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sweetbabydreams
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pre pregnancy and current pregnancy weight

I seem to be a little concerned. I know you guys arent surprize cuz im the worrier. LOL well my pre pregnancy weight was 165 and im 22w3d and im only 176. I know i shouldnt be saying only but i see so many post here where women have gained almost 25 pounds around this time should i be concerned that im malnourishing my child. LOL i feel like i am eating a lot but i know i am sleeping more than anything.

Posted 10/13/08 3:10 PM
 
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Re: pre pregnancy and current pregnancy weight

I am 22W and still down 11lbs from pre-pregnancy weight.........

My midwife isn't concerned, Lexi is healthy and Kicking up a storm.

I'm not going to worry about it. Every woman and every pregnancy is different. My sister gained 65lbs with her first! I'm lucky if I gain thos 11lbs back Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 10/13/08 3:13 PM
 

lakadema
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Re: pre pregnancy and current pregnancy weight

I don't think you are malnourishing your child. It sounds like you were overweight to begin with. My doctor said that overweight women should only gain about 15 - 20 pounds. Thinner women need to gain about 25 - 35 pounds.

Posted 10/13/08 3:13 PM
 

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Re: pre pregnancy and current pregnancy weight

Posted by lakadema

I don't think you are malnourishing your child. It sounds like you were overweight to begin with. My doctor said that overweight women should only gain about 15 - 20 pounds. Thinner women need to gain about 25 - 35 pounds.



165 overweight?? no way!!!

To the OP, you are fine, your baby will get everything it needs Chat Icon .

Posted 10/13/08 3:17 PM
 

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Re: pre pregnancy and current pregnancy weight

Posted by neener1211

Posted by lakadema

I don't think you are malnourishing your child. It sounds like you were overweight to begin with. My doctor said that overweight women should only gain about 15 - 20 pounds. Thinner women need to gain about 25 - 35 pounds.



165 overweight?? no way!!!

To the OP, you are fine, your baby will get everything it needs Chat Icon .




Exactly and 165 is certainly not overweight!!!!!

Posted 10/13/08 3:18 PM
 

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Re: pre pregnancy and current pregnancy weight

Posted by kerrycec03

Posted by neener1211

Posted by lakadema

I don't think you are malnourishing your child. It sounds like you were overweight to begin with. My doctor said that overweight women should only gain about 15 - 20 pounds. Thinner women need to gain about 25 - 35 pounds.



165 overweight?? no way!!!

To the OP, you are fine, your baby will get everything it needs Chat Icon .




Exactly and 165 is certainly not overweight!!!!!



I agree completely...overweight? wow..........Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 10/13/08 3:19 PM
 

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Re: pre pregnancy and current pregnancy weight

Posted by kerrycec03

Posted by neener1211

Posted by lakadema

I don't think you are malnourishing your child. It sounds like you were overweight to begin with. My doctor said that overweight women should only gain about 15 - 20 pounds. Thinner women need to gain about 25 - 35 pounds.



165 overweight?? no way!!!

To the OP, you are fine, your baby will get everything it needs Chat Icon .




Exactly and 165 is certainly not overweight!!!!!



Actually, it can be depending on how tall you are. I was 165ish on my wedding day, but I'm only 5'1" tall, so yes, I was overweight!

But to the OP... sounds like you are doing just fine. I don't know what my pre-pregnancy weight was because I had gained alot of weight due to all the fertility drugs I was taking. I had my first Pregnancy OB appointment at 10 weeks. I'm now 23 weeks and I'm up 11lbs from that 10 week appointment (I'm not giving #'s though because I'm Chat Icon about it!). I've been told because I was overweight to begin with, I shouldn't gain more than 20lbs. I think I'm on track.

Posted 10/13/08 3:22 PM
 

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Re: pre pregnancy and current pregnancy weight

Posted by neener1211

Posted by lakadema

I don't think you are malnourishing your child. It sounds like you were overweight to begin with. My doctor said that overweight women should only gain about 15 - 20 pounds. Thinner women need to gain about 25 - 35 pounds.



165 overweight?? no way!!!

To the OP, you are fine, your baby will get everything it needs Chat Icon .




i kinda thought that was a bit cold..

You will be fine - as the nurse said to me on sunday - "the baby will take everything it needs".

Message edited 10/13/2008 3:33:07 PM.

Posted 10/13/08 3:22 PM
 

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Re: pre pregnancy and current pregnancy weight

Pre pregnancy I was a bit on the curvy side shall we say.Chat Icon

At 24 weeks I have gained about 7 pounds.

My DR is not concerned at all.

Posted 10/13/08 3:23 PM
 

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Re: pre pregnancy and current pregnancy weight

That weight gain is fine. I'm 20 weeks and have gained about 7lbs. 125 before, 132 now.

eta: 165 would be considered overweight for my height Chat Icon

Message edited 10/13/2008 3:29:22 PM.

Posted 10/13/08 3:26 PM
 

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Re: pre pregnancy and current pregnancy weight

Posted by lakadema

I don't think you are malnourishing your child. It sounds like you were overweight to begin with. My doctor said that overweight women should only gain about 15 - 20 pounds. Thinner women need to gain about 25 - 35 pounds.



Chat Icon A bit harsh? 165 is just a number... the height has a lot to do with it as well.

Message edited 10/13/2008 3:29:40 PM.

Posted 10/13/08 3:28 PM
 

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Re: pre pregnancy and current pregnancy weight

I wouldn't worry! At 21 weeks, I am still down 2lbs from my pre-pregnancy weight!

Posted 10/13/08 3:51 PM
 

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Re: pre pregnancy and current pregnancy weight

It sounds to me like you're doing just fine & I'm sure you aren't harming the baby at all. I was 127 the last time I weighed myself pre-pregnancy & I'm now 130 at 15w4d.

Posted 10/13/08 3:55 PM
 

lakadema
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Re: pre pregnancy and current pregnancy weight

165 can certainly be overweight based on ones height and build.

For example, if a person is medium build and 5'4" tall, they are certainly overweight at 165.

Posted 10/13/08 3:57 PM
 

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Re: pre pregnancy and current pregnancy weight

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Posted by lakadema

I don't think you are malnourishing your child. It sounds like you were overweight to begin with. My doctor said that overweight women should only gain about 15 - 20 pounds. Thinner women need to gain about 25 - 35 pounds.



Chat Icon A bit harsh? 165 is just a number... the height has a lot to do with it as well.



Even your heigh doesn't have everything to do w/ it - I'm only 5'2" and I am comfortable and look my best at about 140 and a size 6-8 .....Even 165 for me is about a size 10.

but I digress, at 14 weeks I haven't gained any weight yet. which for ME, is fine b/c I was overweight pre pregnancy - (size 12 at 176 lbs)

Posted 10/13/08 4:04 PM
 

MarisaK
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Re: pre pregnancy and current pregnancy weight

Posted by lakadema

165 can certainly be overweight based on ones height and build.

For example, if a person is medium build and 5'4" tall, they are certainly overweight at 165.



for some, yes - but that comment/assumption was kind of unnecessary to begin with - .........

Posted 10/13/08 4:06 PM
 

pinkandblue
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Re: pre pregnancy and current pregnancy weight

Posted by lakadema

165 can certainly be overweight based on ones height and build.

For example, if a person is medium build and 5'4" tall, they are certainly overweight at 165.



exactly but the weight alone does not scream overweight...if you are 5'7 or something, that is a perfect weight, imho

Posted 10/13/08 4:07 PM
 

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Re: pre pregnancy and current pregnancy weight

I don't know how tall you are so I won't try to guess if you are under or overweight. However, my doctor did tell me that if you are thin, you tend to gain more weight.

I'm small and am still negative 5 pounds since my pre-pregnancy weight at 16.5 weeks. Chat Icon I hope that in another 6 weeks, I will be up 11 pounds, which means I have to gain 16 pounds. Sigh.

Message edited 10/13/2008 4:11:21 PM.

Posted 10/13/08 4:08 PM
 

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Re: pre pregnancy and current pregnancy weight

Posted by Mikismom

Posted by kerrycec03

Posted by neener1211

Posted by lakadema

I don't think you are malnourishing your child. It sounds like you were overweight to begin with. My doctor said that overweight women should only gain about 15 - 20 pounds. Thinner women need to gain about 25 - 35 pounds.



165 overweight?? no way!!!

To the OP, you are fine, your baby will get everything it needs Chat Icon .




Exactly and 165 is certainly not overweight!!!!!



I agree completely...overweight? wow..........Chat Icon Chat Icon




ITA- All I can say is wow- thats all Chat Icon I'm sure you are doing just fine Chat Icon Chat Icon

Message edited 10/13/2008 4:10:28 PM.

Posted 10/13/08 4:09 PM
 

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Re: pre pregnancy and current pregnancy weight

hey date twin, I've gained 11lbs so far, and the baby is measuring perfect, right on target.
So if your Chat Icon is doing well, don't worry! Chat Icon

Posted 10/13/08 4:17 PM
 

MandyK07
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Re: pre pregnancy and current pregnancy weight

I wouldn't worry I am only up 3 lbs from pre-pregnancy weight at 21 weeks because I lost a lot of weight the first trimester.

Posted 10/13/08 4:22 PM
 

kerrycec03
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Re: pre pregnancy and current pregnancy weight

Posted by MarisaK

Posted by lakadema

165 can certainly be overweight based on ones height and build.

For example, if a person is medium build and 5'4" tall, they are certainly overweight at 165.



for some, yes - but that comment/assumption was kind of unnecessary to begin with - .........



it was totally uncalled for and rude comment. You had no idea how tall/what her build was/etc but you still said "165 sounds like you are overweight". I'm sorry, but your comment is so ARGH!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Message edited 10/13/2008 4:32:49 PM.

Posted 10/13/08 4:31 PM
 

MrsFlatbread
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Re: pre pregnancy and current pregnancy weight

I have only gained a little less than 17 lbs my entire pregnancy...I am almost 38 weeks...everyone is different....Chat Icon

Posted 10/13/08 5:11 PM
 

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Re: pre pregnancy and current pregnancy weight

Not to worry. I am average weight, always have been. At 22 weeks, I didn't gain anything. Maybe 1 lb.

I am now at 30+ weeks and I have finally gained a total of about 11.5lbs.

As the baby grew, I did gain weight so you still have time. My dr told me repeatedly NOT to worry when I asked.

HTHChat Icon

Posted 10/13/08 5:13 PM
 

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Re: pre pregnancy and current pregnancy weight

Posted by MrsFlatbread

I have only gained a little less than 17 lbs my entire pregnancy...I am almost 38 weeks...everyone is different....Chat Icon



I was hoping you would chime in!

(Flatbread was the main person to answer my repeated questions about lack of weight gain when I was concerned.) Chat Icon

Posted 10/13/08 5:16 PM
 
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