So frustrated with DH! UPDATE!

Just needed to vent this one out!

I am almost 100% sure I was ovulating yesterday. With that said...

We went to a childs bday party and were totally overwhelmed with baby fever! It was really cute. All day we talked about how I was ovulating and maybe "tonight would be the night". Well, right before we were gonna , our Boston Terrier (who was a puppy mill dog), started acting schizo. She has some behavioral issues and gets a lil worked up when she is too excited. She has bitten DH 2x (nothing serious). So anyway, I put Daisy (our Boston) on a time out in her cage, and she went wild barking. To make a long story short...he wanted to discipline her and I wouldn't let him. I literally threw myself on her so he would leave her alone. Well, things got quiet after that. Around bed time..I went to get him and he REFUSED to with me because he was so mad over the dog! He told me that he wasn't in the mood (I had ruined it for him by sticking up for the dog). He wouldn't even try

I understand he is not a baby making machine, but he knew how important it was to yesterday and he just flat out wouldn't.

I told him off (after a huge crying fit) and went to bed. I still cant even bring myself to talk to him this morning. I feel like we just wasted yet another month.

Blah. Sorry girls,. I just needed to get this out. No one I knows will understand why this was so crushing to me.

Thanks for listening

UPDATE!

So when I went home, DH apologized (I was super shocked). He then offered me his "seed of life" and we did end up !!!! So please send some baby dust this way, hopefully this will be our month!!!!

Message edited 1/18/2011 9:31:48 AM.

Re: So frustrated with DH!

I would be very upset as well.

Try to make up and today

Re: So frustrated with DH!

Posted by DiamondGirl

I would be very upset as well.

Try to make up and today

Re: So frustrated with DH!

I can totally relate to this! I have been so pizzed at DH once or twice around O time that he just didnt want to . I wish they would just understand how important this is to us...and that there are only a few days in the month that are extremely important. Im sorry you are going through this but like the PP said you should really try to tonight.

Message edited 1/17/2011 12:47:08 PM.

Re: So frustrated with DH!

I understand, they really don't get it.

Re: So frustrated with DH!

Thanks so much ladies! I knew you'd understand. I tried talking to my sister about it and she thought I was overreacting

I'll try to with him tonight...hopefully things wont feel so strange between us when I get home

Re: So frustrated with DH!

Def try to make up today and tonight!
Good luck!

Re: So frustrated with DH!

my DH would get like that a lot in the beginning. every little thing and he wouldnt want to BD. But now is a totally different story. He is the one dragging me to the bedroom every night!!! Dont be sad, they ALL have their moments!!

Re: So frustrated with DH!

I would be really upset too

Re: So frustrated with DH!

I would have been upset too hun!

Try again tonight and I wish you & DH lots & lots of !!

Re: So frustrated with DH!

Thanks everyone! You guys are the best!

Re: So frustrated with DH!

i would have been upset also! im sorry but i would still tonight and ytomorrow if u can