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conigs25
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Once you finish "the deed"...
do you lie in bed alittle while? Is this necessary?
The thing is, i ALWAYS have to pee afterwards and if i dont, it starts to burn and hurt BAD 
Am i letting out his "boys"??
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Posted 7/20/08 11:24 PM  |
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maybeamommy
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Re: Once you finish "the deed"...
I do, and I'm using the instead cups this month - but you don't have to.
I asked this question a while back and many of the pregnant women said they went to the bathroom right after BDing and obviously it wasn't a problem for them.
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| Posted 7/20/08 11:26 PM |
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nyteacher13
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Re: Once you finish "the deed"...
In prior months, I layed with my hips up on a pillow for 10 minutes. This month when I got my BFP, I went to the bathroom right away after. I had the "f- it, I have to pee" attitude, and it worked. 
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| Posted 7/20/08 11:45 PM |
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CallaLily
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Re: Once you finish "the deed"...
Posted by conigs25
do you lie in bed alittle while? Is this necessary?
The thing is, i ALWAYS have to pee afterwards and if i dont, it starts to burn and hurt BAD
Am i letting out his "boys"??
Thanks for asking this...I was curious about it too
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| Posted 7/21/08 12:03 AM |
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Angel321
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Re: Once you finish "the deed"...
i try to stay laying down and not move. last month - i tried the whole - legs in the air...
we'll probably do the same thing again this month....maybe 10 minutes tops...
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| Posted 7/21/08 1:24 AM |
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SummerMiracle
LIF Toddler
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Brianne (Bri)
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Re: Once you finish "the deed"...
Posted by conigs25
do you lie in bed alittle while? Is this necessary?
The thing is, i ALWAYS have to pee afterwards and if i dont, it starts to burn and hurt BAD
Am i letting out his "boys"??
I do lie in bed, but am not so sure it is necessary. It does get uncomfortable sometimes for me too . . .
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| Posted 7/21/08 6:55 AM |
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Bridex100
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Momx100
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Re: Once you finish "the deed"...
I usually get up after a few minutes.
We only BD once the time I actually got my BFP. On that night, I fell asleep so DH's sperm had all night to swim. I don't know if this contributed to my BFP.
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| Posted 7/21/08 7:00 AM |
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diva7531
My Peanut
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Ryan 3 boys EDD 11/6!
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Re: Once you finish "the deed"...
I usually try to lay there (hasn't worked!) but if I have to pee, I go pee!
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| Posted 7/21/08 7:14 AM |
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angnick
Life is So Wonderful!
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Re: Once you finish "the deed"...
i tried to stay still for 5 mins then went to pee!
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| Posted 7/21/08 8:28 AM |
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SweetTooth
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Lauren
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Re: Once you finish "the deed"...
Its not necessary at all. What needs to get up there gets up there at the moment of um, release. Anything that comes out when you get up is just "leftovers' that wouldn't make it anyway.
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| Posted 7/21/08 8:28 AM |
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ohbaby08
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Re: Once you finish "the deed"...
You don't have to lay there afterwards. I always peed after we BDed because I didn't want to run the risk of getting a UTI and I'm now 29 weeks pregnant (so I guess it still worked). His swimmers will get where they are going. The other "stuff" that comes out later is not the "good stuff." Good luck!
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| Posted 7/21/08 8:40 AM |
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MetsGirl07
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Re: Once you finish "the deed"...
Posted by SweetTooth
Its not necessary at all. What needs to get up there gets up there at the moment of um, release. Anything that comes out when you get up is just "leftovers' that wouldn't make it anyway.
i agree! i always get right up afterwards.
if i dont pee right away it starts to burn badly 
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| Posted 7/21/08 9:27 AM |
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randella
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Randi
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Re: Once you finish "the deed"...
I think that the notion of lying there for a while is the equivalent of jumping up and down after to avoid getting pregnant.
Do what makes you feel comfortable.
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| Posted 7/21/08 9:27 AM |
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Hofstra26
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Re: Once you finish "the deed"...
You don't have to but I will say that when I had my IUI the RE had me lie on the table for 15 minutes with my knees bent and my hips elevated. It doesn't guarantee anything but it also can't hurt.
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| Posted 7/21/08 9:28 AM |
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BellaRock
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Re: Once you finish "the deed"...
I lay back and relax for about 10 minutes. I try. Any little bit I can do.
I can't stay there too long with my legs up or anything because I get UTIs. So I have to pee and clean up right away.
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| Posted 7/21/08 1:39 PM |
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nicknmb
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Re: Once you finish "the deed"...
I don't think you need to lay there afterwards...whatever is supposed to "Up there" has already gotten there and you getting up is not going to change that.
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| Posted 7/21/08 2:40 PM |
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pinkandblue
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Stephanie
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Re: Once you finish "the deed"...
it is not necessary at all....if you have to pee, pee 
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| Posted 7/21/08 4:08 PM |
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ReiRei13
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Re: Once you finish "the deed"...
When we were trying we always did it right before bed....when we finished i'd go straight to sleep so i didn't lose any spermies!! It worked- i got my BFP the month that we did that!!
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| Posted 7/21/08 4:21 PM |
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beautyq115
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Re: Once you finish "the deed"...
My doctor said lying in bed is really not necessary but if you have to pee you have to pee...you don;t want to get a UTI
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| Posted 7/21/08 4:56 PM |
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LIMOMx2
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Re: Once you finish "the deed"...
I always do and I keep my legs slightly elevated and my head flat to help them swim to the right place
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| Posted 7/21/08 5:12 PM |
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SecretMommy09
LIF Infant
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Secret
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Re: Once you finish "the deed"...
I lie in bed too w/ my legs up for about 5-10 minutes
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| Posted 7/21/08 7:05 PM |
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