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should my 25 year old self stay with my mother or my bf?

Forum Opinion Poll
stay with mom and sister 40 51.95%
stay with boyfriend 23 29.87%
this is silly 14 18.18%
 

silly debate

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evrythng4areason
And then there were 4

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Kayla

silly debate

In the midst of all serious Irene talk, can you help me settle a minor debate occurring in my house right now?

I still live at home with my parents and my 17 year old sister, but I do spend the weekends at my boyfriends (who lives a 3 minute drive away).

My dad's a cop, so he got called into work today until Monday.

My mom says that I should stay home with her and my sister tonight.

I say it's no big deal for me to still stay at my boyfriends tonight, especially bc we're not sure if his parents will be home.

Thoughts?

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Posted 8/27/11 11:45 AM
 

tara73
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Name:
Buttercup

Re: silly debate

Stay with the boyfriend Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/27/11 11:49 AM
 

StaceyWill
It's a girl!!!

Member since 6/10

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Name:
Stacey

Re: silly debate

Stay with your boyfriend

Posted 8/27/11 11:56 AM
 

maybesoon
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Re: silly debate

Stay with mom family first! Tell bf he can come over if he wants. Your mom is Probably nervous since your dad us working

Posted 8/27/11 12:11 PM
 

liadorbs
LIF Adult

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Re: silly debate


I'd stay home with my mom and sister - girl's night!

Posted 8/27/11 12:13 PM
 

Lina
My angel is finally here

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Name:
Lindsay

Re: silly debate

Posted by liadorbs


I'd stay home with my mom and sister - girl's night!


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Posted 8/27/11 12:17 PM
 

thisisme
LIF Adolescent

Member since 3/06

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Name:
ME

Re: silly debate

I'd totally stay with my boyfriend even though I feel the right thing is to stay with mom and sister. Can your boyfriend come stay at your house so you're altogether? Best of both worlds?

Posted 8/27/11 12:19 PM
 

monkeybride
My Everything

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Re: silly debate

Boyfriend. You're 3 mins away. Your mom and sister have each other. It's a hurricane, not the Apocalypse.

Message edited 8/27/2011 12:20:49 PM.

Posted 8/27/11 12:20 PM
 

missfabulous
#mommyneedswine

Member since 6/09

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Name:
Colleen

Re: silly debate

Posted by Lina

Posted by liadorbs


I'd stay home with my mom and sister - girl's night!


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I think you're fine either way. I would totally do a girls night though- it could be fun bonding time Chat Icon

ETA- I don't think its silly but I don't think there's a right or wrong answer here. Go where you feel comfortable.

Message edited 8/27/2011 12:25:22 PM.

Posted 8/27/11 12:24 PM
 

JoanneAndJustin
LIF Adult

Member since 2/09

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Name:
Joanne

Re: silly debate

Stay with mom, have boyfriend come over?

My DH and I started dating late 2006, there was a storm on St. Patrick's Day 2007 (or thereabouts) and my very conservative mom let him stay over.

Posted 8/27/11 12:28 PM
 

Domino
Always My Miracle

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Re: silly debate

i dont see an option for your boyfriend to come stay with you and your familyChat Icon

Posted 8/27/11 12:28 PM
 

peanutbutter2
Carpe diem!

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Re: silly debate

How about having your boyfriend stay at your house, so that way everyone is happy?

Posted 8/27/11 12:36 PM
 

Bearcat
Love my little girls!!! <3

Member since 6/10

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Name:
E

Re: silly debate

no brainer, K... stay with the boyfriend! i remember being at DH's during the blackout in 2003 (?) it was like 8 million degrees, we had a lot of beer that needed to be drank before it went bad, candles, and, well... it's honestly one of my favorite memories from when we were in our early years of dating.

enjoy!!! Chat Icon

Posted 8/27/11 1:33 PM
 

nrthshgrl
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Re: silly debate

I'd stay with my mom provided my boyfriend wasn't completely alone. If he was, I'd ask my mom for him to come over.

Posted 8/27/11 2:54 PM
 

Mrs213
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Re: silly debate

Boyfriend!!

Posted 8/27/11 2:58 PM
 

Nola
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Re: silly debate

Posted by maybesoon

Stay with mom family first! Tell bf he can come over if he wants. Your mom is Probably nervous since your dad us working



Agreed

Posted 8/27/11 4:14 PM
 
 

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