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if your intern wrote you this...

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lilacwine
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Re: if your intern wrote you this...

how about a convo framed by, "in the future, when you're in a ft job at another company, this won't fly."

Posted 7/11/06 1:49 PM
 
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Beth
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Re: if your intern wrote you this...

Posted by lilacwine

how about a convo framed by, "in the future, when you're in a ft job at another company, this won't fly."



Chat Icon so true- I would love for him to say that at Jake's office- Jake would knock him into next week

Posted 7/11/06 1:51 PM
 

randella
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Re: if your intern wrote you this...

I'd respond with something like, so you know about my plans for tearing you a new a$$hole?

Posted 7/11/06 1:55 PM
 

jennandrob
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Re: if your intern wrote you this...

WOW, I'd be pretty livid

Posted 7/11/06 1:55 PM
 

Michelina627
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Re: if your intern wrote you this...

Tell him/her "since this is a learning experience, I'll take this as a teaching moment - if you speak / write like that in a real job you'd have a good chance of being fired or not taken seriously. If this continues, you'll be looking for a new internship" - if its a credit internship, I'd also say that you are going to include this in your review if this behavior continues.

Posted 7/11/06 2:06 PM
 

lorich
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Grammie says "Lora Gina"

Re: if your intern wrote you this...

WOW! That's completely uncalled for ...for anyone let alone an intern!Chat Icon

Posted 7/11/06 2:15 PM
 

LFitzy79
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Re: if your intern wrote you this...

I most likely would have laughed, and told them that better anticipating my needs would be more advantageous than writing little quips....but then again, I work in a really laid back environment...

Posted 7/11/06 2:25 PM
 

oneday
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Re: if your intern wrote you this...

I guess I would just assume he thought he was being cute - but I would want to discuss it with him and let him know that it was inappropriate. You are his boss and he should not speak (write) to you that way, but he may have thought your relationship was such that that would be ok.?
If not and he was being smart with you, I'd let him have it!

Posted 7/11/06 2:25 PM
 

jilmadison
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Re: if your intern wrote you this...

Wow! I would be mad

Posted 7/11/06 2:30 PM
 

PrincessP
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Re: if your intern wrote you this...

Maybe you should correct his humor now before he starts his real job and gets....FIRED!

Posted 7/11/06 2:32 PM
 

IluvBo
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Re: if your intern wrote you this...

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon I'd be ******! And I would definately say something! Wow!

Posted 7/11/06 2:33 PM
 

steph4777
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Re: if your intern wrote you this...

Posted by Michelina627

Tell him/her "since this is a learning experience, I'll take this as a teaching moment - if you speak / write like that in a real job you'd have a good chance of being fired or not taken seriously. If this continues, you'll be looking for a new internship" - if its a credit internship, I'd also say that you are going to include this in your review if this behavior continues.



I agree

Posted 7/11/06 2:37 PM
 

MrsMerlot
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Re: if your intern wrote you this...

Two Words: You're Fired...

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Posted 7/11/06 2:42 PM
 

Shanti
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Re: if your intern wrote you this...

Posted by Michelina627

Tell him/her "since this is a learning experience, I'll take this as a teaching moment - if you speak / write like that in a real job you'd have a good chance of being fired or not taken seriously. If this continues, you'll be looking for a new internship" - if its a credit internship, I'd also say that you are going to include this in your review if this behavior continues.



Well put.

Beth, I would be POed too!

Posted 7/11/06 2:55 PM
 

Sweetpea130000
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Re: if your intern wrote you this...

Posted by DMcK

Posted by Michelina627

Tell him/her "since this is a learning experience, I'll take this as a teaching moment - if you speak / write like that in a real job you'd have a good chance of being fired or not taken seriously. If this continues, you'll be looking for a new internship" - if its a credit internship, I'd also say that you are going to include this in your review if this behavior continues.



Well put.

Beth, I would be POed too!



Definitely well put!

I would be ******!!!!

Posted 7/11/06 2:58 PM
 

Beth
The Key to your new home....

Member since 2/06

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Re: if your intern wrote you this...

I told him it was uncalled for and unprofessional

he thought it would lighten the mood- biy did he misjudge that one

he is really getting on my nerves

Posted 7/11/06 3:05 PM
 

Kate07
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Re: if your intern wrote you this...

That's a freaking riot.

How's the ESP now - I see unemployment lines and poor intern evaluations....

Posted 7/11/06 3:09 PM
 

Waste06
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Re: if your intern wrote you this...

Posted by Michelina627

Tell him/her "since this is a learning experience, I'll take this as a teaching moment - if you speak / write like that in a real job you'd have a good chance of being fired or not taken seriously. If this continues, you'll be looking for a new internship" - if its a credit internship, I'd also say that you are going to include this in your review if this behavior continues.



I think this is a good way to handle it ^^

How much longer is he supposed to be there? Maybe you can set up an mid-point review and formally tell him these things, almost like a verbal warning. If you take things seriously, so should he. It's just disrespectful for him to talk to you that way. I hate slackers! What's with some of these kids these days?? Chat Icon
I know that's an overstatement and not all interns are slackers, but he's certainly not helping the situation!

Posted 7/11/06 3:11 PM
 
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