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Life sure has been tough guys and gals....

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FLaCaTaCa
Kelsey Elyse = Love

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Stacy

Life sure has been tough guys and gals....

Hey Everyone!
For those of you that know me, already know what happened. For those of you that don't...I was engaged to a great man, just not a great man for me! We wanted 2 different things in life and it just was NOT going to make it a happy marriage. I called off the wedding this past December. It's been tough! I have never been alone (or without a serious boyfriend). I am very young and in all honesty, don't enjoy most of the scenes people my age do so it makes it difficult for me to get out and meet people....potential dates.

Ugggghhhh!! Just wanted to let it all out to some people that might understand!

Thanks for letting me go on and on and on!

Love You All!!!

~Stacy

Posted 6/17/05 3:43 PM
 
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nylisa
My Children

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MaMa

Re: Life sure has been tough guys and gals....

Stacy, remember that we are all here for you.

Posted 6/17/05 3:45 PM
 

unknown1
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Member since 5/05

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Name:
lisa

Re: Life sure has been tough guys and gals....

Posted by FLaCaTaCa

Hey Everyone!
For those of you that know me, already know what happened. For those of you that don't...I was engaged to a great man, just not a great man for me! We wanted 2 different things in life and it just was NOT going to make it a happy marriage. I called off the wedding this past December. It's been tough! I have never been alone (or without a serious boyfriend). I am very young and in all honesty, don't enjoy most of the scenes people my age do so it makes it difficult for me to get out and meet people....potential dates.

Ugggghhhh!! Just wanted to let it all out to some people that might understand!

Thanks for letting me go on and on and on!

Love You All!!
~Stacy





I am really glad you posted this i actually got married and am now in the process of divorce due to similar things ,,,,,,,, I apporeciate you coming forward ! It helps to know I am not alone !

Message edited 6/17/2005 3:46:34 PM.

Posted 6/17/05 3:45 PM
 

btrflygrl
me and baby #3!

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Shana

Re: Life sure has been tough guys and gals....

You're an amazing woman Stacy!! You've got a great attitude!!

AIM me anytime

Posted 6/17/05 3:46 PM
 

CaseyGirl
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Jen - counting my blessings...

Re: Life sure has been tough guys and gals....

hey stacy Chat Icon

i true believe all things happen for a reason. hang in there! Chat Icon

Posted 6/17/05 3:46 PM
 

btrflygrl
me and baby #3!

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Shana

Re: Life sure has been tough guys and gals....

Posted by unbelievable

Posted by FLaCaTaCa

Hey Everyone!
For those of you that know me, already know what happened. For those of you that don't...I was engaged to a great man, just not a great man for me! We wanted 2 different things in life and it just was NOT going to make it a happy marriage. I called off the wedding this past December. It's been tough! I have never been alone (or without a serious boyfriend). I am very young and in all honesty, don't enjoy most of the scenes people my age do so it makes it difficult for me to get out and meet people....potential dates.

Ugggghhhh!! Just wanted to let it all out to some people that might understand!

Thanks for letting me go on and on and on!

Love You All!!
~Stacy





I am really glad you posted this i actually got married and am now in the process of divorce due to similar things ,,,,,,,, I apporeciate you coming forward ! It helps to know I am not alone !




sorry to hear.Chat IconChat Icon

Posted 6/17/05 3:47 PM
 

LadyMaravilla
Fall Is Here

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Sonia

Re: Life sure has been tough guys and gals....

Stacy, don't worry you have a lifetime ahead of you. The right man for you will come in due time...I'm sure of it. Maybe someone who watches over you feels it's not the time yet. But enjoy your life and the things it has to offer you.

Posted 6/17/05 3:47 PM
 

karacg
Babygirl is 4!

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Kara®

Re: Life sure has been tough guys and gals....

Hey Stacy ~~ Well we miss you and you can always hang here --- AND you can came to our TTC GTG!!! Chat Icon

Believe me, mejor sola que mal acompanada!!

Posted 6/17/05 3:47 PM
 

Lisa
I'm a PANK!!!

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Professional Aunts No Kids

Re: Life sure has been tough guys and gals....

I am sorry that you went through that but you seem like a strong woman that will be better off in the end because of it.

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Posted 6/17/05 3:47 PM
 

FLaCaTaCa
Kelsey Elyse = Love

Member since 5/05

1855 total posts

Name:
Stacy

Re: Life sure has been tough guys and gals....

I am sorry. I am just down lately. I feel like I have a lot to offer to a guy and I am just not at the right place at the right time I guess. I am just bummed out.

P.S...I didn't mean to sound conceited or anything.

Posted 6/17/05 3:48 PM
 

Tracey
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Tracey - brideinapril

Re: Life sure has been tough guys and gals....

WOW, where the heck have I been?! I had no idea! But I do know how hard it is to meet people! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/17/05 3:48 PM
 

LadyMaravilla
Fall Is Here

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Name:
Sonia

Re: Life sure has been tough guys and gals....

Posted by FLaCaTaCa

I am sorry. I am just down lately. I feel like I have a lot to offer to a guy and I am just not at the right place at the right time I guess. I am just bummed out.

P.S...I didn't mean to sound conceited or anything.



It's ok to get bumbed out...but you just pick yourself back up again...

Posted 6/17/05 3:49 PM
 

FLaCaTaCa
Kelsey Elyse = Love

Member since 5/05

1855 total posts

Name:
Stacy

Re: Life sure has been tough guys and gals....

Every guy I meet is just that....a guy! I was getting married! Gonna own a home! Finish school shortly! I don't want to play games!

I am being a pest, I know! I am sorry! Just one of those days!

Posted 6/17/05 3:49 PM
 

Christine
2nd verse same as the 1st

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Re: Life sure has been tough guys and gals....

I am SURE happier days are a head of you. I give you a lot of credit for making a hard decision.

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Posted 6/17/05 3:50 PM
 

Tracey
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Name:
Tracey - brideinapril

Re: Life sure has been tough guys and gals....

You are not being a pest, it is extremely difficult to find a great guy. I hadn't dated anyone for 3 years before I met my DH, and I met him through work!

Posted 6/17/05 3:51 PM
 

dld4e
I ♥ my boys!

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DJ

Re: Life sure has been tough guys and gals....

Hang in there! Chat Icon
Before you know it, the right guy will be right in front of you! Chat Icon

Posted 6/17/05 3:52 PM
 

Shanti
True love

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Re: Life sure has been tough guys and gals....

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Posted 6/17/05 3:53 PM
 

MrsJ
I love my Katie Bug

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Re: Life sure has been tough guys and gals....

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Posted 6/17/05 3:56 PM
 

Elbee
Zanzibar

Member since 5/05

10767 total posts

Name:
Me

Re: Life sure has been tough guys and gals....

Posted by unbelievable

Posted by FLaCaTaCa

Hey Everyone!
For those of you that know me, already know what happened. For those of you that don't...I was engaged to a great man, just not a great man for me! We wanted 2 different things in life and it just was NOT going to make it a happy marriage. I called off the wedding this past December. It's been tough! I have never been alone (or without a serious boyfriend). I am very young and in all honesty, don't enjoy most of the scenes people my age do so it makes it difficult for me to get out and meet people....potential dates.

Ugggghhhh!! Just wanted to let it all out to some people that might understand!

Thanks for letting me go on and on and on!

Love You All!!
~Stacy





I am really glad you posted this i actually got married and am now in the process of divorce due to similar things ,,,,,,,, I apporeciate you coming forward ! It helps to know I am not alone !


I didn't know that. I'm really sorry to hear that. I hope you find happiness in all that you do Chat Icon

Posted 6/17/05 3:57 PM
 

Elbee
Zanzibar

Member since 5/05

10767 total posts

Name:
Me

Re: Life sure has been tough guys and gals....

Stacey - It stinks to hear "it'll happen when the time is right", "have patience", "he's out there", etc, etc, eetc, ad nasuem ... but the truth is ... you are a beautiful, smart woman ... you will find someone to fullfil your every need and while it's frustrating think of all the opportunities to meet new people ... not every man you date has to be husband potential ... some can just be fun, time killing adventures. Get a free dinner out of it - see a movie, discover a new friend.
Even if they are "just guys", you never know what you'll discover about them or yourself. I believe we can learn each and every day from the people we encounter so try not to get too discouraged, you'll come out stronger in the end Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/17/05 4:01 PM
 

kathleeng

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Name:
Kathleen

Re: Life sure has been tough guys and gals....

I am sorry to hear this Stacy.Chat Icon Have you thought about using this time to pursue things that might interest you: maybe take up a new hobby, travel, take a class that might interest you? I can totally emphasize with your situation. Before I met DH, I was single for a loooooong time, and it felt endless and was depressing. Looking back, I really wish I had used more of that time for myself and done fun things; just to enjoy life and have fun. I really regret not being more proactive. This could be a great time for you. You deserve it!! Don't you worry about that man either, he will come along before you know it.Chat Icon

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Posted 6/17/05 4:02 PM
 

kathleeng

Member since 5/05

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Name:
Kathleen

Re: Life sure has been tough guys and gals....

Lisa, great minds think alike, we must have posted at the same time!!Chat Icon

Posted 6/17/05 4:04 PM
 

FeliciaDP

Member since 5/05

18599 total posts

Name:
Mommy

Re: Life sure has been tough guys and gals....

Stacy, you are NOT a pest whatsoever ..

PLEASE feel free to vent whenever you need to, that is what this board is all about!

You have been such a good friend to many people here- in turn, we're all here for you and to help you and support you!!

It takes a very very strong woman to make the decision you had to make, and right this second you might not fully understand WHY things are happening in your life the way they are, but I promise you that down the road, at some point in the future, you will look back at this time in your life and you WILL realize that it did happen for a reason

(trust me I hated hearing these things when I was single and going through my "finding myself' times.. I hate even saying them, they sound so "cliche" .. BUT it is the truth, I promise you that!)

You are young, beautiful, intelligent and have so much to offer this world - with or without a man , makes no difference Chat Icon - take this time to be selfish, be ALL about "Stacy" and you will discover things about yourself you never imagined you would!! Chat Icon

Good Luck and FM me ANYTIME if you ever need or want to chat Chat Icon

Message edited 6/17/2005 4:10:31 PM.

Posted 6/17/05 4:08 PM
 

Donna
1 year already!!

Member since 5/05

3360 total posts

Name:
Donna

Re: Life sure has been tough guys and gals....

I think you are a very strong woman to have done what you did, I've had friends that got too wrapped in "being a bride" or not wanting to be alone, so they got married and p.s anywhere from 6-14 months later they are divorcing...

You're a young beautiful girl and your Mr. Right will def. come along....

there's a saying - "better to be alone for the right reasons than with someone for the wrong"

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Posted 6/17/05 4:15 PM
 

MrsProfessor
hi

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Re: Life sure has been tough guys and gals....

Always remember that you do have a lot to offer! Nothing wrong with having confidence!

I didn't meet DH til I was 31 and had to watch all my friends get married and have kids while I wasn't even dating anyone. Yet I got to travel and pursue my interests and as much as that sounds like women's magazine drivel I am so glad that it worked out the way it did. It will work out for you too. Keep your chin up! Chat Icon

Posted 6/17/05 4:17 PM
 
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