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Jessica
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o boy...i think we have to postpone our wedding
My parents are really not doing well with my lil stupid sis leaving and "disowning" my family.
I think i should be here for them
Message edited 4/4/2007 5:20:17 PM.
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Posted 4/4/07 5:18 PM |
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Tany
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Re: o boy...i think we have to postpone our wedding
oh no, I hope not.
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Posted 4/4/07 5:19 PM |
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want2beamom
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Re: o boy...i think we have to postpone our wedding
I would do whatever is best for you and your family, but postponing your wedding may throw them off. They may be looking for some stability, and something to look forward too, and your wedding may be just that. I would speak with them (and your FH) about it. Best of luck to all of you!
Message edited 4/4/2007 7:30:29 PM.
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Posted 4/4/07 5:21 PM |
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Phyl
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Re: o boy...i think we have to postpone our wedding
Oh Jessica! I really hope you don't have to postpone your wedding!! A lot can happen between now and your wedding date.
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Posted 4/4/07 5:21 PM |
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Beth
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Re: o boy...i think we have to postpone our wedding
Posted by want2beamom
I would do whatever is best for you and your family, but postponing your wedding may through them off. They may be looking for some stability, and something to look forward too, and your wedding may be just that. I would speak with them (and your FH) about it. Best of luck to all of you!
I agree- I planned my wedding after my Mom passed away- and it was the one posititve my family had to focus on
you can still be there for them and have your life move forward
Message edited 4/4/2007 5:24:44 PM.
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Posted 4/4/07 5:23 PM |
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SweetestOfPeas
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Re: o boy...i think we have to postpone our wedding
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Posted 4/4/07 5:24 PM |
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sirk1020
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Re: o boy...i think we have to postpone our wedding
Have a talk with your parents, maybe they are looking forward to celebrating your happy occasion
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Posted 4/4/07 6:25 PM |
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Kate07
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Re: o boy...i think we have to postpone our wedding
I am so sorry. I'm sure your parents would be looking forward to the day to celebrate you.
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Posted 4/4/07 6:27 PM |
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Libragal07
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Re: o boy...i think we have to postpone our wedding
Don't you dare postpone your wedding b.c of your sis. From what you tell me that might be what she want and she wants all the attention! Dont do it mama!!! FMing you
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Posted 4/4/07 6:40 PM |
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Moehick
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Re: o boy...i think we have to postpone our wedding
I think your wedding would bring alot of joy at a much needed time
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Posted 4/4/07 6:42 PM |
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Lauren
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Re: o boy...i think we have to postpone our wedding
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Posted 4/4/07 6:42 PM |
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CathyB

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Re: o boy...i think we have to postpone our wedding
Don't postpone it. You'll still be there for them, and they will have a new son to help them too.
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Posted 4/4/07 6:43 PM |
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Stacey1403
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Re: o boy...i think we have to postpone our wedding
Posted by want2beamom
I would do whatever is best for you and your family, but postponing your wedding may through them off. They may be looking for some stability, and something to look forward too, and your wedding may be just that. I would speak with them (and your FH) about it. Best of luck to all of you!
ITA
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Posted 4/4/07 6:43 PM |
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Re: o boy...i think we have to postpone our wedding
I am sure your parents are looking forward to your wedding as a positive thing
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Posted 4/4/07 7:05 PM |
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bklyngirl
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Re: o boy...i think we have to postpone our wedding
i ho pe you don't have to postpone it. i think your parents would be happy to have something good to look forward to
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Posted 4/4/07 7:06 PM |
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Posted 4/4/07 7:07 PM |
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saraH
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Re: o boy...i think we have to postpone our wedding
Posted by Moehick
I think your wedding would bring alot of joy at a much needed time
I agree. I know your first reaction is to put things on hold, but in the long run that won't help them.
whatever you decide, I hope it all works out.
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Posted 4/4/07 7:10 PM |
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nrthshgrl
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Re: o boy...i think we have to postpone our wedding
I agree. I'm sure the last thing they would want is for their relationship with your sister to ruin your wedding plans.
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Posted 4/4/07 7:23 PM |
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Jax430
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Re: o boy...i think we have to postpone our wedding
Posted by Moehick
I think your wedding would bring alot of joy at a much needed time
I agree. You can still be support for your family while getting married.
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Posted 4/4/07 7:40 PM |
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tsullivan
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Re: o boy...i think we have to postpone our wedding
This makes a lot of sense. Looking forward to something happy might be just what everyone needs.
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Posted 4/4/07 7:41 PM |
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BaroqueMama
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Re: o boy...i think we have to postpone our wedding
I would talk to your parents, Jess and see what they say
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Posted 4/4/07 7:44 PM |
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randella
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Re: o boy...i think we have to postpone our wedding
I agree with other posters--- you should have a happy occassion in your lives right now!
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Posted 4/4/07 7:52 PM |
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Booklady1017
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Re: o boy...i think we have to postpone our wedding
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Posted 4/4/07 9:06 PM |
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FeliciaDP
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Re: o boy...i think we have to postpone our wedding
Posted by Jax430
Posted by Moehick
I think your wedding would bring alot of joy at a much needed time
I agree. You can still be support for your family while getting married.
I agree with both these statements..
I hope it all works out for you Jessica
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Posted 4/4/07 9:34 PM |
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JenniferEver
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Re: o boy...i think we have to postpone our wedding
It's your decision. I postponed my wedding for a million and one reasons, and it turned out to be a better decision than I could have known.
However, I don't think you should let anyone take your life away from you. It's not about the day at all, but if you're ready to marry FH, please go for it. you can be there for your family AND get married. They have each other, and your sister will work herself out. You are about to embark on a new life with your FH. Don't let anyone take it away from you. Don't start changing your plans or lviing your life for someone else, you will not be happy.
And as other posters saiud, your wedding might be a bright star to focus on and it will be good to keep the stability of what you've planned.
And don't postpone unless you absolutely have to. Even if you know you are still going tog et married, it's really heart-breaking, not to mention expensive. I hope you come to the decision that is right for you
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