!!!! I just had to ask
I totally started thinking that this month since last month was really strangely light, so it's probably just making up for last month
I think If we happen to BD the night before the positive OPK, I'll try to BD the night of the positive too...my Crazy personality won't allow us to lose that night...
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| Posted 12/28/07 10:15 AM |
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Lolitababy
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Re: So this is my "plan" for this month
Posted by pickles16
Posted by Lolitababy
Mine is so heavy too and then I always get myself all nervous-what is I'm m/cing I really hope our new plan works. Although, I do have a question???? If you get a positive OPK, but you bded the day before, will you wait until the following day to bd again or just do it again that same day? Sorry, I'm trying not to let my type A personality get in the way of our plan!!!!! I just had to ask
I totally started thinking that this month since last month was really strangely light, so it's probably just making up for last month
I think If we happen to BD the night before the positive OPK, I'll try to BD the night of the positive too...my Crazy personality won't allow us to lose that night...
Hehehe-Me too!!!!
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| Posted 12/28/07 11:02 AM |
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BrookeD
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Re: So this is my "plan" for this month
ok ok, I had my DH get a baby bootie from my SIL, she has a 6 m/o boy..... So since we are BD-ing like rabbits, this weekend, I will try this too......Couldn't hurt. Image Attachment(s):
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| Posted 12/28/07 4:47 PM |
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bella06
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Re: So this is my "plan" for this month
good luck!
The month that I stopped using the preseed is when we got the BFP- we just used the OPKS and tried to BD as much as possible!
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| Posted 12/28/07 5:01 PM |
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BrookeD
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Re: So this is my "plan" for this month
Posted by bella06
good luck!
The month that I stopped using the preseed is when we got the BFP- we just used the OPKS and tried to BD as much as possible!
More than once a day? I was thinking about morning then before we went to bed.....DH & I talked about it, and he's up for it. no pun intended....... He's very sweet about these things, even bought me a new hand held video game, in case I want to lay there for the 20 minutes LMAO
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| Posted 12/28/07 5:03 PM |
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