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JDubs
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just a vent.
i guess i just needed somewhere to vent... yesterday my cousin texted me that she is pg, this is in addition to another one of my cousins who announced she was pg maybe like a month or so ago... i congratulated them but inside i couldn't help but feel upset, and hate feeling this way! After i got her text last night i just went into bed and cried... DH thinks i was being stupid, but i couldn't help feeling like, "when is this going to happen for me?" On top of that, my aunt kept asking me 2 weeks ago when I was going to have a baby, saying that its time, etc... All i could do is say, "eventually", but it took every ounce of me to not say "did you ever think that maybe it doesn't happen so quickly for some people?" ugh... sorry just needed somewhere to vent my frustrations. Thanks for listening. 
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Samira0407
Love being a Mom
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Re: just a vent.
I'm sorry, your reaction was completely understandable and sorry about your Aunt, some people have good intentions but just don't realize how we really take/react to their comments
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| Posted 11/2/11 7:50 AM |
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LoLaBlue
PARTY OF 5
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Re: just a vent.
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| Posted 11/2/11 8:10 AM |
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CindySN23
Stop, Think & Breathe...
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Re: just a vent.
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| Posted 11/2/11 8:19 AM |
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Hoping4Baby11
Live life to the fullest!,
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Jenn
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Re: just a vent.
I'm sorry!!! DH should of never called you stupid!! I keep saying to myself it's gonna happen and I know it will! I hate family members who try to pry into my personal life and ask me when I am having a baby! It's so annoying..I always feels so uncomfortable when someone asks me that questiion..you handled it right so don't worry!!
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| Posted 11/2/11 9:21 AM |
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IAMMRSBROWN
3 under 2!!!
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Re: just a vent.
Im sorry ..
I have recently started saying "yeah, not as easy as everyone thinks to 'just get pregnant' " ... shuts people up and I dont give a shyt if it sounds rude. Whats rude is people who ask ... so obnoxious.
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| Posted 11/2/11 9:24 AM |
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MrsM429
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Re: just a vent.
I'm sorry, I know how frustrating this is. It's been a 11 month journey for me, and those questions still sting
Posted by IAMMRSBROWN
Im sorry ..
I have recently started saying "yeah, not as easy as everyone thinks to 'just get pregnant' " ... shuts people up and I dont give a shyt if it sounds rude. Whats rude is people who ask ... so obnoxious.
This is what i've been saying as well. Consideration for the other party has gone out the window at this point
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| Posted 11/2/11 11:08 AM |
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mooshyboo
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Christine
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Re: just a vent.
totally understandable ~ so hard when you are trying and someone gets pg ~ I totally feel you
I agree with Carey/Kristen I would probably say something like that in the future.
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| Posted 11/2/11 11:15 AM |
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MrsC529
LIF Infant
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Danielle
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Re: just a vent.
i know how u feel.....i feel like everyone i talk to is getting pg except me. They make it like its so easy. and everywhere i turn is a baby that reminds me of how I'm not getting pg
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| Posted 11/2/11 5:24 PM |
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LoveDayLove
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| Posted 11/2/11 6:04 PM |
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PennyCat
Just call me mommy :)
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Jib
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Re: just a vent.
It totally stinks.
My whole family knows what we're going through.. as well as all my friends (after all my losses .. infertility.. etc.. how could they not?!) What's good about everything being out there in the open is if they want to know how things are going, it goes something like this..
other person: so how are things?
me: eh, same old sh!t
other person: Ohhh ok well I'm praying for you
Yeaaaa we don't even have to say the word BABY anymore in the conversation to know what the other person is talking about!! 
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| Posted 11/2/11 6:09 PM |
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TaraVinny
my miracle coming October!!!
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Tara
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Re: just a vent.
you are not alone. i always get that question "when are you going to have a baby?" it doesn't happen right away. grrr... i wish people would be more sensitive to this.
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| Posted 11/2/11 6:18 PM |
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gina409
TWINS!
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Re: just a vent.
we have all been there..it stinks,no other way around it
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| Posted 11/2/11 9:38 PM |
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