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Faithx2
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Re: question only a man could ask...and I could be curious enough about to ask here.
Posted by SIBride06
That *could* mean three things...
Either in her eyes, weight is not an issue for determining friendship
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She wants to make herself look good by having friends who are heavier than her
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It's just a coincidence.
ETA: I doubt there is any real reasoning behind it
Agreed
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Re: question only a man could ask...and I could be curious enough about to ask here.
Don't you think that relevance or irrelevance is totally subjective, depending on the individual him/herself?
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Superkat
More a stranger than a friend
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Re: question only a man could ask...and I could be curious enough about to ask here.
Posted by Lanabean
Only a selfish, idiotic, stupid woman would befriend a "fat" woman solely to feel better about herself as a thin woman.
Uggh. I had a friend like this. She would always invite us (the heavier girls) to go out with her to clubs and stuff. That way she could pawn off the fugly guys to us and all of the sexy guys would pay attention to her. Once I found out about her style, I dumped her as a friend.
As a side note, she is divorced now and left her twin daughters with her ex. She likes the life of a party girl.
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| Posted 6/1/07 12:02 PM |
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Ophelia
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Re: question only a man could ask...and I could be curious enough about to ask here.
Posted by bomb-blast
Don't you think that relevance or irrelevance is totally subjective, depending on the individual him/herself?
perhaps it's one of those markers one looks for in a mate...
women look for things in men too..good father, good at fixing things...
perhaps this is a man thing....most or least likely to pork up..
it could be a dealbreaker for some
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| Posted 6/1/07 12:13 PM |
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dgirl
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Re: question only a man could ask...and I could be curious enough about to ask here.
Posted by bomb-blast
Don't you think that relevance or irrelevance is totally subjective, depending on the individual him/herself?
I suppose so. Answering subjectively I look at it as an irrelevant thing since the size of my friends has nothing to do with whether or not I am friends with them.
I thought about it more though, and I realized that while all different sizes, my friends and I do kind of look the same. Like we all have long hair, we dress similarly...
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Lanabean
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Re: question only a man could ask...and I could be curious enough about to ask here.
Posted by Superkat
Posted by Lanabean
Only a selfish, idiotic, stupid woman would befriend a "fat" woman solely to feel better about herself as a thin woman.
Uggh. I had a friend like this. She would always invite us (the heavier girls) to go out with her to clubs and stuff. That way she could pawn off the fugly guys to us and all of the sexy guys would pay attention to her. Once I found out about her style, I dumped her as a friend.
As a side note, she is divorced now and left her twin daughters with her ex. She likes the life of a party girl.
Ugh. Sounds like a miserable person.
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Superkat
More a stranger than a friend
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Re: question only a man could ask...and I could be curious enough about to ask here.
Posted by Lanabean
Posted by Superkat
Posted by Lanabean
Only a selfish, idiotic, stupid woman would befriend a "fat" woman solely to feel better about herself as a thin woman.
Uggh. I had a friend like this. She would always invite us (the heavier girls) to go out with her to clubs and stuff. That way she could pawn off the fugly guys to us and all of the sexy guys would pay attention to her. Once I found out about her style, I dumped her as a friend.
As a side note, she is divorced now and left her twin daughters with her ex. She likes the life of a party girl.
Ugh. Sounds like a miserable person.
Yup  And that is why she is an ex-friend. 
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4monkeys
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Re: question only a man could ask...and I could be curious enough about to ask here.
Posted by Superkat
Posted by Lanabean
Posted by Superkat
Posted by Lanabean
Only a selfish, idiotic, stupid woman would befriend a "fat" woman solely to feel better about herself as a thin woman.
Uggh. I had a friend like this. She would always invite us (the heavier girls) to go out with her to clubs and stuff. That way she could pawn off the fugly guys to us and all of the sexy guys would pay attention to her. Once I found out about her style, I dumped her as a friend.
As a side note, she is divorced now and left her twin daughters with her ex. She likes the life of a party girl.
Ugh. Sounds like a miserable person.
Yup And that is why she is an ex-friend.
for someone to have an "agenda" like this is disgusting! 
if she's still that type of person, it sounds like her daughters are better off not having her as a role model.
although Im sure they will admire her all the same..mommy is mommy..
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4monkeys
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Re: question only a man could ask...and I could be curious enough about to ask here.
Posted by pmpkn087
Maybe he's living the life of Shallow Hal and his chick is really fat herself 
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| Posted 6/1/07 12:47 PM |
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Emily
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Re: question only a man could ask...and I could be curious enough about to ask here.
Maybe they have been friends for years and all fluctuated in weight.
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Kara
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Re: question only a man could ask...and I could be curious enough about to ask here.
I know what it means. It means he's not good enough to date her - and he should just move on.
Honestly, who CARES what her friends look like?
And some of my friends are chubby, some are thin, some have fluctuating weight... and I couldn't care less.
Message edited 6/1/2007 1:43:39 PM.
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