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Tany
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If your SO ever cheated on you
What would it be worse, if it was with a woman or a men?
Honestly, I would say with a men, the though just revolts me.
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Re: If your SO ever cheated on you
it wouldn't matter to me, man, woman or sheep....the fact that he did it would bother me more
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| Posted 8/3/05 12:36 PM |
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Tany
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Re: If your SO ever cheated on you
Posted by BNL2005
it wouldn't matter to me, man, woman or sheep....the fact that he did it would bother me more
oh definitely, it would be terms for divorce or breakup but that's not right.
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| Posted 8/3/05 12:38 PM |
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Re: If your SO ever cheated on you
A woman would be worse because if he went with a man, I cant compete physically if thats what he is after.
GROSS to think about but thats how I feel.
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| Posted 8/3/05 12:38 PM |
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Re: If your SO ever cheated on you
Blech...I don't know. Either one would be horrible.
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| Posted 8/3/05 12:39 PM |
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MsMBV
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Re: If your SO ever cheated on you
my Ex-FI cheated on me with a guy....I called off the wedding & have not spoken to him since. it was 11 years ago.
But I want to say that cheating of any sort would result in me leaving - I do not tolerate it & have never done it. What bothered me abotu ex FI was the combo of cheating & lying to me about who he was.
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Redhead
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Re: If your SO ever cheated on you
Posted by Diamondgrlie
A woman would be worse because if he went with a man, I cant compete physically if thats what he is after.
GROSS to think about but thats how I feel.
i agree... i think it would hurt me more if it was a woman...
If he likes men....well that is a different to me. There could be nothing i could do about that.
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Tany
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Re: If your SO ever cheated on you
Posted by MsMBV
my Ex-FI cheated on me with a guy....I called off the wedding & have not spoken to him since. it was 11 years ago.
But I want to say that cheating of any sort would result in me leaving - I do not tolerate it & have never done it. What bothered me abotu ex FI was the combo of cheating & lying to me about who he was.
Wow, that's crazy. Was he experimenting or do you think that he was gay? if you don't mind me asking.
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MsMBV
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Re: If your SO ever cheated on you
Posted by Aliasmom
Posted by MsMBV
my Ex-FI cheated on me with a guy....I called off the wedding & have not spoken to him since. it was 11 years ago.
But I want to say that cheating of any sort would result in me leaving - I do not tolerate it & have never done it. What bothered me about ex FI was the combo of cheating & lying to me about who he was.
Wow, that's crazy. Was he experimenting or do you think that he was gay? if you don't mind me asking.
nope, I don't mind; he is full on gay...the good news (in a way, I guess) is that he is still with the guy. Hey as long as he is happy. I just wished that he would have told me....I actually found out by walking in on it.
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| Posted 8/3/05 12:52 PM |
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Re: If your SO ever cheated on you
Posted by MsMBV
Posted by Aliasmom
Posted by MsMBV
my Ex-FI cheated on me with a guy....I called off the wedding & have not spoken to him since. it was 11 years ago.
But I want to say that cheating of any sort would result in me leaving - I do not tolerate it & have never done it. What bothered me about ex FI was the combo of cheating & lying to me about who he was.
Wow, that's crazy. Was he experimenting or do you think that he was gay? if you don't mind me asking.
nope, I don't mind; he is full on gay...the good news (in a way, I guess) is that he is still with the guy. Hey as long as he is happy. I just wished that he would have told me....I actually found out by walking in on it.
OMG! I'm so sorry
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| Posted 8/3/05 12:53 PM |
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Tany
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Re: If your SO ever cheated on you
Posted by MsMBV
Wow, that's crazy. Was he experimenting or do you think that he was gay? if you don't mind me asking.
nope, I don't mind; he is full on gay...the good news (in a way, I guess) is that he is still with the guy. Hey as long as he is happy. I just wished that he would have told me....I actually found out by walking in on it.
omg, and to found out like that, i would have been heartbroken. But everything happens for a reason and know you found your soulmate.
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| Posted 8/3/05 12:53 PM |
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Ambersmom
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Re: If your SO ever cheated on you
Posted by Aliasmom
Posted by MsMBV
my Ex-FI cheated on me with a guy....I called off the wedding & have not spoken to him since. it was 11 years ago.
But I want to say that cheating of any sort would result in me leaving - I do not tolerate it & have never done it. What bothered me abotu ex FI was the combo of cheating & lying to me about who he was.
Wow, that's crazy. Was he experimenting or do you think that he was gay? if you don't mind me asking.
That happened to me (although I was not engaged to the guy). I was in an alternative lifestyle club with a childhood friend and I "bumped" into my then boyfriend holding some dude's hand. I literally felt like I could have fallen through the fall. I fell to pieces right there in the club. If it was a girl, I'm sure I would have been hurt as well, but to find him with the same sex brings in a whole other bag of issues. Him not being honest with me about his lifestyle choices, the concern over safe sex (thankfully I did NOTHING with him). It also made me question WHY I didn't pick up on what was going on with him, like my radar was off or something. It definitely messed me up for awhile and even after that, he didn't fess up to his real feelings. A catfight I'm always prepared for but to be looking in the face of a good looking guy mac'ing on your boyfriend is something I couldn't reconcile in my brain for some reason.
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Tany
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Re: If your SO ever cheated on you
Posted by ambersmom
That happened to me (although I was not engaged to the guy). I was in an alternative lifestyle club with a childhood friend and I "bumped" into my then boyfriend holding some dude's hand. I literally felt like I could have fallen through the fall. I fell to pieces right there in the club. If it was a girl, I'm sure I would have been hurt as well, but to find him with the same sex brings in a whole other bag of issues. Him not being honest with me about his lifestyle choices, the concern over safe sex (thankfully I did NOTHING with him). It also made me question WHY I didn't pick up on what was going on with him, like my radar was off or something. It definitely messed me up for awhile and even after that, he didn't fess up to his real feelings. A catfight I'm always prepared for but to be looking in the face of a good looking guy mac'ing on your boyfriend is something I couldn't reconcile in my brain for some reason.
Wow Shar, that's crazy too. that's why I said it would be worse because all the different issues that come with that, are worst I think.
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| Posted 8/3/05 12:59 PM |
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Re: If your SO ever cheated on you
Posted by Diamondgrlie
A woman would be worse because if he went with a man, I cant compete physically if thats what he is after.
GROSS to think about but thats how I feel.
I agree. I wouldn't feel lacking if FH cheated with a man.
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MrsJ
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Re: If your SO ever cheated on you
Posted by MsMBV
nope, I don't mind; he is full on gay...the good news (in a way, I guess) is that he is still with the guy. Hey as long as he is happy. I just wished that he would have told me....I actually found out by walking in on it.
OMG - that s*cks!!! I cant even imagine!!!
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MrsJ
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Re: If your SO ever cheated on you
My ex-FI cheated on me a couple of times (that I know of). He's a snake. He ended up getting married to someone else after I called off the wedding and he was emailing me all the time asking me to get together for "drinks" when his wife went out of town. Snake. I just found out the other day that after less than 2 yrs of marriage they are divorcing ...he cheated on her and beat her up too. He'll never change.
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Janice
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Re: If your SO ever cheated on you
I would rather he cheat with a guy, then I would not have to wonder what I could have done for him not to cheat.
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Re: If your SO ever cheated on you
OMG I have to say if it were with a man that would throw a whole new monkey wrench into the mess......I would feel like WHO am I married to?
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MsMBV
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Re: If your SO ever cheated on you
Posted by ambersmom
Posted by Aliasmom
Posted by MsMBV
my Ex-FI cheated on me with a guy....I called off the wedding & have not spoken to him since. it was 11 years ago.
But I want to say that cheating of any sort would result in me leaving - I do not tolerate it & have never done it. What bothered me abotu ex FI was the combo of cheating & lying to me about who he was.
Wow, that's crazy. Was he experimenting or do you think that he was gay? if you don't mind me asking.
That happened to me (although I was not engaged to the guy). I was in an alternative lifestyle club with a childhood friend and I "bumped" into my then boyfriend holding some dude's hand. I literally felt like I could have fallen through the fall. I fell to pieces right there in the club. If it was a girl, I'm sure I would have been hurt as well, but to find him with the same sex brings in a whole other bag of issues. Him not being honest with me about his lifestyle choices, the concern over safe sex (thankfully I did NOTHING with him). It also made me question WHY I didn't pick up on what was going on with him, like my radar was off or something. It definitely messed me up for awhile and even after that, he didn't fess up to his real feelings. A catfight I'm always prepared for but to be looking in the face of a good looking guy mac'ing on your boyfriend is something I couldn't reconcile in my brain for some reason.
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Re: If your SO ever cheated on you
If he is going to cheat I would hope it would be with a woman!
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| Posted 8/3/05 2:13 PM |
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Bebalina
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Re: If your SO ever cheated on you
Posted by Diamondgrlie
A woman would be worse because if he went with a man, I cant compete physically if thats what he is after.
GROSS to think about but thats how I feel.
i agree
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Dani
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Re: If your SO ever cheated on you
wosre if it were a woman. if it were a man, i would "understand" (not meaning i wouldnt CARE!) that maybe he had an identity thing he didnt face throughout his life and now he figured it out. of course i think the proper thing would be to discuss it with me before anything happened, and the realtionship would obviously end, but i would not feel as betrayed.
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MsMBV
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Re: If your SO ever cheated on you
Posted by Aliasmom
Posted by MsMBV
Wow, that's crazy. Was he experimenting or do you think that he was gay? if you don't mind me asking.
nope, I don't mind; he is full on gay...the good news (in a way, I guess) is that he is still with the guy. Hey as long as he is happy. I just wished that he would have told me....I actually found out by walking in on it.
omg, and to found out like that, i would have been heartbroken. But everything happens for a reason and know you found your soulmate.
Indeed I did
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Re: If your SO ever cheated on you
Posted by BNL2005
it wouldn't matter to me, man, woman or sheep....the fact that he did it would bother me more
me too
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Re: If your SO ever cheated on you
A woman cause if he wanted to be with men what am I to do?
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