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Hoping4Baby11
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Jenn
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**QOTD 7/5/11**
Good Morning Ladies!!
I bet you all are dragging your @ss just like me!! Let's hope this day goes fast!!! now onto the the question of the Day!!!
While TTC what is/was the most difficult obstacle you had to deal with? How did you overcome it?
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Posted 7/5/11 10:11 AM  |
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bettybcafe
Big brother in the making
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Re: **QOTD 7/5/11**
My biggest obstacle was assuming that DH would be up and ready whenever I was fertile, all pun intended on that one  I always thought I could just say, "Ok hunny we have to have sex today because Im ovulating" and he would be jumping on it but it was quite the opposite. By doing that I think I got him a little nervous and there were times that he didnt want to have sex (which upset me greatly) or he just didnt finish the deed....Ive learned not to tell DH anything about OPKs, temps etc but to just say, "I want sex today" and he was good to go.
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| Posted 7/5/11 11:14 AM |
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gina409
TWINS!
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Re: **QOTD 7/5/11**
Hmmmm....so many to pick from. Lol...
Being on month 16 and no baby
Getting preggo last year only to lose it
Doc appt least 2 sometimes 3 times a week
1300 a month in fertility meds co pays etc
Having to go through iui as oppose to reg sex to have a baby
Having to answer the question when r u having a baby ten. Million times
Seeing all my friends and fam be on this board,have babies and now have 4 and 5 month olds and I am still here
Hearing someone complain bout something so stupid regarding a baby or pregnancy and I want to kill them
All the pills I take daily that upset my stomach
My completely brusied stomach from injecting myself
Sorry...bad day and this question I took and ran with as a vent lol
As for how I am overcoming this...will let u know when it happens cause ttc has changed me forever and I am hoping to go back to the old me whenever we get the bfp we want more than anything
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| Posted 7/5/11 12:07 PM |
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AngnShaun
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Re: **QOTD 7/5/11**
2 m/cs
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| Posted 7/5/11 12:08 PM |
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bettybcafe
Big brother in the making
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Re: **QOTD 7/5/11**
I wasnt going to say my miscarriage but since Gina and Ang mentioned it I will too  This has def. be the hardest part of TTC. I have never experienced so much pain and saddness in my life before. TTC is such a pain in the arse....its def. not as easy as everyone makes it out to be.
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| Posted 7/5/11 12:17 PM |
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StaceyWill
It's a girl!!!
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Re: **QOTD 7/5/11**
Posted by bettybcafe
I wasnt going to say my miscarriage but since Gina and Ang mentioned it I will too This has def. be the hardest part of TTC. I have never experienced so much pain and saddness in my life before. TTC is such a pain in the arse....its def. not as easy as everyone makes it out to be.
ITA- this is my answer too.
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| Posted 7/5/11 6:02 PM |
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ElizaRags35
My 2 Girls
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Re: **QOTD 7/5/11**
Dealing w/ irregular cycles and getting motivated to BD more frequently than we're used to.
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| Posted 7/5/11 9:12 PM |
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cateyemm
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Re: **QOTD 7/5/11**
Dealing with fertility treatments has been the lowest of my many lows.
Ill let you know if I overcome it! 
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| Posted 7/5/11 9:34 PM |
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Teach723
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Re: **QOTD 7/5/11**
Posted by StaceyWill
Posted by bettybcafe
I wasnt going to say my miscarriage but since Gina and Ang mentioned it I will too This has def. be the hardest part of TTC. I have never experienced so much pain and saddness in my life before. TTC is such a pain in the arse....its def. not as easy as everyone makes it out to be.
ITA- this is my answer too.
Same here, and then you get those who ask you, "So when are you two going to have a baby???" 
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| Posted 7/5/11 10:07 PM |
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Hoping4Baby11
Live life to the fullest!,
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Jenn
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Re: **QOTD 7/5/11**
I forgot to answer my own question!!..LOL
I think the most difficult for me is hoping when I am most fertile that DH will be ready to go! Sometimes it doesn't always happen like that. I have learned to not say when I ovulate and just got with flow! I know this will happen for us but I've been so inpatient lately and I don't want someday I want NOW! I think we all feel this way!
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| Posted 7/6/11 10:59 AM |
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MamaPapaBear
my little girl
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Re: **QOTD 7/5/11**
I guess the biggest obstacle I've had is having patience.
I feel like because I'm ready to have a baby...it should just hurry up and happen already. This month to month to month waiting is stressful and frustrating
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| Posted 7/6/11 1:06 PM |
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MRsFaTThead
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WHO GIVES A POO WHO GIVES A FUDGE !!
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Re: **QOTD 7/5/11**
me thinking that if i told him when i was ovulating that it would bother him
i was wrong. he wants to know. the man has baby fever
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| Posted 7/6/11 1:22 PM |
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RGEC47
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Rosa
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Re: **QOTD 7/5/11**
My doubts. After all this time, all the meds, IUI's, etc and not a single BFP, I doubt that I will ever get pregnant. When I started treatment, I figured with some meds and I will get BFP, then moved to IUI's, no luck either, this is the main reason why I am not prepared for IVF, what happens if that doesn't work, is that my last resort? Rambling, I know sorry. 
As you can see, I can't say how I dealt with it, because I am still trying to figure out how to.
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| Posted 7/8/11 10:31 AM |
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