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kathleeng
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Kathleen
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Re: Personal question but have to ask...
I had some early spotting so my OB/GYN told us to abstain for the time being (I am almost 10 weeks). To be honest, after the scare I do not know when we are going to feel comfortable with it. I guess it will come in time.
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saraH
happy birthday sweet kate!
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I know that God exsists, I held her in my arms...
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Re: Personal question but have to ask...
In the beginning we did it more, then I was put on pelivc rest, i.e. no sex, at about 20 weeks, until about 28 weeks. which kind of su cked, but once we got past the 28 week mark, things were good. 
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| Posted 2/16/08 2:22 PM |
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CookiePuss
Cake from Outer Space!
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Re: Personal question but have to ask...
All I have to say is that I love pregnancy hormones sometimes. 
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| Posted 2/16/08 4:19 PM |
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Tonia
LIF Adolescent
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Tonia
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Re: Personal question but have to ask...
my DH won't come near me...I tried telling him he can't catch it, but that doesn't seem to work!
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| Posted 2/16/08 4:24 PM |
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jodi714
Love my little girl!
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Jodi
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Re: Personal question but have to ask...
We haven't since 12/31 and not because of me! DH is scared and is just really weirded out by the fact that she is so close to him if you KWIM Luckily I only have 4 weeks to wait until my due date and then another 6 after that  DH saying NO is totally a first in our relationship 
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| Posted 2/16/08 6:04 PM |
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Re: Personal question but have to ask...
PIMP...... We do it all the way up till the end and we even did it when I was in early labor. We BD'd and then went to the hospital a few hours later to have the baby! Yeah we're crazy.
Message edited 2/16/2008 7:30:25 PM.
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Nicole728
My Happy Girl
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Re: Personal question but have to ask...
we are still doing it...def not as often...I'm sooo sleepy and last time we did it, DH got a tad ambitious and hit my cervix...he freaked and has been a little scared to do it again.
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| Posted 2/16/08 7:38 PM |
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LadyH
April Baby Girl is Here!
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Re: Personal question but have to ask...
oooh - we don't do it nearly as often as we used to. And this is the first period of time I've ever been turned down. I don't feel well most of the time, and I certainly don't feel sexy. He has my blessing to take care of himself.
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| Posted 2/16/08 9:05 PM |
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msbree825
whole lotta cute...
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Re: Personal question but have to ask...
Posted by MelToddJulia
I'm not in the mood, but my DH wants it all the time! lol
same here, LOL!
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| Posted 2/16/08 9:44 PM |
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Pooka
Oh Happy Day!!
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Re: Personal question but have to ask...
We definitely have not been doing it as much as we used to, but we still manage at least 1 or 2 times per week. I'm not really showing yet so it hasn't gotten weird for us yet. But, like others, DH is afraid he will hurt the baby if he lays on me in certain ways (TMI  ). I keep telling him that there is a lot of protection, but he still thinks its dangerous. I guess we will keep BD'ing until I get too uncomfortable or until it gets weird.
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| Posted 2/16/08 10:05 PM |
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DmarieK
My loves!!
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Re: Personal question but have to ask...
Posted by sami
UH hello......I have not got it since Thanksgiving morning to be exact! I 'm just to nervous..
I guess I shouldn't feel to bad then...lol.
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| Posted 2/16/08 10:57 PM |
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DmarieK
My loves!!
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Re: Personal question but have to ask...
Last weekend I threw up afterwards (I got a little winded and tried to suck down too much cold water after ).
Oh...that would s*ck big time!!
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| Posted 2/16/08 10:59 PM |
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DmarieK
My loves!!
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Re: Personal question but have to ask...
Posted by Tonia
my DH won't come near me...I tried telling him he can't catch it, but that doesn't seem to work!
I should try that line!!
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| Posted 2/16/08 11:00 PM |
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My4GirlsMyLife
My 4 girlies
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Re: Personal question but have to ask...
Posted by Tonia
my DH won't come near me...I tried telling him he can't catch it, but that doesn't seem to work!
With myy first 2 we stopped for 7mnths  not my choice needless to say . So when I found out I was prego with this one I told him dont even think about depriving me and @5mnths we are still going (so far )
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| Posted 2/16/08 11:02 PM |
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pinkandblue
Our family is complete, maybe
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Stephanie
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Re: Personal question but have to ask...
my dh was the same towards the end of my pregnancy
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| Posted 2/17/08 8:44 AM |
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Happy1
I'm a mommy!!!!
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Re: Personal question but have to ask...
Welcome to my world, you are not alone in this department 
In the beginning my DH would still BD with me although as I got further into my pregnancy our BD'ing has decreased. The last time we BD'ed was some time in January if I am not mistaken and prior to that was December. Not to share TMI but we use to BD at least 4 x's a week so I am not use to this at all.
He says it's not me but the thought of our baby being "right there" as he puts it, creeps him out.
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Chica
Cuteness!
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Re: Personal question but have to ask...
It's so annoying, but my DH is the same way. We haven't BD'd since November. I feel very bad for me. My hormones have made me a sex-deprived, sex-crazed maniac. My DH has been great otherwise, but he's just too freaked out the our baby has "front row seats." After the dr. said she felt the baby's head, he said definitely not.
The funny part is that DH said, but we can BD as soon as I have this baby. When I informed him of the 6 week wait, then he . Serves him right!
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| Posted 2/17/08 10:52 AM |
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lillian771
LIF Toddler
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Re: Personal question but have to ask...
DH says he will do it but honestly, it feels like charity sex to me and I'd rather just hold off. You're doing better than us...it's been quite a few months since I've gotten any. I do however, please DH in other ways.
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| Posted 2/17/08 12:12 PM |
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dapnkap
Our 3 angels
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Re: Personal question but have to ask...
Not much happening in our bedroom either. I think it is more of a mental thing (for both of us). Plus, I'm not feeling the most comfortable these days (I'll be 32 weeks this week).
DH has been very loving and we hold each other a lot and hug and kiss, but no boom boom  I haven't been in the mood either...
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| Posted 2/18/08 9:24 AM |
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jambalady
Is it summer yet?
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Holly
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Re: Personal question but have to ask...
My DH feels the same way. He's totally freaked out about hurting the baby and knowing that he is so close to it. I'm 30 weeks and we've done it once since I got PG. I had to beg him and he was so freaked out afterwards.
I'm a walking hornball. I hate it! But, truthfully, I didn't enjoy it that much when we did it either because I knew he wasn't into it.
I'll stick to my porn and vibrator, thanks!
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CherylWoops
momma's boy
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Re: Personal question but have to ask...
Posted by Chica
I feel very bad for me. My hormones have made me a sex-deprived, sex-crazed maniac.
Same here. DH was anti from the getgo so I think we made nicey nice ONCE during my 1st trimester. Then the 2nd trimester was basically tons of what I describe as date rape on my part (who remembers "just call me the rapist?" ) and now nothing. It's frustrating and I let myself get more upset than I should, but just know that you are definitely NOT alone.
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Preguntas
it's pretty precious
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Re: Personal question but have to ask...
Oh I'm with you.
Victor feels uncomfortable witht he baby in there. I'm sure it's totally normal. I htink my last dance was mid December.
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| Posted 2/18/08 10:23 AM |
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Superkat
More a stranger than a friend
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K
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Re: Personal question but have to ask...
If he won't agree to "do the deed", maybe you can try alternative methods.
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