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So AF is due on 1/10... and then I will be able to start ttc again at the end of Jan...

I am extremely nervous that I will have another ectopic pregnancy... like borderline anxious about it actually...

I dont really have a point... just thought you should all be aware of my anxiety lol

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I've never had to go through that but I can definitely understand your anxiety. Lots of prayers and baby dust your way!

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Im so sorry. I cant even begin to imagine what you are feeling. Just try to think and stay positive. It will all work out for you.

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To feel anxious is normal. But try to put it out of your thoughts and think about the beautiful experience that you and DH are sharing.

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I can't imagine how scary that must have been for you and your DH

Stay positive...I am sure that the odds of that happening a second time are very low

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sending you TONS of good vibes.

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I can not imagine how scary it is for you guys. Unfortunately, we cant control these things, they happen w/out reason or warning. I am a firm being and sadly not always a follower of positive thinking. Its a new year for you guys, and believe me, I'm not suggesting you forget but you get a new chance. If you can, focus on that. I know that this can sound kinda religious and I never try and force beliefs or ideals on anyone but I honestly trust that we are never given what we can't handle. You are tough & strong cookie, you have proven that. Give yourself the gift of moving forward w/nothing but joy and excitement. The rest will be taken care of, you both deserve that much.

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thanks ladies...

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if u were not nervous you would not be human...its gonna happen and i hate to say it but u might be nervous for a bit even after u get ur bfp..

it comes with the territory and it suucks..but u r strong..and i know u wont give up..baby steps(no pun intended)..and we just hope and pray that all tuens out well


so so so excited for you to begin trying again!want that bfp for you soooooo bad..always here if u want to talk

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I can totally understand why you are nervous, and think it would only be "normal" that you are nervous. Hang in there and nothing but the best of luck to you!

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Your feelings are totally normal... if you didn't worry or think about it then you would be unnormal LOL if that is even a word.
I am worried for when I get preggo next that I will hear bad news at the 12 week appt, I'm also nervous and think what if I don't get preggo again...There is ALWAYS something to worry about esp with pregnancy but try not to let your fears get in the way. Just know that you deserve a healthy baby and you will get one.

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It's very exciting that you are going to be able to TTC soon! Try and focus on the fact that you could become pregnant with a healthy pregnancy very soon! I'm sorry that it's making you anxious

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sorry you're feeling this way... FWIW one of my sisters had an etopic pregnancy - i'll never forget it, she was rushed to the ER the night of mine and Mike's first date - she lost a tube and everything. got pregnant again 6 months after and well, she's got my niece to show for it.

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Posted by Bearcat

sorry you're feeling this way... FWIW one of my sisters had an etopic pregnancy - i'll never forget it, she was rushed to the ER the night of mine and Mike's first date - she lost a tube and everything. got pregnant again 6 months after and well, she's got my niece to show for it.

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Posted by AngnShaun

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sorry you're feeling this way... FWIW one of my sisters had an etopic pregnancy - i'll never forget it, she was rushed to the ER the night of mine and Mike's first date - she lost a tube and everything. got pregnant again 6 months after and well, she's got my niece to show for it.

my aunt and my moms co worker had ectopics and lost a tube and went on to have 3 kids each...

and i still have both tubes... so my chances are even less... its just mind games kid, you know...

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just stay positive!!! and keep praying!! after my chemical i thought it was going to happen again! luckily it didnt!!

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Oh Ang- I think it's totally normal to be nervous

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Posted by Bearcat

Posted by AngnShaun

Posted by Bearcat

sorry you're feeling this way... FWIW one of my sisters had an etopic pregnancy - i'll never forget it, she was rushed to the ER the night of mine and Mike's first date - she lost a tube and everything. got pregnant again 6 months after and well, she's got my niece to show for it.

my aunt and my moms co worker had ectopics and lost a tube and went on to have 3 kids each...

and i still have both tubes... so my chances are even less... its just mind games kid, you know...

I know... well, i don't really know, but i can imagine. take some xanax. kidding kidding.

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I think I can understand a little bit.

I told DH that I think I am going to miscarry again. I have a feeling next time won't be it for us either and that it will be the third time that we get a baby.

Why I would even think something like that I have no idea. I still have time to wait before TTC again and I already have this fear, almost like a certainty that my next pregnancy is going to end in a miscarriage again (how horrible is that).

I hope it is just our minds messing with us. We can't be the only two people who have felt this way after a pregnancy gone bad.

I think it is normal to be nervous, just don't let it stop you from getting something you want. Through this whole process I keep telling myself that because I have a lot of fear about "the next one".

I am sure everything will be fine next time so many women have gone through what we are going through and have a family of their own to show for it.

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