I am so sorry for your loss. I know that there just aren't any words to comfort you right now, so I won't even try. I can relate to how sad and devastated you and your DH must be feeling, and I'm so sorry you have to go through this..
I hope that the bereavement group can help you cope with your loss, and please if you need ANYTHING I am always here to chat .. FM or email me anytime
Michele, I am so heartbroken for you and your DH. My thoughts and prayers are with you both! Please know that we are all here for you if you need anything at all!