so irritating

I recently found out my brother in law & wife are pregnant.


a little background ;
married less than 2 years, have been fighting and threatening divorce since a week after they got married.
They came and visited us, I couldn't believe what a mess they were. get into a screaming fight one night. Always seem mad at each other.

she tells me that her husband wants a baby. I tell her, 'get your marriage together first". She tells me definately, no way is she having a baby with him.


guess what ? they are pregnant.
I'm so annoyed! these are the people that get to have children?????

I think she's an idiot and feel bad for that baby being born into that disfuctional disaster!

thanks for letting me vent.

I am always happy when people are pregnant,despite my issues. this one i just cant be happy about.

Re: so irritating

I totally feel your pain... my sister was in the same exact situation. She had two beautiful children already, but her DH at the time was NEVER there. Always off doing whatever he wanted. They were even seeing a councelor and all... marriage was ending and what happens... my sister gets pregnant. I love my nephew, but my sister wanted a third so bad. Right after he was born she moved in with the three kids (Aidan never lived with his father since he was taken home from the hospital) to my parent's. They lived there a couple of years till my sister got her own nice town house... then what happens... starts to date and is dating this guy about 7 or 8 mos and gets prego AGAIN. I'm still trying and my sister gets prego from breathing.

Re: so irritating

oh wow.. i am so sorry that you are upset... i think i would be too
it just seems like this always happens with people.. they get pregnant at the drop of a dime.

hang in there and know that your time will come!! and just remember that you are not dealing with what your BIL is.. just continue to be happy with DH! thats the most important!