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dazies827
expecting boy # 3

Member since 9/09 2522 total posts
Name: Chris
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Im soo sad right now
It looks like we are going to have to put TTC off this month In order for the Aflac to work for me I would have to start trying next month to get the pay out and I wont have to worry about being out of work. Just now I wont be out as long as I wanted if I end up going back
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Posted 6/25/11 8:58 AM |
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cateyemm
Twins!

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Re: Im soo sad right now
that suckks!!! but in the end, you will be glad you waited because it sounds like such a great benefit! you're very smart for looking into it.
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Posted 6/25/11 9:47 AM |
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Alexandra17
Keep It Positive

Member since 4/09 6262 total posts
Name: Alexandra (ali)
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Re: Im soo sad right now
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Posted 6/25/11 10:01 AM |
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dazies827
expecting boy # 3

Member since 9/09 2522 total posts
Name: Chris
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Re: Im soo sad right now
Posted by cateyemm
that suckks!!! but in the end, you will be glad you waited because it sounds like such a great benefit! you're very smart for looking into it. Im sooo torn and it means less time home with the baby and getting older doesnt help. Im soo confused!!!
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Posted 6/25/11 10:20 AM |
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bettybcafe
Big brother in the making

Member since 7/07 8611 total posts
Name: M
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Re: Im soo sad right now
Aw, Im sorry. Dont worry one month will fly by!
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Posted 6/25/11 10:20 AM |
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dazies827
expecting boy # 3

Member since 9/09 2522 total posts
Name: Chris
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Re: Im soo sad right now
Posted by bettybcafe
Aw, Im sorry. Dont worry one month will fly by! Sent you a message on FB
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Posted 6/25/11 10:58 AM |
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bettybcafe
Big brother in the making

Member since 7/07 8611 total posts
Name: M
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Re: Im soo sad right now
Posted by dazies827
Posted by bettybcafe
Aw, Im sorry. Dont worry one month will fly by! Sent you a message on FB
I responded
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Posted 6/25/11 11:14 AM |
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LoLaBlue
PARTY OF 5

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Posted 6/25/11 11:35 AM |
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StaceyWill
It's a girl!!!

Member since 6/10 21539 total posts
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Posted 6/25/11 11:45 AM |
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dazies827
expecting boy # 3

Member since 9/09 2522 total posts
Name: Chris
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Re: Im soo sad right now
Thaks girls, the hubby doesnt want to stop trying.
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Posted 6/25/11 1:42 PM |
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MrsBurgos09
LIF Adult

Member since 9/09 915 total posts
Name: Erica
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Re: Im soo sad right now
I am sorry hun
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Posted 6/25/11 5:40 PM |
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WannaBeAMom11
LIF Adult

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Re: Im soo sad right now
Can you tell me how it works? I put in a call to find out about the benefits. Is it a maternity benefit or is it the hospital indeminity one?
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Posted 6/25/11 5:48 PM |
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Porrruss
Nya nya nya

Member since 5/05 11618 total posts
Name: Amy
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Re: Im soo sad right now
Posted by WannaBeAMom11
Can you tell me how it works? I put in a call to find out about the benefits. Is it a maternity benefit or is it the hospital indeminity one?
With both the maternity and the hospital indemnity the plan needs to be in place a full 10 months before the birth of the baby. You can use the hospital plan for any reason at any time, except for the birth of a baby. Then it needs to be in place 10 months.
I have the hospital indemnity and I made sure of the correct date- my plan started September 1, so the baby couldn't come before July 1.
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Posted 6/25/11 7:34 PM |
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Porrruss
Nya nya nya

Member since 5/05 11618 total posts
Name: Amy
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Re: Im soo sad right now
Posted by dazies827
It looks like we are going to have to put TTC off this month In order for the Aflac to work for me I would have to start trying next month to get the pay out and I wont have to worry about being out of work. Just now I wont be out as long as I wanted if I end up going back
I know you're sad, but it's just a month or so (do the math, make sure your duedate wouldn't cut it too close). I swear the benefit is worth it......
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Posted 6/25/11 7:35 PM |
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dazies827
expecting boy # 3

Member since 9/09 2522 total posts
Name: Chris
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Re: Im soo sad right now
Posted by Porrruss
Posted by WannaBeAMom11
Can you tell me how it works? I put in a call to find out about the benefits. Is it a maternity benefit or is it the hospital indeminity one?
With both the maternity and the hospital indemnity the plan needs to be in place a full 10 months before the birth of the baby. You can use the hospital plan for any reason at any time, except for the birth of a baby. Then it needs to be in place 10 months.
I have the hospital indemnity and I made sure of the correct date- my plan started September 1, so the baby couldn't come before July 1. He didnt say anything about Maternity one, just told me to take out disability and hospital one.
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Posted 6/25/11 8:11 PM |
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dazies827
expecting boy # 3

Member since 9/09 2522 total posts
Name: Chris
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Re: Im soo sad right now
Posted by Porrruss
Posted by dazies827
It looks like we are going to have to put TTC off this month In order for the Aflac to work for me I would have to start trying next month to get the pay out and I wont have to worry about being out of work. Just now I wont be out as long as I wanted if I end up going back
I know you're sad, but it's just a month or so (do the math, make sure your duedate wouldn't cut it too close). I swear the benefit is worth it...... As far as that I was figuring it out and I may have to wait 2 months, just in case baby come early.
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Posted 6/25/11 8:12 PM |
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partdeux
LIF Infant
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Re: Im soo sad right now
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Posted 6/25/11 9:58 PM |
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dazies827
expecting boy # 3

Member since 9/09 2522 total posts
Name: Chris
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Re: Im soo sad right now
Thanks everyone, I know it sounds stupid but, Im always a logical thinker and this time, meaning TTC, I was going with just what I ( and DH) wanted to do. After going through pros and cons of me having a nother baby with a 16, doing it all over again, I finally put all that aside and just went with what I wanted and now yet again something logical gets in the way. I know I must sound crazy but, everytime I think of waiting a month or 2 I just get so upset. I didnt think TTC with all that comes with it would be so hard.
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Posted 6/25/11 10:53 PM |
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